posted August 25, 2012 12:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Gray:
...They are?

Both signs always seemed more obsessed with themselves than anyone else, to me. Well, okay, barring when Scorpio has a crush or whatever, then their obsession bubble expands to include themselves and their current victim, uh, I mean, love interest.

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lol that is true, caps and scorps are completely obsessed with themselves and add in their target into the mix making it seem as tho they are solely after the other when in fact they just want the other to be in love obsessed with themselves..right on bro

posted August 25, 2012 01:04 PM            

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Originally posted by saggimoongirl:
CapSun: Thank you! I think that is an interesting analogy and kinda makes sense to me somehow. Does it mean the encounter has not yet end and there is an unfinished karma ... and Scorp may one day cross our paths ? And how do we go from here ? Hmm, not sure...there is someone else to fill the void, in actual fact he likes the Cap ..

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Karma is a huge wheel in the cycle of life. All Karma plays is your actions back to you that are set out forth in motion which tie up in another similar event and get thrown back at us. I wouldn't necessarily call the attraction/ obsession Karma because it has done nothing to be karmatic.

I look at it as a display set before us to make us feel, learn, heal, grow, maybe even distance ourselves from. It very well could be with the person involved or they just may be a target to get that objective observed. Take a whole look at your picture. Are you 100% positive this Scorpio is in the light for you? Or is it a lesson on the wheel for you? It could be either. If you get Scorpions returned gestures I'm sure there's a connection there between both of you. If he is more addicted to who he is with, it more than likely doesn't effect you at all personally.

Saggirl I don't know your full story. If you want to share it, I can diagnose it and give you an analogy.

posted August 25, 2012 01:31 PM            

I think he was my soul mate or something It was just that when he looked at me, I felt so special. As if he really knew me and loved me.

I feel happy around Capricorn people. They make me feel comfortable

posted August 25, 2012 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by beckylee:
I dated a Capricorn guy years ago and I'm still somewhat obsessed with him. (I'm a scorpio )

I think he was my soul mate or something It was just that when he looked at me, I felt so special. As if he really knew me and loved me.

I feel happy around Capricorn people. They make me feel comfortable

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We are good people.

posted August 27, 2012 03:39 AM            

The strange part is he has been dropping how ru ? notes once a month. And I could not help but return the reply. This went on for 2 years each month. Until I was fed up and decided not to continue the ‘charade” stopped writing back. For 6 months there was ‘silence’ . Then I for some reason beknown to me, I ‘liked’ his page on FB. And voila, we re-connected with each other again. He pops up suddenly on my chatroom and we will start making short talks. Why does he wants to keep in touch ? Is he feeding off my energy for him ?? I wonder, my attention for him and talking with me makes him feel special and attractive to the opposite sex, is that why ?? WHAT kind of soul connection is this !?
I felt the emotional roller coaster creeping up on me each time he keeps in touch . Wanting so bad to be with him together and see him and on the other hand I do not know what to do ! I have difficulty detach myself. I did not feel this bad when breaking up with my ex-Bfs. Emotionally, I am not interested in other men. How hard I try, the vibes I give out is pathetic! Omg. I pray hard everyday, some guy comes along , to sweep me off my feet so I can move on…. And all I can think about is the Scorp : (

posted August 27, 2012 12:18 PM            

I suspect this guy either A) didn't feel the same way about you when you told him so, B) is scared of his own shadow, C) doesn't know what he wants, D) sees what he can get away with. No man, no matter what their sign is if they are honest and true will play ANY games.

The on and off thing is so freaking insane, they pull you in just to play with you before they carry on to their next worthless mission in life. I know this is hard, but you have to let go. Letting go releases all your energy connected to this worm. Replacing him will not justify the answer either. Trust me I have tried. He knows you are hooked on him so he will keep doing as you do. He expects this behavior therefor he is in control. Unless you are a conceited capricorn that can play these petty juvenile games, just let go.

posted August 28, 2012 07:00 AM            

You say you have feelings towards this creature that won't go away. I will tell you this, they are there for a reason. If we could just shut these emotions off, it would be easy as 1 2 3. I totally believe in the power of resonating which can happen in ones life with more then one person at a time, but a Scorpio is usually devoted to one person. When it comes to confusion of what the other is bringing, it is in our own minds that is confusing us. They ain't doing it.

Sometimes we put thoughts into our heads that isn't true either. Sometimes we exaggerate on those thoughts and make them seem like they are real. Defining reality and illusions is a must in any situation. People say, "Oh they ain't doing anything to show interest, or they are doing everything opposite as to be interested." The fact of the matter is, some of this is not set into stone. I know this for a fact. The obvious is there, yet you feel this pull that magnets you to the other being. The Universe definitely has power over us more then we know. I am going to tell you this and I hope it helps.

You like this guy, that is obvious. He is not returning the devotion that you require. Most likely he is in some delusion himself where he thinks he has power over you and he knows it. They are masters at playing games. They do this simply because they want to know that you are all for them, and they have a fear of abandonment, especially from people they have strong attractions too. It's reverse psychology. We put our ugly face first, to see if the other will still tolerate us afterwards. We all do it. No matter what the sign is. Some of us are just more screwed up then others or get a thrill out of the whole charade. I can tell you this for a fact, go with that gut intuition. That will be your guide. Even if it seems unpractical or unreal logically, you still can safe bet that gut feeling. It is there for a reason. Like with my situation I have this strong driving force even though I have not been around him for a few weeks. It's still there. If I felt like this person was a traitor (nice word lol) or a schemer or a user or over all worm, I would not think twice about it. I have a deep strong sense of connection there no matter what the bond is. And let me tell you about connections.

They don't have to be romantic or sexual. There is such a thing as soul journeys that come on in an attracting way but mean so much more then that underneath the surface. Sometimes you can just feel that it's there. For instance, the second time I talked to my feller he walked away from me in mid sentence and I watched him walk away like I was nothing, and I thought to myself, 'so this is what I will be dealing with if I were ever in any situation with him, walking away.' I had better get used to that if that were so. I was upset about it for days. How could he?! Yet it didn't teeter me. It didn't dissuade my attendance towards him. I just figured he's a moody son of a gun and has his own issues and at that time did not want to deal with me. I got over it and embraced him back into my grace again. I understand why it is so hard reaching into him. It's that same pull that is there that won't allow him to get to close. At times when the driving force is so powerful, it does the opposite, it drives us away instead of to them. I realize that what is going on in his life is a deep personal matter that his trust guard is up. He wants something to do with me, but he doesn't know how to do it. I know this because I am the same way. We resonate with people who we can relate too, without saying words. The connection is there and all they may want is the soul interaction. That makes me feel so much better, whew! And this could also be your case too.

A soul journey is a beautiful place to be. It is so much more then any given personal factor one can have. When you connect with another soul, it bonds with you for life. Once the connection is there and has been made, you don't have to worry about them ever abandoning it. The first time I paid attention to mine was when a voice hit me and said, "pay attention to this guy". I didn't know why I was suppose to be paying attention to him at all, but I listened to my inner self and did just that. We were resonating without words. He was trying to read into me and I was trying to figure him out. It doesn't take me long to figure anyone out. What happened is the pull was too overwhelming and it extracted us. I backed away because I did not want to interfere with someone who is fragile. I break glass. I did this because I care. So that means when you are not getting what you want, think about them. We can be selfish beings, but a person who actually recognizes this soul connection will automatically respect the other person and give them their space. I feel like I over did some things and the righteous thing for me to do was give him his space. I am a strong believer in if whatever happens is suppose to happen. I reckon God directed me in this line of fire for a reason, and he will also intertwine it again when the time is correct to do so. I know that I will be seeing him again at some point. The pull is that strong. So ask yourself, what does your Scorpio want? Put him in place of yourself. Your answers become much clearer and you can figure out what to do yourself. Obsessing over them gives them a gloat of course but what does it do for you? Be the master of your own fate. Put the will where it belongs, right back into the universe. Stop trying to control something that you have no control over. If you realize this is a path from the director on a soul mission, everything is set in stone as it is. If it is not, and it's just some fling, it will disintegrate on its own. I have a high feeling that it's something meant to be in your life. You have put up with him for how long now? Unless he's killing you or hurting you in anyway, don't worry about it or the outcome.

I am not like others who say the plain and blunt, "oh he's not that into you". That's a crock and we both know it. If that were true we would know it and the situation would just dwindle. You, like myself came on a horoscope forum looking for an answer to fix your current problem. That means there is something there. You just have to figure out what it is. Do some deep soul searching and spend time on every aspect. It will come to you eventually.

posted August 28, 2012 12:28 PM            

Dang those Conjunctions : (

posted August 28, 2012 09:51 PM            

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Originally posted by saggimoongirl:
After the encounter with the Scorpio I felt my own intuition has failed me or has it? It is a muddle.
He said ‘forever friends’ and do not underestimate the friendship we have. Scorpio are such deep people. Is this a game play, I wonder?
So at the end that leaves me - a being with a dead soul ?

Dang those Conjunctions : (

Thank u, thank u, thank u ! I appreciate all your ‘ ramblings’.

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Intuition never fails us, ever. It is the very core of your being and will never steer you wrong. Take what is and look at that as your guide.
Forever Friends is a better place for you to be then on the outskirts with a Scorpio. That means he still cares. If and when he ignores you is when he has no time for you at all. Consider yourself lucky.
Scorpio's being such deep people, is never a game to them in the whole picture. Simple little things are, but the gigantic enormous being of themselves is true. Don't doubt his devotion for you.
A dead soul is one who has died inside and feels nothing. They have no remorse nor no code of feeling anything towards another.

Control is what you are trying to achieve. Stop trying to control it and let it be what it is. It could be a whole lot worse and you really could feel dead inside.

You got a good thing, take that with pride.

posted September 01, 2012 02:07 AM            

In all my breakups with my ex-BFs ie . out of sight, out of mind lol. They remain as my platonic friends. Detachment came quite easily . Usually, the reason is mutual and I take it as the ex-Bfs are not the right ones for me. I moved forward from past relationships with ex-bfs. : )

Perhaps, it’s my venus and mars in scorpio coming into play here. Is there any resolutions on letting go ? I agree, one do not control the situation. I have done yoga and meditation plus keeping busy with work and other activities. Also trying hard not think about being alone for the rest of my life lol. Part of me wanted to ask him out to see him for coffee or catch up ( We only see each other online now) And a few times, I wanted to say that I am not lying to him and what I said of my feelings is all true and honest. Often, I just wanted to tell him it’s not my ex-Bfs who is making my life miserable but it’s him. But I HELD MYSELF BACK Is that action considered letting go of control or being in control ? I dislike this situation of muddleness. True that there is a lesson to be learnt or the universe is morphing my life into a new being …

posted September 04, 2012 12:46 PM            

You have to look at yourself. Don't make him your excuse to why you feel the way you do. You are entirely trying to control a situation out of your hands. You are continuously focused on this target to make and break your life. Basically you are trying to get him to control your life and make it full or complete with his guidance. A friend nor a lover can do this sweet pea. You have to be the one to take charge of your own feelings. Then everything else becomes easier.

In my situation, I felt like I had been lied to the entire time I was trying to be a friend. I wanted to blame him and just go postal on him for being such a jerk. But the better part of me talked to myself instead. I said to myself, hey this is a guy here who obviously doesn't have his **** together. Nothing gained, nothing lost. He has to live with his actions, and how does that really effect me? I'm still me, I'm still able to control MY OWN life, his does not matter. There for I put the control and power back into my own little paws of being content with who I am and what I have. That is all that matters. A true being who will love you and support you will see you for YOU. All he can do is either be a friend or not. He chose not too. I have no time for figments in my imagination.

Your problem is you keep hanging onto this guy and he knows it. I want to ask you how you can be attracted to a guy who has someone else in his life anyway? Usually that just dies as soon as there is no give back. His give is all to her, girl. Even at a friend status, you should not be interfering in his ordeal he has elsewhere. I found out a few of my prospects have other women in their lives or at least living with them. It turned me right off. This weekend I found a female in my Scorpions residence. It burned, but what ever. I told myself, I can do better. And I can. So can you. This guy has no control over you unless you let him.

How to let go? Take it for what it is and burn that into your psychological core. You have to either be a friend, who isn't obsessed, or you have to just distance yourself and get over it. How do you get over it? What is it? It's torturing you. Tell yourself you deserve better then feeling like crap. If he makes you feel this way and you can't have him, its time to move on girlfriend. Tell him how you really feel, and also mention that you have to let him go for your own sanity. It really is that easy.

posted September 14, 2012 04:18 PM            

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Originally posted by CAY_512:
I know alot of Capricorn/Scorpio couples,as well as a ton of Virgo/Pisces couples.

I guess there are some Caps that just gave up and gave in to Scorpio lol

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