posted September 08, 2012 12:58 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
But as the moon does he feel the same in return? What does the moon want?

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I personally think that the moon person loves the venus person, because I tend to think that when venus is involved in a synastry aspect she is the one who attracts .

posted September 08, 2012 01:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I would say it's the same for me and for the charts that I have done, HOWEVER, it is the Venus person who acts cold because Saturn is not exactly a planet one wants to cuddle up to. Venus' reticence brings up Saturn's insecurities, and in return, Saturn acts standoffish.

Venus has to grow up to appreciate Saturn. If she refuses to grow up, the relationship is doomed. It she does grow up, the rewards would be immense for both. Saturn is powerful ally to have and it rewards very well. Of course, it also depends on how the Saturn person integrates her own Saturnian energies as well. An umbalanced Saturn will also doom a relationship.

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Hello

posted September 08, 2012 01:02 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Oh and the aspect is saturn conjunct venus

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posted September 08, 2012 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
I would say it's the same for me and for the charts that I have done, HOWEVER, it is the Venus person who acts cold because Saturn is not exactly a planet one wants to cuddle up to. Venus' reticence brings up Saturn's insecurities, and in return, Saturn acts standoffish.

Venus has to grow up to appreciate Saturn. If she refuses to grow up, the relationship is doomed. It she does grow up, the rewards would be immense for both. Saturn is powerful ally to have and it rewards very well. Of course, it also depends on how the Saturn person integrates her own Saturnian energies as well. An umbalanced Saturn will also doom a relationship.

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It's really interesting to have the other planet's point of view.

posted September 08, 2012 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by ueharaa:
It's really interesting to have the other planet's point of view.

I have been the venus in a saturn/ venus conjunction (actually it was a dw with my saturn also trining his venus). And I am almost convinced that first i was an unrequited love. He was in a relationship (talk about saturn putting obstacles) It was fated but in a not meant to be way. And I felt really underappreciated when I was around him. Not physically or my own personal qualities, but I felt like whenever I was somehow making efforts or showing appreciation, he would just not care. But it's true, most of the time I did act stand offish, and cold

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So you were venus, and you felt that it was unrequited love?

I am saturn and I feel like maybe he doesn't love me as the venus.

Isn't that so confusing?

posted September 08, 2012 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Hello

So I am saturn, but I am the significantly younger partner, and the venus is much much older male. How does that play out then? Can the Venus take the responsibility?

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posted September 08, 2012 02:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Age is relative. The younger partner being Saturn may be wanting the older partner being venus to make a commitment. Making a commitment is a way to grow up.

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posted September 08, 2012 02:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
yes ueharaa and AscLibraSagSun, it does look like Saturn Venus conjunctions bring up insecurities in both partners. Awareness of issues and willingness to work on them from both sides can make a relationship very rewarding. But it has to be both sides. It is a challenging aspect, but not as challenging and potentially heartbreaking as a square or opposition. Properly handled, it can glue a relationship for the better.

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posted September 08, 2012 11:53 PM            

Anyway, there's been this long winded sort of attraction over around 3yrs or so now, and there's been weird vibes over that time from some of his close cronies - all female - he collects girlfriend/fans of all ages and pretty much all women end up liking him. Naturally, with me having mars in leo conjunct his sun, I would tire of the competition I am sure, certainly with his girl tribe and also probably with him.

Anyway, last christmas work party, towards the end of the night he broke from our unrequited/mysterious connection and he caught my eye and mouthed 'call me' whilst doing the phone gesture to his ear/mouth. He had to repeat three times as even though I saw him, I couldn't seem to compute what he was saying. I responded by looking like 'oh, got it, you want me to call you' but I didn't say anything and just sort of ended up looking away. And I never referred to it, or called him, and then I left that work place early this year and haven't seen or heard of him since.

Anyhow, I think cougaring is pathetic and I sure don't like to be involved with someone who has a multitude of connections as I am pretty much a hermit and would hate to have to deal with his hoards. He grows his own veges so he's not all about drugs/alcohol and being loved up by everyone,but he doesn't drive and still lives with his mother in his mid thirties,and has never married or had kids - so I'm sure I can hear the robot out of lost in space yelling 'warning, warning...'.

Ok I admit it, I have given him a lot of thought and kind of tried on the relationship mentally, I am after all the pluto in the pluto/venus conjunction. But, it's all just too weird and freaks me out, and doesn't make sense. The aspects between us are significant but I am too old for him, and my eldest child is the same age difference to him as what I am to him. However, I think I would have always been aloof to him no matter what the age difference or my age.

He has a close venus/neptune square natally so probably tends to go for unattainable situations and if they are attainable he probably is inclined to make excuses to put it back.

Anyway,he has the most significant conjunctions/oppositions with the closest orb that I have ever had with anyone that I know of.