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Aeline
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posted September 08, 2012 02:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aeline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your experience? What is better - conjunction, trine, whatever?

One's emotions would react with the other's feelings, right? So, with a conjunction they would blend into each other, right?

What have you experienced with aspects between these planets? Spill out.

P.S. Not only in romantic ones, family and friends, or enemies as well.

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posted September 08, 2012 02:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have only experienced this aspect with my husband, we have Moon conjunction Venus. He's the Venus and I am Moon. It's a very forgiving aspect, when ever we argue about something, we can't stand mad at each other for very long. When I express emotions he in turn expresses his love. The astro books might be right about this one being a major aspect for marriages.

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posted September 08, 2012 02:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had it with my ex husband. It's a nice aspect to have, but I wouldn't say it is a sexual one.

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posted September 08, 2012 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
the square or opposition is best imo! sooo loving

ive had moon conjunct venus before and it isnt anything that great for me. moon trine and sextile venus is very sweet, but the square still wins it for me. Much more passionate feelings there.

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posted September 08, 2012 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had the conjunction and opposition.. Both just once.

The conjunction was nice.
I was in love.

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posted September 09, 2012 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
the square or opposition is best imo! sooo loving

ive had moon conjunct venus before and it isnt anything that great for me. moon trine and sextile venus is very sweet, but the square still wins it for me. Much more passionate feelings there.


My husband and I have Moon square Venus (1 degree orb)AND Moon opposed to Venus (4degree orb).
I have read the hard aspects are not helpful in a relationship. However what you are saying rings true to me! We have tons of passion and positive emotions and romance. There are mutually intense feelings of protection we also feel for eachother and what we bring out in eachother.

Can you say more about these two aspects???

Thank you.

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posted September 09, 2012 06:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think which aspects you prefer in synastry will depend on how your Moon and Venus are aspected natally.

I’ll use myself as an example…

Natally I’ve got Moon in Cancer quincunx Venus in Sagittarius within a degree. In the case of Venus, she also trines Saturn and Chiron, opposes Jupiter, semi-squares Uranus, and quintiles Pluto… Venus has plenty of outlets for her energy…

My Moon on the other hand has the sole aspect of a quincunx to Venus. So my Moon is a little stressed. What I’ve noticed is that if something conjuncts my Venus it may quincunx my Moon, but it’s quite Pleasant for the most part because Venus has other aspects… But when something conjuncts my Moon, it’s like it emphasizes the awkwardness of the quincunx, because the Moon only has the one stressful aspect.

For this reason, I seem to prefer aspects other then the conjunction of Venus and the Moon. They may work marvelously for others but in my case they just don’t work so well. Venus in Capricorn opposite my Moon is quite lovely for me because then the Moon has somewhere to funnel her energy in a direct way. It’s nice. I had this with a female co-worker and there was just a natural affection between us.

Another thing I’ve noticed is that same planet quincunxes are more confusing and awkward then different planet quincunxes. Like Mercury quincunx Mercury is worse then Mercury quincunx Venus, because then the two mental facilities fail to make sense to each other. It makes all communication in the relationship challenging. The quincunx is a rather indirect energy (but also perceptive, and insightful) which is difficult in relationships. Squares at least are direct.

Using myself as an example again, when Cancer Venus conjuncts my Cancer Moon it also creates a Venus/Venus quincunx with my Sag Venus… So expressing affection and relating becomes awkward overall. And when Sagittarius Moon conjuncts my Sagittarius Venus it creates a Moon/Moon quincunx… Making shared intimacy and emotional expression awkward… Venus/Moon conjunctions don’t work as well in my chart. One exception to this might be if the other person has a different planet making an opposition of a soft aspect to my Moon in synastry to diffuse my quincunx… In such cases a conjunction might work alright.

In general though I do much better with Venus/Venus conjunctions, and Moon/Moon conjunctions then Venus/Moon conjunctions…. Because then there is no same planet quincunx. Venus/Moon oppositions, trines, sextiles, and squares usually work fine.

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posted September 09, 2012 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi CRCRINCON and CIND3R
Compatibility is way more than one aspect. Particularly, from my experience, the composite seems to be most important. CIND3R, if you had moon conjunct venus in synastry, and you say you were in love, that could easily be because of a love stellium in the composite, or some other configuration like composite moon in hard aspect to venus with venus in aspect to pluto. We could also say that your moon square venus experience was due to a poor composite. CRCRINCON, if you have the double whammy, that is a very good indication. However, synastry doesnt exist by itself. We must also look at the composite. If you love someone, your composite will also be significant, not just your synastry. Squares are always more compelling than conjunctions or any other aspect. They create an obsession. This is why moon square venus is so potent. If you experience stronger feelings for someone over somebody else, what I'm saying is, there are lots of factors to consider, that may not have to do with moon square venus being there or not. You have to look at the compatibility as a whole, because certain configurations are more potent than others. And yes, configurations means, certain aspects existing with other aspects, in both composite and synastry.

This also goes with what Lotis White was saying. Certain aspects will cause certain other aspects to occur in synastry, depending on what your own natal chart looks like. It's not to say that all aspects don't have the same effect on everyone, because I believe they certainly do. But we have to look at the compatibility as a whole. Someone's venus may square your moon, which may cause that planet to square another because you the square natally, but the orb matters a great deal. We could find someone born on the day after that person who has that aspect at much wider orb with you and who you will feel the moon square venus more strongly with. At the end of the day, we shouldn't hypothesize too much without looking at the compatibility as a whole.
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posted September 09, 2012 08:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've added what I feel the ideal compatibility configurations are from looking at lots of charts to my signature. There are also readings done that serve as examples in my signature as well as the thread where I posted

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posted September 09, 2012 10:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I couldn't agree more! And fantastic information. I've been studying for years alone (never in a class) but Ive done readings for people with just their natal charts and been very successful. So I'm knowledgable of how important it is to look at the the whole picture.

But relationship analysis still confuses me at times and Ive years and spent hours and hours studying and analyzing synastry in books and with my family and friends charts to study from.

But with my husband what has confused me, though I know we work so beautifully is our lack of really ANY major conjunctions with in a tight orb that would create the intensity we experience. I guess more in that traditional oh you sun and my moon kind of way. I am still learnin g about the blended energies of ones individual chart WITH regards to how is enhances the synastry aspects. So very helpful information. Thank you.

Also, my husband and I have an amazing composite with a kite. I don't study the composite as much as I do synastry. Maybe that's where I should begin to spend more time. ??? I should post it here to see because it is really quite lovely.

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posted September 09, 2012 10:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
read the last two links in my signature (my post in each of those 2 threads)

put your info into grupovenus.com's compatibility for lovers
to find all the double whammies that count

And put your info into astrology3d.com's compatibiltiy for lovers to find all the minor aspects in the composite that count

That is what i've found is the pattern in compatibility

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posted September 09, 2012 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for C1ND3R     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With all due respect, runaround.. I'm by no means a newbie and you were wrong on both accts. Composite venus' were conjunct and both were conjunct my natal venus, his natal venus, mars and my moon.

There was no hard aspect between venus and pluto or venus and moon, even in the composite.

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posted September 09, 2012 02:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tofu addict     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aeline:
Your experience? What is better - conjunction, trine, whatever?

One's emotions would react with the other's feelings, right? So, with a conjunction they would blend into each other, right?

What have you experienced with aspects between these planets? Spill out.

P.S. Not only in romantic ones, family and friends, or enemies as well.



His venus is conjunct my Moon, BLISS, Saturn is in the mix as well, slapbang in top of it, his Saturn. We met later in life, but never looked back.It is all in sagitarius. We are very close, understanding with no words, and as somebody already mentioned, very forgiving, sex is not that high on the agenda, but loving is.

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posted September 09, 2012 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CRCRINCON     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, I own SolarFire...so I don't need any external free program to do the analysis for me. Those free reports aren't very helpful for me at this point in astrological understanding. I know what the aspects are between us...it's more I don't feel we have some of the major aspects people say should lead to such a successful marriage. Except for our composite. Our composite is pretty amazing as I said before.

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posted September 12, 2012 02:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I made a thread about this aspect a few years ago. Its funny how astrology works! I have the same feelings about this aspect that you do! I call Venus conjunct Moon the "aspect of forgiveness."

I dated a woman whom I had venus conjunct moon 0˚ and man, just like you, we could not stay mad at each other for long at all. Stuff that I would have major heartburn over with other women, just seemed like it was not a big deal when I was with her. I was Venus and she was the moon. It is a nice aspect to have. You just have to be careful not to be too forgiving and gloss over serious red flags!

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posted March 01, 2013 05:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think moon trine/sextile/conjunct venus is always the best!!!!! i can always feel it too when i have this when somebody

makes my heart feel very warm )) and i feel so lovey towards them...defintely a good aspect to have so dreammmyyyy!!!!!!!!!

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posted January 17, 2015 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lavender CrystalSwan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
I had it with my ex husband. It's a nice aspect to have, but I wouldn't say it is a sexual one.

It can be, depending on which houses the Moon and Venus rule and what planets they aspect.

In our case it's my Moon (and Mars) conjunct my guy's Venus (his 2nd house ruler) and I'd say there's definitely a very physical/sensual side to it.

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posted January 17, 2015 05:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Have only experienced this aspect with my husband, we have Moon conjunction Venus. He's the Venus and I am Moon. It's a very forgiving aspect, when ever we argue about something, we can't stand mad at each other for very long. When I express emotions he in turn expresses his love. The astro books might be right about this one being a major aspect for marriages.

i hope i have this in my next relationship i endured years of an unforgiving partnership until i realised i needed a partner who is able to forgive, is a little lighter and not so heavy. I'm a very forgiving type, despite my scorp asc but he just wasn't able to - cap moon? not sure of our moon aspects or moon/venus. we had mars/venus square though. eek.

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posted January 17, 2015 06:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Supreme cT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I never had a moon conjunct venus relationship with anybody but i have had sun conjunct venus i LOVE it! What aspect does everyone like more ? Sun conjunct venus or moon conjunct venus?

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posted January 17, 2015 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alyssa27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have moon trine venus now with my bf..it's definitely a sweet aspect ..a forgiving aspect as well
i never had the conjunct but i bet that is a great aspect too

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posted January 17, 2015 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have moon in pisces(in his 11th house) opposite venus in libra(in my 4th house) with my boyfriend! And we are in love very much! Been together for almost 2 years

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posted January 17, 2015 10:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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