posted September 16, 2012 03:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
To CRCRINCON and Love TrulyAlways, I have some questions for you:

In which houses does your natal Venus and Uranus fall in your chart and also in your partner's chart. In which houses in your chart your partner's Venus and Uranus fall?

I am trying to determine if the houses placements of Venus and Uranus determine whether or not this challenging aspect can be tolerated or not. Thanks a lot.

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My Pluto in 7th. My Venus in 12th. My Pluto in her 3rd. My Venus in her 8th.

Her Pluto in 4th. Her Venus in 3rd. Her Pluto in my 7th. Her Venus in my 7th.

Composite Venus in 7th. Composite Pluto in 5th.

posted September 16, 2012 04:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Fascinating. Thanks for the breakdown.

Both charts do seem to have unusual Uranian aspects, and I guess that makes it easier to deal with Venus square Uranus in synastry.

How did the Uranus play out in the composite? Still many challenging aspects?

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Here is our composite. And though we have Saturn in 5th, we have a beautiful little 2 year old Cancer daughter.

posted September 16, 2012 11:02 PM              

It would match up with the description of this aspect though he is Hawaiian/Japanese/White from Hawaii, and I am just white and from the midwest lol and... he is almost 2 years younger than me. Which in most cases would be a deal breaker at this age tbh. Ohh and then the main reason this probably couldn't turn into anything is that one of the mutual friends I met him through apparently had a thing for him for a long time but he wasn't interested.. She said she's over it and wouldn't care if we ended up dating, but my loyalty is definitely to my friend over a guy I barely know. Anway it's funny because before even looking up our synastry I remember thinking he must be attracted to me because I seem "different" to him, and I am interested in his story as well..

posted September 16, 2012 11:24 PM            

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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
Here is our composite. And though we have Saturn in 5th, we have a beautiful little 2 year old Cancer daughter.

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Congrats on your baby girl.

You do have an interesting compo. The sun is square Uranus, therefore repeating the Uranian challenge, but you also have venus and Mercury conjunct and trine Neptune.

posted September 16, 2012 11:29 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
My Pluto in 7th. My Venus in 12th. My Pluto in her 3rd. My Venus in her 8th.

Her Pluto in 4th. Her Venus in 3rd. Her Pluto in my 7th. Her Venus in my 7th.

Composite Venus in 7th. Composite Pluto in 5th.

So, very married. And focused on kids.

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posted September 16, 2012 11:54 PM            

In composite, there is venus(7th) sq uranus(5th) with a guy , it sucks with timing problem!!
I did like him a lot, the energy kinda on-off repeatly( ok for me, at least it'll be ON again). But, hard for us to meet each other, not mention we are long distances. Like sun(day) and moon(night), when he is free and ask for a date, I am busy (sure I will cooperate,it's just not the perfect time, not in my mood). when I want to see him, he is all on making money. We kept in touch by what's app/line.....but can't be too often.

posted September 17, 2012 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cpezfileK38f86-u1035237995/astro_61gw_23_01_to_ri_cr _c.13709.15698.pdf

Thanks Belage! I also think because it is at a wider orb 5, in our synasty it is not one of closest aspects. Here is our grid of synastry if you want to check it out. I attached the PDF. It may time out but the link is there now. We don't have the classical sun moon aspects either. And we have strong squares too! I love astrology but our marriage doesn't fit the norm for making such a happy relationship. Well,I guess it does have some like Venus tribe Jupiter and mars trine Venus and SN conjunct Sun, but as far as suns being compatible and sun moon etc.

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Congrats!

Looking at your synastry, I don't think the venus-uranus would be a problem for you. Many astrologers only use 3degs max, plus you guys have some really nice saturn aspects which will keep you stable

posted September 17, 2012 08:21 PM            

I notice a different nationality theme going on..

I have this with the fish.. We are also different nationalties.. We have a six year age difference..

One night I asked him, what do u like abt me.. He said idk your just so exciting to me..

I immediately thought ahhh venus/uranus..
I'm uranus and he is venus...
Since we have the age difference we are not use to the generational aspects to each other...

I have uranus in h7 with sextiles my sun, moon merc.

posted September 17, 2012 09:05 PM            

I notice a different nationality theme going on..

I have this with the fish.. We are also different nationalties.. We have a six year age difference..

One night I asked him, what do u like abt me.. He said idk your just so exciting to me..

I immediately thought ahhh venus/uranus..
I'm uranus and he is venus...
Since we have the age difference we are not use to the generational aspects to each other...

I have uranus in h7 with sextiles my sun, moon merc.

posted September 19, 2012 01:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Congrats!

Looking at your synastry, I don't think the venus-uranus would be a problem for you. Many astrologers only use 3degs max, plus you guys have some really nice saturn aspects which will keep you stable

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posted October 10, 2012 08:21 PM            

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Have you ever fallen in love at first sight? You know, that exciting, heart-stopping feeling you experienced the first time you laid your eyes on that special someone? You might have had a Venus-Uranus synastry aspect with that person. You likely met this person when one of you was searching for something new and exciting, completely out of the norm of your other relationships. Maybe this person came from a different cultural background than you. Maybe you felt stuck in your stale marriage, and you then met an interesting, intriguing younger man who completely swept you off your feet. Uranus serves to jolt us awake, making us aware of our need for independence, individuality, and stimulates our desire for the unique. Uranus beckons us to take the road less traveled, to step out of our comfort zone and into new, fresh experiences.

Venus-Uranus in Synastry

When Venus meets Uranus, the chemistry is unmistakable. You probably met suddenly, and unexpectedly. The Uranus person is enamored by the Venus person’s grace and beauty, while the Venus person is intrigued by the excitement and unpredictability the Uranus person promises. You feel you have met your soul mate, and the relationship starts with a bang. The intellectual connection is through the roof; you feel you have met someone with whom you can share your unusual interests. Along with this connection is a strong physical and sexual attraction.

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As with all outer planet to inner planet synastry aspects, the outer planet person usually has the upper hand in this relationship. As the relationship progresses and things start to get comfortable, Uranus may begin to withdraw. Why is this? Well, Uranus represents freedom and independence, and has a disdain for tradition, while Venus seeks harmony and cooperation. Venus wants romance and peace, while Uranus wants excitement and freedom. When Venus gets too close to Uranus, Uranus may distance himself from Venus. Uranus may begin to feel Venus wants more of a commitment than he can handle. Venus brings out Uranus' desire for freedom, which makes settling down into a commitment very difficult. Perhaps as the two settle into a routine, Uranus gets bored and seeks excitement elsewhere. Uranus is a rebellious planet, and may resent the fact that Venus wants to “tie him down.” Indeed, what started out as a torrid, exciting love affair can quickly degenerate into an unstable, unpredictable situation.

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Venus-Uranus relationships are marked by an on-off energy between the couple. Numerous separations, often at key moments, characterize this relationship. Indeed, the ability to count on one another is tarnished with this aspect. Venus finds it difficult to get Uranus to commit, and becomes frustrated by Uranus’ inconstancy. Venus’ initial feelings of excitement soon turn into feelings of frustration and disappointment at the perceived lack of interest on Uranus’ part. Indeed, this relationship has the potential of ending just as quickly as it began.

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This aspect is also found in the synastry charts of long-distance relationships, interracial relationships, or relationships in which there exists a large age difference. Either way, the relationship itself is unconventional in some manner.

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This description relates especially to hard aspects between Venus and Uranus in synastry. The trine and sextile are far more manageable; they inject excitement and unpredictability into the relationship, but are not as destabilizing and upsetting as we would experience in the case of hard aspects.

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Note: Hard aspects between Venus and Uranus on their own do not spell doom for a couple. With the right amount of stabilizing aspects (e.g. Saturn), this relationship can last for a long time. Individuals with Venus in Earth or Water will have a more difficult handling this aspect than individual with Venus in Fire or Air.

posted October 10, 2012 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by crissyx89:
On and off again relationships lacks stability.

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posted February 09, 2015 07:22 AM            

Perhaps another thing might be that we sometimes "log out" from eachother when still near ie same room, and we can be quiet for hours and hours and hours until we log back on.