posted September 13, 2012 10:15 PM            

Only time i would recommend it is when someone has that aspect natally or a link between the two.

posted September 13, 2012 10:37 PM            

The guy I was involved with had this natally but notin his progressed chart. While I don't have it natally, it's part of my progressed chart. I have venus trine uranus natally though.

We had this aspect in synastry, we were in a different sort of relationship. And while he was not someone I would expect to fall for, I really cared for him. Faults and all.

My venus qquintile his uranus.
His venus squared my uranus.

It wasn't a fling or superficial. It was more spiritual, and I see him still affected by it as I am. Ending it was really hard. It was my idea to stop talking to him.

posted September 14, 2012 12:13 AM            

It's just wonderful.

From Sky View Zone:

Venus Conjunct Uranus in Synastry

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is in conjunction with your partner’s Uranus? Your relationship begins with instantaneous attraction, originality, and unconventional attitudes. Be ready for surprises. Your romantic partner challenges you to be open, flexible, and willing to change. If your romantic partner’s Venus is in conjunction with your Uranus, he/she is attracted to your spontaneity and unpredictability, willing to experiment with some of your new ideas about love and relationship. Seize happiness in the moment, every moment, and don't ever take your partnership for granted. Keep it forever fresh.

This is one indication of a powerful, sudden, and electric attraction. It is often indicative of a situation where one feels "love at first sight". If you get together, a sexual relationship may begin quickly, before you truly get to know each other. A mutual sharing of unusual interests is indicated. The attraction to and fascination with each other may be erratic or variable; or it may subside as suddenly as it started. It is vital that each gives the other freedom in order for this relationship to work. Attempts to give this relationship too much structure can drive a wedge between the two. It is likely that the Venus person will eventually crave more constancy from the Uranus person than he or she is willing to give.

Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality.

posted September 14, 2012 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
I have the Conjunction. Not the same as a Square but still a harsh aspect.

It's just wonderful.

From Sky View Zone:

Venus Conjunct Uranus in Synastry

What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is in conjunction with your partner’s Uranus? Your relationship begins with instantaneous attraction, originality, and unconventional attitudes. Be ready for surprises. Your romantic partner challenges you to be open, flexible, and willing to change. If your romantic partner’s Venus is in conjunction with your Uranus, he/she is attracted to your spontaneity and unpredictability, willing to experiment with some of your new ideas about love and relationship. Seize happiness in the moment, every moment, and don't ever take your partnership for granted. Keep it forever fresh.

This is one indication of a powerful, sudden, and electric attraction. It is often indicative of a situation where one feels "love at first sight". If you get together, a sexual relationship may begin quickly, before you truly get to know each other. A mutual sharing of unusual interests is indicated. The attraction to and fascination with each other may be erratic or variable; or it may subside as suddenly as it started. It is vital that each gives the other freedom in order for this relationship to work. Attempts to give this relationship too much structure can drive a wedge between the two. It is likely that the Venus person will eventually crave more constancy from the Uranus person than he or she is willing to give.

Union or love will be very strong, not at all intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality.

http://www.skyviewzone.com/lovematch/venussynastryaspects.htm

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posted September 14, 2012 01:51 AM            

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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
My husband has the square it natally. We have it in synastry as well. I am Aquarius moon and have Sun parallel Uranus. He is Mexican and I am white and this aspect can indicate biracial relationships. We have everything listed above! We have been married for 4 yrs together since 2006. I'm still as madly inlove as day one! We have a magical love story and I feel very blessed! So definitely not always a bad aspect!

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posted September 14, 2012 02:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I'm glad you brought that up because I've noticed time and time again that this aspect works for "orignal, unique, and quirky" relationships. Whether it be there culture, age, and maybe even physical differences like height/weight. Also, I think it's best if there are strong uranus aspects in there own charts, like your husband. Otherwise, it could be too much to handle ( I have this aspect as well )

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Ours was a difference in

- religion
- education
- race
- location ( It was a long distance thing)
- social standing
- even politically we are of two different parties. : /
- huge height difference

posted September 14, 2012 02:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Ours was a difference in

- religion
- education
- race
- location ( It was a long distance thing)
- social standing
- even politically we are of two different parties. : /
- huge height difference

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posted September 14, 2012 03:58 AM            

this guy I'm been seeing for literally a year now.
he's 10 years older than me and living with his ex wife. the first second we met was instant-gaga attraction i never felt before and the attraction is still exciting and passionate. PHENOMENAL

posted September 14, 2012 06:17 AM            

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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
My husband has the square it natally. We have it in synastry as well. I am Aquarius moon and have Sun parallel Uranus. He is Mexican and I am white and this aspect can indicate biracial relationships. We have everything listed above! We have been married for 4 yrs together since 2006. I'm still as madly inlove as day one! We have a magical love story and I feel very blessed! So definitely not always a bad aspect!

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Congratulations! Wife is Caucasian and I'm Asian. 20 years next May.

posted September 14, 2012 10:31 AM            

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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Interesting, and would you agree that this aspect "worked" for you despite leaving later on?

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Yeah, the differences eventually became nonissues. It wasn't that big of a deal because we shared the same life principles. That was one thing that we hadn't seen in others and though was quite rare. We were at ease with each other and were very comfortable.

The reason for the break was probably the neptune and 12th house effects. There was lots we were holding back, while we did divulge the most to one another. I've never told anyone about my "secrets" and neither has he, but eventually we started telling each other very sensitive and exclusive info. lol But after a point, even that wasn't enough, we realized that it was just too much that wasn't expressed and hidden.

posted September 14, 2012 07:05 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Congratulations! Wife is Caucasian and I'm Asian. 20 years next May.

We both have this in our natals as well.

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posted September 15, 2012 01:54 AM            

In which houses does your natal Venus and Uranus fall in your chart and also in your partner's chart. In which houses in your chart your partner's Venus and Uranus fall?

posted September 15, 2012 01:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Lioness:
I guess it depends on it it's some how out of the norm.

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posted September 15, 2012 02:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
To CRCRINCON and Love TrulyAlways, I have some questions for you:

In which houses does your natal Venus and Uranus fall in your chart and also in your partner's chart. In which houses in your chart your partner's Venus and Uranus fall?

I am trying to determine if the houses placements of Venus and Uranus determine whether or not this challenging aspect can be tolerated or not. Thanks a lot.

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posted September 15, 2012 11:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Taking note, CRCRINCON. that these planets fall in each other's important relationship's sectors. I also wonder if either or both of you also have Aquarius sun, venus or rising, or natal Uranus powerful in the natal chart.

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Hi Belage. No. He has gemini sun Third house. My Virgo sun is 8th house and that is where my Venus is too. (forgot to tell you that in last post). But along with that moon Aquarius in the 1st I have my sun parallel Uranus is a strong aspect to have in a chart. And I have Uranus conjunct mc natally. I have uranus square saturn natally. My husband has sun semi sequadrate Uranus, mercury trine Uranus, Uranus inconjunct AC and Uranus sextile MC. So it's strong in both our charts! We also share the generational Chiron opposed Uranus natally and through synastry. I've spent a great deal of time trying to figure out the Uranus aspects in our chart and have concluded our biracial marriage is part of it, we also got together in an unusual way, and then personality wise we are unique.

posted September 15, 2012 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by CRCRINCON:
Hi Belage. No. He has gemini sun Third house. My Virgo sun is 8th house and that is where my Venus is too. (forgot to tell you that in last post). But along with that moon Aquarius in the 1st I have my sun parallel Uranus is a strong aspect to have in a chart. And I have Uranus conjunct mc natally. I have uranus square saturn natally. My husband has sun semi sequadrate Uranus, mercury trine Uranus, Uranus inconjunct AC and Uranus sextile MC. So it's strong in both our charts! We also share the generational Chiron opposed Uranus natally and through synastry. I've spent a great deal of time trying to figure out the Uranus aspects in our chart and have concluded our biracial marriage is part of it, we also got together in an unusual way, and then personality wise we are unique.

His rising is Aries and mine is cap btw.

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Fascinating. Thanks for the breakdown.

Both charts do seem to have unusual Uranian aspects, and I guess that makes it easier to deal with Venus square Uranus in synastry.

posted September 16, 2012 09:34 AM            

We had two blissful days, hooking up since has been tricky, something always comes up.

posted September 16, 2012 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
Fascinating. Thanks for the breakdown.

Both charts do seem to have unusual Uranian aspects, and I guess that makes it easier to deal with Venus square Uranus in synastry.

How did the Uranus play out in the composite? Still many challenging aspects?

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posted September 16, 2012 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Belage:
To CRCRINCON and Love TrulyAlways, I have some questions for you:

In which houses does your natal Venus and Uranus fall in your chart and also in your partner's chart. In which houses in your chart your partner's Venus and Uranus fall?

I am trying to determine if the houses placements of Venus and Uranus determine whether or not this challenging aspect can be tolerated or not. Thanks a lot.

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Hi Belage,

I'm no expert, so I'm going to direct you to all the charts for your expert analysis.

Sorry it took me some time to get back to you.
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/002836.html