posted October 02, 2012 03:18 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
They say Composite Sun in 6th sux. I see that Crcrincon has it too. It's supposed to make marriage a drudgery and a lot of work, and one person is supposed to serve the other and get oppressed blah blah blah

Well, I'm here to prove them wrong. Crcrincon seems to have a great marriage too.

Well, not to get too personal, but if you wanna smack talk my marriage, then show me you have a successful marriage yourself... rofl... the last two astrologers that smack talked me were divorced... roflmao

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posted October 02, 2012 03:26 PM              

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
^^^ If nobody cooks and does the dishes, would there even be a wonderful meal? People think stuff gets magically thrown on their laps and they live in dating fantasy land.

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That is exactly why a Sun in 6th house in composite is not always bad news. Besides the romance you need to be able to share your lives on a daily basis. And what better house than the 6th for that?

posted October 02, 2012 03:33 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
^^^ If nobody cooks and does the dishes, would there even be a wonderful meal? People think stuff gets magically thrown on their laps and they live in dating fantasy land.

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lol! Very True!

posted October 02, 2012 03:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
That is exactly why a Sun in 6th house in composite is not always bad news. Besides the romance you need to be able to share your lives on a daily basis. And what better house than the 6th for that?

Besides I think you have Virgo-DSC,right? You might have a fondness for the practicality of the 6th house anyway.

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posted October 02, 2012 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
You what would have helped the data gathering is if we had people who were married at least 10 years if not more. I mean, not to sound like a downer but lots of people rush into marriage only to break it off. I think RAS mentioned that Kim Kardashian and Kris had a love stellium but how long was the marriage? A whopping 70 days

It's not to say they might not get back together later, but it's highly unlikely with the flow of people into their lives.

Anyway, I was just thinking that while gathering data when I look at someone's chart, who say has been married only 6 months....it's beautiful to study but it's not practical to add to the data or aspect gathering. There is no proven long term effect there... yet.

Anyway, I think from now on, I'll compare charts of people who have been together for at least 10 years in marriage. That should be significant. Maybe it should be 20 years? What do you guys think?

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I think that's why it's helpful when people say how long the marriage has been. But still, I think it would be nice to see what aspects might lead to the marriage to begin with. I have had love stelliums that didn't last. And some that never really became anything serious at all. Life-long marriages have to start somewhere.

It would be interesting to look at composites of divorced couples as well. But that's a whole different animal.

posted October 02, 2012 04:43 PM            

I will post the composites of 4 couples, ranging in duration from almost 10 years to almost 25 years. One of the couples divorced (my parents). I'll make them the first chart:

My parents: Married for 17 years. ***Please note that birth times are sketchy at best so look to aspects, not houses***

posted October 02, 2012 04:52 PM            

This is our synastry chart. We are friendly to each other but in my opinion, not in any way shape or form, compatible.

Im on the inside.

Our Composite:

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 02, 2012 09:27 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:
got gemini - that is a love stellium! venus conjunct sun with sun conjunct mercury. won't you post the aspect grid, pretty please?

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Sure! Composite:

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted October 02, 2012 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
25 years post-marriage should be the minimum standard. I dunno. I've not heard very many marriages past 25 years that fall apart.

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My grandparents did. It was a good thing, though.

posted October 02, 2012 11:09 PM            

They were separated since 2010.

They are in the process of divorce.
Filled with ALOT of physical, mental, and verbal abuse and disagreements and it took a toll on our household. Even after, grandma is still dependent upon him. Birth times are NOT accurate.

posted October 03, 2012 12:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Here is a 36 year marriage between My grandparents.

They were separated since 2010.

They are in the process of divorce.
Filled with ALOT of physical, mental, and verbal abuse and disagreements and it took a toll on our household. Even after, grandma is still dependent upon him. Birth times are NOT accurate.

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Ah, gosh that's sad, especially after all those years.

posted October 03, 2012 12:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Ah, gosh that's sad, especially after all those years.

I checked the chart with the list and one thing that others have is mercury aspecting asc. So far all of them have. But maybe it's the uranus affecting the stellium?

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Yeah :/

I thought it was that too, although Uranus only makes a direct aspect to the Sun but that can mean erratic energy overall and rebelling against tradition and each other maybe.

I do think it is Pluto conjunct SN/Opposed NN, repeating the experience of battling each other, control, and abuse. Or maybe not.

But just to add, it wasn't always sad, they were actually middle school sweethearts. They had never really dated other people seriously and they seemed happy until Gdad joined the Navy and each developed serious health issues and all.

posted October 03, 2012 01:50 AM            

About the Got Gemini's composite...the reason why you guys feel incompatible is bc whenever composite mars negative aspect pluto OR saturn is present, it basically ruins the compatibility. It is really bad, and can lead to abuse.
But yes, that is a love stellium, and that is why you were drawn in the beginning. A uranus affliction is nothing major, as long as you've got some pluto going on, check peachbeigeblue's composite.....but if you have either of those two afflicions to composite mars you can basically consider urself screwed.

posted October 03, 2012 01:59 AM            

I am trying to take what she has taught me about the love stellium, my own personal experiences with it, and observe these charts to find out what makes a love stellium long lasting. Or a non love stellium marriage long lasting.

At a glance - I think it's interesting that the charts of which are currently are married have composite suns in feminine sun signs. Maybe I sound like a broken record but I personally can tell the difference when it's feminine vs masculine composite sun! I suspect there is something to this. The majority are in earth and water for the long lasting marriages.

My hope is that we collect enough of these charts to find a pattern to the love stellium or non love stellium composite chart marriages

posted October 03, 2012 05:24 AM            

C. venus conjunct moon and pluto in synastry is what brought them together

Chris Brown and Rihanna's composite

In their synastry. From grupovenus:

Chris's Sun opposition Rihanna's Pluto orb 2° 34'

There is a powerful, inner bond that has drawn you to each other. You draw out each other's inner feelings, goals, and ambitions, and it seems that any encounter between the two of you becomes a deep, heart-to-heart encounter; this is not a light, frivolous, or superficial relationship! You are fascinated and intrigued by each other, and there is a compelling quality to your interactions.

posted October 03, 2012 11:55 AM            

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Originally posted by Sorcha:
Okay, last one to make it five. This last couple has been married for (I think) 35 years. They truly cannot stand one another, sleep in separate beds, argue constantly and yet they stay married. ***The birth times, again, are sketchy. It's very hard with the older generation (I find) to get accurate birth times so ignore house position and focus on aspects****

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posted October 03, 2012 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by peachbeigeblue:

At a glance - I think it's interesting that the charts of which are currently are married have composite suns in feminine sun signs. Maybe I sound like a broken record but I personally can tell the difference when it's feminine vs masculine composite sun! I suspect there is something to this. The majority are in earth and water for the long lasting marriages.

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I think it might be more of a moon in cancer that leads to long term or caring relationships. So maybe it's the moon in a feminine sign that might be more accurate.