posted November 08, 2012 11:57 PM            

Longs for fusion and strong desire to be open handed towards others but mainly partner. Idealisation of partner and thus illusions and disappointments. Unintentionally attracts fragile, sensitive and unclear persons. Possible love vassalage. Sometimes issues of identification of one and only relationship.

posted November 09, 2012 04:22 PM            

here is what astrodienst says about the transit ( obviously not natal, but just in case you are curious )

At this time your close, intimate relationships will be difficult and confused. Also you should be very careful about consulting others for advice now, even professionals such as lawyers, marriage counselors or doctors. Of course, not all of these people will give you erroneous information even under this influence, but you would be well advised not to suspend your own critical faculties just because someone else seems to be an "expert."

A marriage or other partnership will be difficult because communications are unclear now. Perhaps either you or your partner is trying to conceal something from the other. If so, you should stop concealing it as soon as possible, for it can only undermine the confidence you must have in each other. Even if you are concealing something for the other's "own good," your partner will not see it that way, and his confidence will still be undermined.

However, you may not be hiding anything. It may just be that communications between you are getting worse. Make sure that you really understand each other, and do not assume that you understand or that anything you say or do is understood automatically. Spontaneous and immediate understanding is not a feature of this influence.

posted November 10, 2012 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by tbelle:
I dont have this natal aspect, but I am going through the transit. Its a long one, too. ugh.

here is what astrodienst says about the transit ( obviously not natal, but just in case you are curious )

At this time your close, intimate relationships will be difficult and confused. Also you should be very careful about consulting others for advice now, even professionals such as lawyers, marriage counselors or doctors. Of course, not all of these people will give you erroneous information even under this influence, but you would be well advised not to suspend your own critical faculties just because someone else seems to be an "expert."

A marriage or other partnership will be difficult because communications are unclear now. Perhaps either you or your partner is trying to conceal something from the other. If so, you should stop concealing it as soon as possible, for it can only undermine the confidence you must have in each other. Even if you are concealing something for the other's "own good," your partner will not see it that way, and his confidence will still be undermined.

However, you may not be hiding anything. It may just be that communications between you are getting worse. Make sure that you really understand each other, and do not assume that you understand or that anything you say or do is understood automatically. Spontaneous and immediate understanding is not a feature of this influence.

Avoid legal confrontations at this time, if at all possible. Completely unexpected events are likely to happen, which you won't be prepared for. And your opponent may use underhanded tactics that could hurt your position badly. In general your enemies, if you have any, will be very deceptive during this time. It will be very hard to understand their tactics, let alone deal with them. They may even make false overtures of friendliness to you. Do not treat everyone with suspicion, but don't take everything at face value either.

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posted October 29, 2014 10:52 PM            

I definitely was deceived during my teen years. I got cheated on, lead on, you name it.. But, it all stems back to the fact that I always try to see the best in people.

I have read that this aspect makes a good natured person. Both my sister and I are extremely good natured. We will both stick up for someone who can't stand up for themselves, offer a home to friends who have run away (this was during our teen years), and are extremely trustworthy with secrets, honest, caring.. My good nature definitely attracted some of the wrong sorts however.. I've had leaches as friends, and it took ages to sort out the right ones for myself. That's the key here, sorting out the types you allow in your life.

Now that I am older, thankfully, I have become aware of this aspect and have worked on it. Once I finally had a real authentic relationship, I realized what was real and what was Neptune.

I have never had a problem with being taken advantage of in three years now first part is recognizing you have the problem.