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Topic: Least attractive Venus sign for a male?
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mockingbird
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posted November 29, 2012 08:14 AM
  
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mockingbird
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posted November 29, 2012 08:39 AM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Yeah but they dont it if their women gain a bit weight.. lol bad on my part
Yeah, that's probably a fair point. My husband's dated a very diverse group of women, but they have all been slim. BUT I will say that I've been the more bothered of the two of us with the little bit of post-baby weight I have. He hasn't seemed sussed about it at all. Perhaps he'd like to help me burn it off  Edited to add: Sorry about the six million responses. I was initially posting from my phone while at the bus stop with my older kids.
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TheManticore
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posted November 29, 2012 10:54 AM
Omg has no one said Venus in Virgo? I am so happy right now! lol, normally we get a bad rap ------------------
Leo Sun, Scorpio Moon, Aquarius ASC, Year of the Earth Snake
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TrueTaurus
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posted November 29, 2012 12:51 PM
Most guys want their women to be slim. So do Venuse in Geminin men, and all other signs... anyway.
I like Venus in Aries men. Passionate, intense, and fun. But this is what they're partly attracted to. Emotionally, you have to look at their moon. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted November 29, 2012 12:58 PM
least attractive, imo: venus in cancer - too needy/clingy/boring. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 01:03 PM
why is Venus in Cancer boring? ;/
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KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 01:05 PM
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Originally posted by TrueTaurus:
Most guys want their women to be slim. So do Venuse in Geminin men, and all other signs... anyway.
Most guys do not want their woman to be "slim". They want her to be fit and good shape, not fat, but a bit chubby doesn't kill them either. Actually most guys don't mind if their woman is a bit chubbier than average, its just that when she is very very fat.. and without a shape, too. I have to disagree with you very much on there, if that were true I wouldn't been able to get guys liking me. And if that was so, why would they be attracted to someone who was a bit chubby than slim in the first place? >_> <_< IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 01:06 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Most guys do not want their woman to be "slim". They want her to be fit and good shape, not fat, but a bit chubby doesn't kill them either. Actually most guys don't mind if their woman is a bit chubbier than average, its just that when she is very very fat.. and without a shape, too.I have to disagree with you very much on there, if that were true I wouldn't been able to get guys liking me. And if that was so, why would they be attracted to someone who was a bit chubby than slim in the first place? >_> <_<
And the Venus in Gem I met actually likes them on the chubby side, might be his Cancer Sun and Pisces Moon tho. lol. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted November 29, 2012 01:55 PM
A matter of personal taste,out of all subjective twists,this is the deepest.In theory,men can even handle well the challenged Venus in Aries/Scorpio/Capricorn since it has Mars' colouring.
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KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 02:00 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
A matter of personal taste,out of all subjective twists,this is the deepest.In theory,men can even handle well the challenged Venus in Aries/Scorpio/Capricorn since it has Mars' colouring.
What do you mean? Men can handle Venus in Aries/Scorpio/Cap women? IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted November 29, 2012 02:19 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
What do you mean? Men can handle Venus in Aries/Scorpio/Cap women?
I mean that even traditionally weaker Venus (Aries,Scorpio,Capricorn) could be very attractive since it has Mars' flavour to it.
No downside to this placements from men's perspective,and therefore no unattractive momemts. Edit : omitted Venus in Virgo on purpose IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 02:30 PM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
I mean that even traditionally weaker Venus (Aries,Scorpio,Capricorn) could be very attractive since it has Mars' flavour to it.
No downside to this placements from men's perspective,and therefore no unattractive momemts.Edit : omitted Venus in Virgo on purpose
I notice most men dont like their women to be passive anymore, but I suppose its a turn off to men that do. IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted November 29, 2012 04:07 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I notice most men dont like their women to be passive anymore, but I suppose its a turn off to men that do.
I had one guy tell me that I wasn't "submissive enough" 
A Taurus, I don't know the rest of his placements. A few others have implied as much.
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KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 04:41 PM
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Originally posted by mockingbird:
I had one guy tell me that I wasn't "submissive enough"
A Taurus, I don't know the rest of his placements.A few others have implied as much.
Depends; what is your Venus and Mars placed? And Moon? IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted November 29, 2012 04:45 PM
Saggi and libra venusIP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted November 29, 2012 05:52 PM
My Venus is Taurus and Mars is Leo, Pisces Sun.I think that my Aqua Moon, 1st House Uranus, Scorpio Asc, and Sun in the 5th may tilt things towards assertiveness - or at least a lack of submission. ------------------
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KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 06:00 PM
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Originally posted by mockingbird:
My Venus is Taurus and Mars is Leo, Pisces Sun.I think that my Aqua Moon, 1st House Uranus, Scorpio Asc, and Sun in the 5th may tilt things towards assertiveness - or at least a lack of submission.
And the Mars in Leo helps too!!
I have Mars in Cancer Neptune conjunct Cappy ASC Sun in 6th house and Venus in Gemini 5th house
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aquaguy91
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posted November 29, 2012 06:19 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
I notice most men dont like their women to be passive anymore, but I suppose its a turn off to men that do.
I hate women who are too passive... I cant handle it.. I want a woman who meets me halfway.. I'm not doing all the work IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 29, 2012 06:37 PM
It shouldn't feel like a chore or like 'work' if you care about the other person... but I completely agree that it should be a mutual thing - & it takes two to tango  IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted November 29, 2012 06:43 PM
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I completely agree that it should be a mutual thing
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I want a woman who meets me halfway
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KarkaQueen
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posted November 29, 2012 06:51 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I hate women who are too passive... I cant handle it.. I want a woman who meets me halfway.. I'm not doing all the work
lmao ok how bout one who is like kinky and passive and the same time  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted November 29, 2012 07:26 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
lmao ok how bout one who is like kinky and passive and the same time
I'm not just talking about sex, I'm talking about all aspects of the relationship. I dont like the fact that lots of women expect men to make all the moves, I don't mind initiating things but after that i'd like a woman to meet me halfway. alot of girls I have been involved with expect me to make all the calls/ texts, if I don't I wont hear from them... until they call to cuss me out for not calling them... its like"um, you can pick up the phone and call me too sweetheart." maybe i'd like to know that you cared enough to reach out to me for a change. IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted November 29, 2012 07:33 PM
No venus sign is unattractive just not compatible with your specific venus sign.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted November 29, 2012 07:51 PM
as a venus in aqua i want a woman who is my equal. i dont want a woman who expects me to baby her and call all the shots.. i cannot respect such a woman, she is not my equal, harsh but true!i cant even count all the girls i was gonna go on a date with but they canceled out on me because i asked them what they would like to do. women view men like me as weak because we try to give them the equality they want.. when i go do something with friends we all have a say of what we are going to do. i approach dating the same way, i try to get an idea of what she likes to do so "WE" can plan a date thats fun for the both of us... but my experience has been that most women want no part of that.. they want a guy who treats them like a child and tells them when and where they are going, i prefer a democratic approach.IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
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posted November 29, 2012 08:22 PM
I did say most men... Lol I didn't mean that slim meant skinny... Athletic women can definitely be slim. I've dated men with their Moon in aries, actually more so than any other sign and men with venus in aries and gemini...cap moons as well. None of them seemed to have problems with my body but seemed to like it very much. Wouldn't necessarily call myself slim and def not skinny, but I have a shape and somewhat athletic. Got a bit of a pooch in my belly too.
When I said most men, I meant it in the general sense what men find most aesthetically appealing. So, I think it's too broad a statement to say venus in air men like their women on the slim side...if anything I meant to say the opposite and not true of ALL men in my previous post.Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aquarius IP: Logged |
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