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Topic: That gemini man is nuts. I'm done!
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LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1024 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 06:46 AM
He doesn't know how to say "thanks but no thanks"Some people are assholes and you just have to accept it. If it feels like he's running you over in conversation, or just ignoring you, it could be because he decided he doesn't care what you have to say/think...which in that case, he's not worth your time. IP: Logged |
Astra Knowflake Posts: 564 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 04, 2012 06:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety: He's so fickle!! What is wrong with him? I'm so baffled by his behaviour. 2 weeks ago he was so sweet and gentle. Last week he started changing, he was less friendly and nice. This week, he's been ignoring me to death and interrupting me when I speak. I get really ticked off when people interrupt me. I usually let people talk and yell all they want. I listen to them till the end. When it's my turn to talk, I get interrupted. Excuse my language but what the **** is wrong with him? :@ And they say pisces are fickle!Ps: I don't curse unless I'm extremely angry.
He's a jerk-plain and simple. If a Gemini (or any sign for that matter) is interested in you, they will make time for you. Gemini in particular loves to talk! It's odd that you had short conversations with each other unless your conversations were interrupted by someone else, work, etc. That's a red flag. In short, he's just not into you. Just move on and focus on finding someone who better suits you. IP: Logged |
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 07:02 AM
Geminis fall in love through their heads. They will chat up a storm and won't shut up when they are into someone. Astra is right.
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Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 789 From: unknown Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 07:05 AM
Ur right. Its time to move on. I gave this topic more time and importance than i should. Any idea how i can delete this topic? Thank u for ur responses.  IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 1408 From: UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 07:15 AM
Which signs would you say show the most constancy? Would these be the fixed ones laced with Saturn? Forgive me for showing off but: My Boyfriend is a Leo, rising Scorpio, Moon in Aquarius and Saturn in the 1st house. Me: A Scorpio, rising Leo, Moon in Aquarius Do you think we should be together for a while if fixed signs count in this respect? IP: Logged |
LionFish Knowflake Posts: 1024 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 07:32 AM
Whew Astro KeenThats a whole lot of fixed energy!! I love that your Suns fall in each other's 1st houses, and how close are your moons? I bet you guys understand each other better than your own selves sometimes  Going off of my mutable-mutable joke, I'd say yes, two fixed signs should have an easier time of it than two mutable, however, you're still dealing with a square or an opposition between Sun signs. It's definitely not the only thing that matters in synastry, but it DOES matter.. I wonder if cardinal/fixed Sun signs "deal" with the energies of squares and oppositions between suns "better" than mutable signs? New thread? I think so! IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 911 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 07:57 AM
Hello Pisces-Sweety, I have to agree with bluegrey and Lionfish in saying that guy is probably just a jerk and has nothing to do with being a Gemini. I also agree that Gemini-Pisces matchup is probably the number one worst matchup in the zodiac (unless the rest of the two's charts match up well).I am married to a Pisces for 10 years and let me tell you its only been hard with very far and few easy times for us. Simply put, we are just not compatible with each other personality-wise in any way. I don't understand her and she doesn't understand me. Ironically enough, my very best friend is a Pisces sun but the rest of his chart is air and fire. In general, I get along very well with Pisces friendship-wise, but I don't think I would ever date one again unless the sun square was the only disharmonious aspect between us. I say just let him go and move on. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 1100 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 09:36 AM
I kept saying it around here... :3 "it's not appropriate to judge a book by its cover or a person by its Sun Sign".Are Gemini ever-changing? - maybe not all of sudden but from all the signs of the zodiac Sagittarius and Gemini are most pron to changes...but unless we're talking about a "prominent Sun" - this might be more visible in others with strong Sagittarius/Gemini Influences than it those with this two as their Sun Sign.. So - yes, change - it's specific to this sign but "the lack of communication" it's not... after all Gemini stands for communication - a person with strong Gemini influences deals with his problems trough communication, it eats him inside if it doesn't - going things through his mind over and over again and "it really needs to know" - needs the other persons confirmation, a "logical" answer that explains why things are the way they are... Secrecy, not being open about things - that's mostly related to water signs - Scorpio fits best this description, but even some earth signs like Capricorn are pretty close - so maybe this Gemini has strong influences from this two signs... Mercury in Scorpio for example - they want to know as much as possible about the other person - but find it very hard to share their own private thoughts - the most puzzling people i know, being at their side you can learn how to read their behavior with time passing - but you'll always have a problem with what their thinking and don't want to share "for some reason". Geminis (strong Gemini influences) have other negative traits - but lack of communications it's not specific to this sign :3.
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Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 911 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 10:11 AM
quote: Originally posted by 7thGuardian: I kept saying it around here... :3 "it's not appropriate to judge a book by its cover or a person by its Sun Sign".Are Gemini ever-changing? - maybe not all of sudden but from all the signs of the zodiac Sagittarius and Gemini are most pron to changes...but unless we're talking about a "prominent Sun" - this might be more visible in others with strong Sagittarius/Gemini Influences than it those with this two as their Sun Sign.. So - yes, change - it's specific to this sign but "the lack of communication" it's not... after all Gemini stands for communication - a person with strong Gemini influences deals with his problems trough communication, it eats him inside if it doesn't - going things through his mind over and over again and "it really needs to know" - needs the other persons confirmation, a "logical" answer that explains why things are the way they are... Geminis (strong Gemini influences) have other negative traits - but lack of communications it's not specific to this sign :3.
WOW! Sooooooo true!!! Lacking communication really eats us up! The bit about thinking things over and over and over in our head and needing confirmation through communication is spot on! Are you a Gemini 7thguardian? ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 1100 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 10:20 AM
Yes... at least partially. ^^------------------ [☼ ► ♊ ... ☾ ► ♈ ... Ⓐsc. ► ♋] IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 911 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 10:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by 7thGuardian: Yes... at least partially. ^^
Hello fellow Gem :-) ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
SpooL Knowflake Posts: 600 From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted December 04, 2012 02:43 PM
I whouldn't want to flat out call him a jerk without actually being there and observing whats going on.Although, I would consider him disrespectful. I'm thinking these two things: 1)Is he under alot of stress? Gemini is good at getting into tough situation and getting out of them, I know I have been in them but I've acted a differently each time. 2)If he is really ignoring you then move on he's not interested, ignoring you is really "Diagnostic" I agree with Astra. There's the game plan text him on a good day and text him on a bad day and see how he reacts to both, that way you can see if he is really for you. quote: Originally posted by Aquacheeka: You should date a Scorpio or a Capricorn.
I would be cautious of Capricorns. Randal is an exception and would go great with a Pisces. The other half I find are pompous and more concerned about enriching themselves. This is just my opinion there is a sweet and feminine side to pisces that makes them easy picking for jerks. It's really easy for Pisces females to get involved with as*holes, I know several and of course lets not forget about Rhianna with Chris Brown. Anyway, Stay sweet and feminine Pisces-Sweety. --------------------------------------- Capircorn Rising Gemini Sun, 5th House Aries Moon Mercury in Gemini Venus In Taurus Mars Cancer IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 789 From: unknown Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 03:58 PM
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Nine Moderator Posts: 1751 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted December 04, 2012 07:13 PM
quote: So - yes, change - it's specific to this sign but "the lack of communication" it's not... after all Gemini stands for communication - a person with strong Gemini influences deals with his problems trough communication, it eats him inside if it doesn't
I disagree with this. To use the Scorpio analogy; Scorpio is the sign of sex, when Scorpio if happy with you they will have sex with you and try to rock your world. ****** off, they will withhold sex as punishment. Gemini is the sign of communication. I'm a Gemini and I love to communicate with the people that matter to me. I love talking, being in touch, and yes I talk too much. ****** off I will withhold communication, and I see this as punishment for your sins. Pushed to speak and I will be abrupt, curt, and cutting. **woof** How dare you make me talk when I don't want to!! This will make me see red and lengthen your sentence. IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 1100 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted December 05, 2012 06:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: I disagree with this. To use the Scorpio analogy; Scorpio is the sign of sex, when Scorpio if happy with you they will have sex with you and try to rock your world. ****** off, they will withhold sex as punishment. Gemini is the sign of communication. I'm a Gemini and I love to communicate with the people that matter to me. I love talking, being in touch, and yes I talk too much. ****** off I will withhold communication, and I see this as punishment for your sins. Pushed to speak and I will be abrupt, curt, and cutting. **woof** How dare you make me talk when I don't want to!! This will make me see red and lengthen your sentence.
What!? ^^ I disagree with your disagreement.... Yes, Scorpio is the sign of sex - but they're the ones enjoying it the most.. if we're to compare it with the Gemini analogy...they'd punish themselves more if they'd withhold sex - cause maybe the other party can last for a long time without it... same goes for Gemini - if I'm upset with someone I'd punish myself if I'd go with the silent treatment - cause in my head there would be a battle in all that time, a little man would f'ing write war and peace inside my head... i would have to be a masochist to torture myself like that... are you one Nine?! :O Nine, you bring shame among Geminis - unworthy of being called a Gemini - you should be exiled from our kind... you're not one of us - i won't acknowledge you as a Gemini anymore!! YOU'RE AN IMPOSTOR!!! :O!!! - similar to the one described by Pisces-Sweety and he calls himself a Gemini - bringing so much shame and injustice to our kind!!! -_- Brothers and sister Geminis get the torches and pitchforks and lets catch this imposters... IP: Logged |
7thGuardian Knowflake Posts: 1100 From: Transylvania Registered: May 2012
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posted December 05, 2012 06:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Got Gemini??: Hello fellow Gem :-)
Hi! ^^
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Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 911 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 05, 2012 07:43 PM
LOLOLOLOL------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety Knowflake Posts: 789 From: unknown Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 05, 2012 08:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Gemini is the sign of communication. I'm a Gemini and I love to communicate with the people that matter to me. I love talking, being in touch, and yes I talk too much. ****** off I will withhold communication, and I see this as punishment for your sins. Pushed to speak and I will be abrupt, curt, and cutting. **woof** How dare you make me talk when I don't want to!! This will make me see red and lengthen your sentence. [/B]
I agree with this. IP: Logged |
astrofan123 Knowflake Posts: 182 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 05:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Gemini is the sign of communication. I'm a Gemini and I love to communicate with the people that matter to me. I love talking, being in touch, and yes I talk too much. ****** off I will withhold communication, and I see this as punishment for your sins. Pushed to speak and I will be abrupt, curt, and cutting. **woof** How dare you make me talk when I don't want to!! This will make me see red and lengthen your sentence.
I know some Geminis do this also. I'll ask their full dob next time I see them again, see what else in their charts. IP: Logged |
astrofan123 Knowflake Posts: 182 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 05:02 AM
quote: Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety: Ur right. Its time to move on. I gave this topic more time and importance than i should. Any idea how i can delete this topic? Thank u for ur responses. 
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