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Topic: That gemini man is nuts. I'm done!
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 04:39 AM
  
He's so fickle!! What is wrong with him? I'm so baffled by his behaviour. 2 weeks ago he was so sweet and gentle. Last week he started changing, he was less friendly and nice. This week, he's been ignoring me to death and interrupting me when I speak. I get really ticked off when people interrupt me. I usually let people talk and yell all they want. I listen to them till the end. When it's my turn to talk, I get interrupted. Excuse my language but what the **** is wrong with him? :@ And they say pisces are fickle!Ps: I don't curse unless I'm extremely angry. IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted December 04, 2012 04:42 AM
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 04:43 AM
What does that mean?IP: Logged |
StarsCollide
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posted December 04, 2012 04:51 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
What does that mean?
As a general rule, they are fickle, unpredictable, and flighty.They are a mutable sign (changeable), an Air sign (can't hold them down), and the Twins sign. His behavior is not surprising. ------------------
Sun in Pisces
Moon in Sagittarius
Scorpio Ascendant
Mars/Venus in Taurus
Aries in Mercury
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Haplesschild*
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posted December 04, 2012 04:58 AM
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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
What does that mean?
They put on facades to cater to what you want, however these sides never stay, they eventually become something else.
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 04:58 AM
:\ yes they are fickle.. I'm so annoyed and frustrated.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted December 04, 2012 05:06 AM
Yes, Geminis do tend towards that behavior, and if you have a Gemini with pisces placements too, it'll make him kinda confused and flakey lol.
Just let him go, you want somebody consistent.IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted December 04, 2012 05:09 AM
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 05:14 AM
It has nothing to do with "catering" to me. It has to do with being polite and not deliberately interrupting me and being fickle as hell. No human being can tolerate this type of childish behaviour. If you're angry and want to be left alone, I can understand. But when you're deliberately doing something just to annoy me then no, he can go f himself. This isn't normal behaviour. You can't be hot and cold with people and expect them to tolerate it. People aren't toys you can toss around whenever you get bored. Something is bothering him? Something I did? Speak up! I'm not psychic to know what the hell is wrong with him. I'm willing to communicate with him but he's not exactly showing me that he's a normal human being who I can communicate with. He's not exactly being professional in the workplace either.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted December 04, 2012 05:16 AM
YEAH respect is demanded, you deserve way more. IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted December 04, 2012 05:20 AM
If his behavior is so beneath you why are you even bothered about it? Just move on. Not worth the energy, really.IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 05:23 AM
It's not beneath me. This is ostracism.
It's annoying because I don't understand why he's suddenly behaving this way. He doesn't even talk about it. When he's not interrupting me, he's ignoring me to death.IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 04, 2012 05:26 AM
I don't personally think Geminis and Pisces mesh well romantically. This could be because Gemini is intercepted in my 11th house, but I've always found them to be too ever-changing for my taste. I like excitement and adventure in love, but I don't want the adventure to be which personality I'm dealing with today. On a friendly basis, I can say I've never had more fun than I have with the couple Geminis I've known well. It always comes back to them being "too much" for me to handle though, which is what it sounds like here for you. I agree with Haplesschild*, you want somebody more consistent. I think both signs (Pisces and Gemini) need a strong(er) person to lead/teach/nurture them in the right direction. Two mutable sun signs can probably only function well together in a situation where there is no responsibility... or as co-enablers lol IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 05:29 AM
Thank you for your input Lionfish. I suppose you're right.IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted December 04, 2012 05:50 AM
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LionFish
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posted December 04, 2012 06:08 AM
^^snagging a Gemini sounds a lot like snagging an Aquarius with the "realize we need something other than a relationship to fulfill us" bit. And the "..choose to give to someone we love out of a true emotion for them rather than simply keeping up with their own wishes."I love to be loved and love to love and feel and blah blah blah... BUT!! I do understand that FEELINGS aren't all there is to life. I agree that this person Pisces-Sweety is talking about is a jerk, you get them from every sign, gender, race...doesn't matter, but I do think that somebody a little less sensitive would deal with it better. You've got a lot of Pisces placements P-S, I imagine that makes it really difficult for you to "get" this Gemini guy. Or any other for that matter. And then him being rude on top of it... But him distancing himself and not talking to you "about it" could be BECAUSE you're trying to *make* him talk about it... You can't force anything with any Air sign. At least the ones I've known. They just move on. I imagine this is even easier for mutable Air. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 04, 2012 06:19 AM
@bluegreyYou are absolutely right about Saturn. It's my saving grace  It keeps me a bit more "grounded" I guess being part of my natal grand trine (ASC/Venus complete it). I don't think Geminis are shallow, not even a little bit. In case you misread, my aversion to Gemini/Pisces relationship has nothing to do with whether I like Geminis or not. I just think they're honestly too different to fit well together and "get" each other. IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 06:23 AM
Lionfish; i never tried to make him anything. I barely even speak to him lately. Weeks ago, he started being so friendly with and i guess i thought he liked me. I never spoke to him about it. Our conversations were usually short. It was the way he spoke and the way he used to look at me that made think he liked me. No one can you do something you dont want unless its either by force or if u have a weak character. Hes delusional if he thinks I "made" him do anything. This is a waste of time. Im moving on.IP: Logged |
blugrey
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posted December 04, 2012 06:25 AM
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 06:37 AM
What poor communication? Hes the one changed for no reason. Hes a grownup! Why on earth should i go talk to him if hes the one with the problem with me? Im with communicating, But hes the one acting like an immature person. How do you expect to communicate with someome who is giving you the cold shoulder and doesnt even look you in the eye all of a sudden? Would he like me to hold his hand and teach him baby steps on how to communicate too? When you want to communicate with someone, they have to be willing to make an effort to listen to you or at least show you that they want to listen to you. I wont be the one to go speak to him when hes behaving this way. hes not the only one with a pride. I have my pride too you know.IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 04, 2012 06:39 AM
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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
Lionfish; i never tried to make him anything. I barely even speak to him lately. Weeks ago, he started being so friendly with and i guess i thought he liked me. I never spoke to him about it. Our conversations were usually short. It was the way he spoke and the way he used to look at me that made think he liked me. No one can you do something you dont want unless its either by force or if u have a weak character. Hes delusional if he thinks I "made" him do anything. This is a waste of time. Im moving on.
Being as this is a work-place interest you had, is it possible he WAS attracted to you (you're quite attractive from the photo I've seen you posting), but after some more in-depth conversation (or lack thereof, since you said most of your convos were short) he changed his mind and then instead of dragging it out into something it didn't need to be because it was just a toe in the water, he pulled back, dried his toe, and put his shoes back on...It happens all the time. I think you're right about just moving on IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted December 04, 2012 06:39 AM
You should date a Scorpio or a Capricorn.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted December 04, 2012 06:41 AM
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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
He's so fickle!! What is wrong with him? I'm so baffled by his behaviour. 2 weeks ago he was so sweet and gentle. Last week he started changing, he was less friendly and nice. This week, he's been ignoring me to death and interrupting me when I speak. I get really ticked off when people interrupt me. I usually let people talk and yell all they want. I listen to them till the end. When it's my turn to talk, I get interrupted. Excuse my language but what the **** is wrong with him? :@ And they say pisces are fickle!Ps: I don't curse unless I'm extremely angry.
List his planetary placements? Is he a Mars in SCorpio?
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Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 06:43 AM
I agree lionfish but this isnt normal behaviour. Why does he interrupt me? Why is being so cold with me?IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 06:45 AM
Ami: i dont know his birthday or chart. Only his sun sign. He told me a few weeks ago that hes a gemini.IP: Logged |
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