posted December 18, 2012 10:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Padre35:
More or less, agree with your approach as well however no one knows sort of thing is very very Virgo.

Sort of like the whole American Pie thing with "this one time at band camp.." and the music starts skipping and:

"Whhaaat?"

No offense meant at all

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posted December 18, 2012 10:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
Non taken haha

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Other thing with Virgos is..discretion is sort of the soul of a Virgo.

If one asks I've found Virgo Sun women will put it on front street very very few ever bother to ask.

A sort of quiet passion simmers at the heart of a Virgo (female)

Be a jerk though and a Virgo will run for the hills and act as if the whole thing never happened.

Remaining items burned, it never happened..you've been deleted, erased as well as shredded...

posted December 18, 2012 11:41 PM            

That said, she is definitely not promiscuous or in for one minute wonders. She refuses to just hit up w any random man, is very selective in that she must like the guy on some level besides the physical. She also strongly dislikes feeling like the sex was a cheap romp, so she won't go for things like a back seat quickie.

Being a Virgo with her precise set of neatness standards, she refuses to consider a guy if his teeth look weird. No matter how hot he is, if his teeth are ugly= no way. She is too cute for words, the teeth thing is really adorable in my opinion

Lastly she takes her public reputation/presentation very seriously. Despite her high drive, appearances are a big deterrent for not engaging in casual sex. Lol we once had a conversation on the possibility of inventing a device to erase short term memories.. Like how awesome it would be to indulge in a crazy sex escapade w a guy, then erase his recollection of it immediately afterwards lol. Like how much fun it'd be to be crazy with basically no social repercussion, like it never happened.

Side note, anyone else feel Virgo and Scorpio are both equally sexual? I have Venus in Scorpio and feel my Virgo Sun friend is very similar to me in terms of high sex drive, etc. Even the symbol for Virgo and Scorpio looks the same...except Scorpio has his stinger in obvious alert for all to see, while Virgo keeps hers tucked away so you will miss it if you don't know what to look out for

posted December 18, 2012 11:52 PM            

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Originally posted by PhoenixFire:
My best gf is a Virgo Sun and a sex maniac by her own accounts 👍. She loves sex w a passion and her standpoint is that sex is a human need, not a drive which can be turned on/off. Lol her favorite joke is that we have to ensure to not fall into the trap of being overworked and underhumped 😘

That said, she is definitely not promiscuous or in for one minute wonders. She refuses to just hit up w any random man, is very selective in that she must like the guy on some level besides the physical. She also strongly dislikes feeling like the sex was a cheap romp, so she won't go for things like a back seat quickie.

Being a Virgo with her precise set of neatness standards, she refuses to consider a guy if his teeth look weird. No matter how hot he is, if his teeth are ugly= no way. She is too cute for words, the teeth thing is really adorable in my opinion

Lastly she takes her public reputation/presentation very seriously. Despite her high drive, appearances are a big deterrent for not engaging in casual sex. Lol we once had a conversation on the possibility of inventing a device to erase short term memories.. Like how awesome it would be to indulge in a crazy sex escapade w a guy, then erase his recollection of it immediately afterwards lol. Like how much fun it'd be to be crazy with basically no social repercussion, like it never happened.

Side note, anyone else feel Virgo and Scorpio are both equally sexual? I have Venus in Scorpio and feel my Virgo Sun friend is very similar to me in terms of high sex drive, etc. Even the symbol for Virgo and Scorpio looks the same...except Scorpio has his stinger in obvious alert for all to see, while Virgo keeps hers tucked away so you will miss it if you don't know what to look out for

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Yes if only people didn't find out just how sexual u were. #bliss

The virgos I went out with were not v v sexual but they gave the appearance of being. I think that's the reverse of what people are saying about virgos here. But they would comply with requests so I guess that ain't bad.

posted December 19, 2012 02:54 AM            

Dammit red tainted the future love of my life! *shakesfistinair*

Thank you v v much PF I will keep that combo in mind! #seriously

My fav Virgo is on the list (the 2nd one) good call!

Nicole Richie
Alexis Bledel
Twiggy
Sabine Azéma
Ashley Roberts
Joanie Dodds
Ellen Victoria Futter
Rimi Sen
Collien Fernandes
Bingbing Fan
Ashley Eckstein
Meilinda Soerjoko
Johanna Asplund
June Foray
Crystle Stewart
Fabiane Nunes
Beth Grant

posted December 19, 2012 04:35 AM            

Virgo worries about clogs; either bodily clogs, mental clogs or environmental clogs and when things "flow", it can have a calming therapeutic effect on them.

So, at best, the Virgo energy is geared towards making sure that things in their life and the lives of those they care about "flow" in order and precision. They can then relax.

But if things don't "flow", if things don't come in order(and they rarely ever do), the Virgo can obsess about making things so; making things more efficient, "fixing" the clog, dissecting the problems, exploring/ coming up with possible solutions, soliciting the most practical and probable outcomes...

The dream of the Virgin is to have a practical/efficient skill to solve whatever "clogs" that life throws at them.

At worst, the Virgo can imagine "incomptence","chaos" and everything running amok.

This, exaggerated, leads to nervous system problems, confusion, panic attacks and a genuine feeling of being "overwhelmed".

Now sex is a Mars issue.

Mars in Virgo can mean a person is energized towards exploring sex towards "what is an orgasm?" , "what is done?", "what is the best way to get an orgasm?", "which are the best expressions of physical pleasure?" etc.

A dutiful Mars in Virgo will make it a point to find answers to all these questions; either they'll do it covertly or expressly to find answers to all these things that will make sex/intimacy that much more pleasurable(this is efficiency).

On the other end, the Virgin that feels that the exploration of this subject will provide that much more "chaos" and "confusion" to their already overwhelmed comprehension of reality, sex ,and the enjoyment of which, can seem more like a chore and an annoyance rather than a pleasurable exercise.

And so, in this regard, chastity is encouraged by the mind(but this is always a defense mechanism).Perhaps there is a fear that this area of life will expose their "incompetence", expose their "ignorance" (and Virgo dislikes nothing more than to seem "ignorant") or make them seem "impotent" or worse, that they'll "lose control" of themselves whilst engulfed in it.

The trick here is for both Virgo's to err towards "moderation": This is for the "Virgin" as well as the "not so Virgin ".

When you are dating the more obsessive type of Virgo who is into Pornography , sex magazines and stuff etc. seduce their mind as sexual "acumen" is something they can do easily. What they'll respond to is a challenge.

When you are with the more conservative Mars in Virgo, engage them in a conversation to demystify their preconception on sexualy related issues. There is more imagined apprehension/pre-occupation here than anything else. Get them to relax and feel confident.

I dated a Mars in Virgo and , at first, he seemed quite conservative to sex , but as we got closer intellectually and he felt that he was in control of how things were developing(and this was important to him), he got more solicitous and provocative in his approach.

posted December 19, 2012 07:28 AM            

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Virgo worries about clogs; either bodily clogs, mental clogs or environmental clogs and when things "flow", it can have a calming therapeutic effect on them.

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posted December 19, 2012 07:56 AM            

I buy a lot of containers for things, organizers. Then I only buy them from this Japanese store so they're all the same brand.

On a notepad I always have to rip the page I wrote a note on. I can't stand that it is there, the previous notes like a to do list which are accomplished. The page is obsolete. Tainted by ink and my handwriting. My notebooks get v v thin.

posted December 20, 2012 12:16 AM            

I am very sexual and it started at a VERY early age. Nowadays I can sustain if I feel like it but if someone with a brain that that tickles mine comes along, it doesn't take much to spark the fire...

Also, the man can be the best looking human I have ever laid eyes on but if he

1 can't spell worth of sh!t

2 doesn't have adequate humor or sarcasm or wit

posted December 20, 2012 04:55 PM            

Sun - Virgo
Asc - Leo
Moon - Sag
Merc - Leo
Venus - Scorpio
Mars - Libra

I can be emotionally demanding (and even draining) & I want sex like ALL OF THE TIME!

If I go more than three days without sex, my attitude gets really ugly. When I am single, I can handle myself (lol!!) but if sex is not frequent while I am in a relationship, I get very cranky... nearly to the point where my partner would think I only want him for sex. Yes, I am horny, but it's my way of expressing & receiving love as well.

My intensity is off the charts and I have always said to people I would need a strong man with lots of patience for me. I also find that I am one ridiculous walking contradiction in life. Flirty - but always seeking that true, soul-fulfilling love. I can't stand to be controlled - but I can be insanely possessive/jealous. I am also very motherly/nurturing but I can't stand a needy man. The problem is that my motherly, caring nature seems to attract the broken and needy ones. Then my stupid Virgo superhero complex kicks in and I have to play savior. Ack!

In my 20s and up until just last year (I am 34 now) my relationships were quite full of drama... on again/off again was the rule for most.

It's getting easier as I get older. Either that, or I finally have a complimentary partner who can handle me.

Should anything happen to him (and I always worry he will cheat/leave/die), I will be truly lost. I fear my Scorpionic tendencies would once again override my sensible Virgo sun.

*sigh*

posted December 20, 2012 08:30 PM            

Sun in Scorpio
Sun conjunct Saturn
Moon in Gemini
Moon square Venus
Moon square Mars
Venus in Virgo in the 8th house
Venus conjunct Mars
Venus square Jupiter
Mars in Virgo in the 8th house
Mars square Jupiter
Saturn in Scorpio
Capricorn rising/ascendant

Sex is almost impossible for me.
Impossible to relax and enjoy intimacy.
Wary, mistrustful, defensive, self-conscious.
Tremendous inner turmoil.

posted December 20, 2012 11:56 PM            

I make alot of dirty jokes, but honestly? No, I'm not obsessed with the subject or into anything weird - at all.

posted December 21, 2012 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Aqua Rising,Virgo Moon!

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