posted December 17, 2012 04:18 PM            

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted December 17, 2012 10:06 PM            

I felt like I was responsible to him, even when he was locked up in jail and we wasnt even dating then!!! wanted to give him a lasting loving relationship

posted December 18, 2012 07:46 AM            

I also have it in 2 relationships, both the trine.

One is with my fiance. His Saturn conjuncts my Saturn, trines my Venus and completes a grand trine with my ASC. I feel like we're equals in how we take care of each other, we both can and do depend on the other. I definitely get the protector/provider feeling from him. I read somewhere that Saturn will support and chase Venus in his own way until he proves to be "the one" thru sheer perseverance and dedication, seems right.

The other is with my TF. My Saturn trines his Venus, which in turn completes a grand trine with my Venus. His Sun/Merc complete the grand trine as well.. Eesh that's a lot of Saturn. I'd gladly go to the ends of the universe and back again for him. I've always been there for him in any circumstance.

Seeing it from both sides I do think that the Saturn person can be a little overbearing (yes me too!) at times, but as long as their intentions are true the Venus person can't deny their love for their Saturn counterpart. Venus likes to be comfortable and loved and Saturn is willing to provide the things needed for such.

I think the heaviness would come more from the square or opposition. But they can also prove binding (My fiance and I have the square in our composite)

posted December 18, 2012 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
hmmmm..guys could we also include saturn conjunct venus?? I have the conjunction both in synastry with a guy and natal. It's the first time am dating someone with this conjunction.Would love hearing what others have to say.

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I have it with my hubby, 1 degree orb. He's Saturn. There are benefits, like, I know he would never leave me...I have complete confidence on that level. Plus he provides structure as Saturn does, and the seriousness has a sexy element to be honest.

But there are serious drawbacks to the point where I have considered divorce. TOO stifling, too "locked in," not enough breathing room. Of course other aspects contribute to that problem (his moon opposing my Jupiter means big religious differences, for example.)

posted December 18, 2012 10:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
I have it with my hubby, 1 degree orb. He's Saturn. There are benefits, like, I know he would never leave me...I have complete confidence on that level. Plus he provides structure as Saturn does, and the seriousness has a sexy element to be honest.

But there are serious drawbacks to the point where I have considered divorce. TOO stifling, too "locked in," not enough breathing room. Of course other aspects contribute to that problem (his moon opposing my Jupiter means big religious differences, for example.)

We've been together 14 years.

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Thank you for sharing

I don't mean to pry or anything but could I ask what do you mean too ''locked in'' and not ''enough breathing room"? Does he impose his views on you?

posted December 18, 2012 11:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Thank you for sharing

I don't mean to pry or anything but could I ask what do you mean too ''locked in'' and not ''enough breathing room"? Does he impose his views on you?

His moon trine my Jupiter btw

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It's hard to describe or generalize; you know, the whole relationship is a long story, and I don't want to derail this thread too much, but I will try and describe.

He's kind of a control freak.

But 1) he's a Leo, and all the Leos I've been with were control freaks (coincidence?); and 2) he's much older than me, so the temptation to "parent" and play Saturn to the hilt was probably stronger for him.

posted December 18, 2012 11:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
It's hard to describe or generalize; you know, the whole relationship is a long story, and I don't want to derail this thread too much, but I will try and describe.

He's kind of a control freak.

But 1) he's a Leo, and all the Leos I've been with were control freaks (coincidence?); and 2) he's much older than me, so the temptation to "parent" and play Saturn to the hilt was probably stronger for him.

Moon trine Jupiter sounds good! Don't let me burst your hopes.

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