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Ann7
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posted January 16, 2013 08:04 PM
  
What's everyones experience with this transit? Does it tend to put a strain on the persons relationship by any chance? I'd love to hear your opinions.  IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted January 16, 2013 11:25 PM
I'm experiencing this now and yes it is very stressful. I have cut off ties with people who were not real friends, and relationships in general are transforming rapidly.IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
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posted January 16, 2013 11:48 PM
Aha! I just kept moving the dates back on my astro chart to find that I started my Saturn Transit conjunct Natal Venus on December 31st 2012. Yesssss. Makes so much sense. Guess I can't give you very much in the way of feedback then. That night was one of the most emotional I've had in a long time and it came from nowhere and I couldn't make sense of it. In a practical sense, I never made it to a New Year's Eve party, very odd, driving around lost for over an hour so I was physically alone. This was an exciting find. IP: Logged |
Astro keen
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posted January 17, 2013 05:27 AM
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Originally posted by bridgetostars23:
Aha! I just kept moving the dates back on my astro chart to find that I started my Saturn Transit conjunct Natal Venus on December 31st 2012.
Could you please explain what does 'started' mean in terms of degrees. Did you look for an exact conjunction? How close does the conjunction have to be for it to become active or for the influence to last?
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Astro keen
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posted January 17, 2013 02:55 PM
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Belage
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posted January 17, 2013 05:12 PM
I loved it when it happened to me. I am Pisces rising with 2 libra planets, and I tend to put other people's needs before my own, and having Saturn conjunct my Venus helped to think about ME for once and really figure out what was right for ME. It was a really grounding experience. IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
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posted January 17, 2013 08:03 PM
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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Could you please explain what does 'started' mean in terms of degrees. Did you look for an exact conjunction? How close does the conjunction have to be for it to become active or for the influence to last?
Hey, I'm new at this so honestly you should keep getting advice but I'll tell you what I did just based on my own brain which could be wrong. After reading your post, I went to astro.com, looked at my chart and saw that currently transiting saturn is in fact conjunct to my natal venus. Then I changed the date until it was not conjunct. And I kept tweaking it until it showed a little symbol that I have not seen before which I could only interpet as "the beginning of a conjunction". Even if that's wrong, the next day there was a conjunction symbol and two days prior there was not. I think that the energies probably start to work prior to the exact conjunction, however. Hope this helps. IP: Logged |
Ann7
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posted January 17, 2013 09:18 PM
Is anyone experiencing a strain in their relationships?IP: Logged |
iliketurtles
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posted January 18, 2013 01:32 AM
transiting saturn was exactly conjunct my natal venus at a time when i was still reeling from something that had happened, about three months prior, between me and a jerk i met at work. as it got closer to my venus i felt myself becoming more calm and relaxed about things, stable if you like. definately not an exciting or cheerful transit at all (for me!) just a stabilising sort of force. perhaps helpful with dramas in life? IP: Logged |
Ann7
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posted January 18, 2013 10:32 AM
I currently have transiting Saturn conjunct my sun- almost exact. My boyfriend has transitting Saturn conjunct his Venus, also almost exact. While other things in my life are going quite well - this is the most strained and indifferent our relationship has ever been in the course of 5 years. Kind of scary... I think he may be over it. Even worse, I'm not freaking out like you think a person would be. Just wondering if this is due to Saturn.IP: Logged |
stellar_moon
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posted January 19, 2013 12:32 PM
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Originally posted by Ann7:
I currently have transiting Saturn conjunct my sun- almost exact. My boyfriend has transitting Saturn conjunct his Venus, also almost exact. While other things in my life are going quite well - this is the most strained and indifferent our relationship has ever been in the course of 5 years. Kind of scary... I think he may be over it. Even worse, I'm not freaking out like you think a person would be. Just wondering if this is due to Saturn.
Saturn is Trine Venus for me, but Conjunct for my Partner. I'm feeling a bit irritated with him tbh. everything I do or want to do feels censored by him, and he's acting kind of insecure. It's like he wants me to open up to him, but then doesn't like the way I'm opening up or cant understand what I am talking about so I get shut down.. And heaven forbid it if someone else gets it and I interact with them. He gets jealous. Maybe that has nothing to do with the transit in particular. It's just something I have noticed since Saturn hit Scorpio. He seems to think my feelings are different for some reason, but that is not what is going on for me. I need a lot of mental stimulation right now, not sure why that is. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted January 19, 2013 02:40 PM
tSaturn conjunct natal Venus is one of the "testing" aspects when it comes to relationships of all kind. So it's normal if your relationship is going through some hard times. It's a time for you to weigh the seriousness of your relationship and see if you indeed want to be with that person long-term (Saturn) or if there are differences in values (Venus) that are too hard or even impossible to reconcile. After this transit is over, strong relationships will be even more solid while weaker ones will (probably) be dissolved.Don't be too afraid, though.
Take it as it comes and try to see what things need to be worked out and if it's worth it.
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Ann7
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posted January 20, 2013 08:19 PM
Thanks, guys! I noticed that we are both standing our ground but trying a lot harder w/ each other as well (if that makes sense). I can definitely see where Saturn conjunct venus would make for a bit of a cooling off period. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 20, 2013 11:34 PM
A friend met her husband and father of her kids under this transit. It was not an easy set of circumstances, however. It was a lonely punishing period of her life. This wrecked our relationship. We have Venus sq Venus in synastry, so I was having the square at the same time. I was in a position to help but didn't know how bad things were for her. I was upset at an earlier betrayal, and chose this period to frost-over. This was 2007. Five years earlier she came to me for help, without asking too many questions I made a few sacrifices & jumped to her rescue. We knew each other forever, it was natural thing for me. Subsequently I learned she didn't need help and basically lied to me. I brushed it off. Six months before Saturn hit her Venus, I found myself in transition. I wasn't in need or asking for help, I just expected a solid friend. Instead I felt pushed to the side. So, as Saturn was maturing her, she came to me with the usual cries "I need help." I went silent on the other end of the phone, but in my mind I thought, 'you'll be fine without me' After she made it through she became increasing cold and abrupt with me. Soon enough I got the hint, and stopped making contact. IP: Logged |
rorrr
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posted January 21, 2013 03:05 AM
I'm about to have this too and and apprehensive...Does anybody have any experiences with transiting Saturn conjunct Venus affected their FINANCES???!?!
Eep!
I had Saturn pass over my Sun and Pluto and just felt really low-energy, didn't want to see anybody, depressive elements etc.
But I'm wondering since I just suffered the last breakup I will ever need in my entire life and am not relationship-oriented right now, whether the Venus will = my money instead....  IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted January 21, 2013 01:37 PM
i have venus at 7 degrees Scorpio so ive started this transit and it will stick with me for quite awhile. at first it was awful, it amplified all my insecurities and made me feel unworthy of love from my boyfriend. Its slowly gotten better but there's been a lottt of stopping and starting and some very bad arguments which have almost ended our relationship. and what do i have to look forward to after this transit is over? my bfs natural venus is up next art 13 degrees Scorpio, then my mercury @28...then my Saturn return in Sagittarius...which is natally very badly afflicted. joy.IP: Logged |
Ann7
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posted January 21, 2013 07:14 PM
Saturn wont hit my venus (in sag) for a while. I have to say, Saturn conjunct my sun hasn't been so bad at least in regards to my career. I've also since reconciled with my guy, who has saturn conjunct his venus at the moment. He seems to be trying to work harder on things between us . As for finances, I have definitely noticed that he's become more aware of where money goes but hasn't suffered any set backs. IP: Logged |
8ofHearts
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posted January 21, 2013 08:27 PM
I have moon at 12 Scorpio, Venus at 18 Scorpio and Mars at 8 Taurus. My Moon & Venus are in my 2nd house and Saturn here has definitely been affecting me financially. I am not making less $$ so far but have had all kind of crazy expenses starting the moment it hit my 2nd house cusp: traffic tickets, tax audit, higher insurance from said ticket, damage to a rental property that is costing me, urgent repairs needed, fees, cash flow issues and on and on and on. (I also have Pluto transiting thru 4th BTW.) Last year I broke off with everyone I was dating as well as a ton of superficial friends. It has felt pretty bleak. The Saturn conj Moon has really dulled my emotional response and the Mars opposition is making everything a lotta hard work for very little result. I'm ready for a serious marriage type relationship and hopeful that the Saturn/Venus conjunction could actually signify that. However, in my progressed chart, Venus is now almost totally opposite Saturn. Ugh. MAJOR. LOVE. BLOCKER. That's a lotta Venus/Saturn action there. Has anyone had all that on top of each other? Doesn't sound good. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted January 23, 2013 09:53 AM
My moon is at 2 Sco, Mars at 10 Sco and Venus at 18 Sco. I fell in love with a man 10 yrs older than me when Saturn was transiting my Moon (last autumn). We both have stressful Venus-Saturn natal aspects and are saturnian in a way. Im cappy with Cappy DC.
He has feelings for me too, but he is married, so this all is difficult. We nearly dont see each other (only because of work).
I have suffered all my life because of the crippling Saturn-Venus opposition I have in natal. But in a weird way, my closeness fears have diminished during this transit, so it may not be bad, but good.
I feel quite alone though these last months, distanced from others.IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted January 24, 2013 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by Ann7:
What's everyones experience with this transit? Does it tend to put a strain on the persons relationship by any chance? I'd love to hear your opinions.
Transit saturn to natal venus seems to bring on stabilization of relationships and learning about more practical matters involving relationships. Transit venus to natal saturn is more difficult for relationships. Its a time when people might not feel as confident with their relationships, more socially withdrawn, they may feel more unloved, more tension within relationships from taking on more responsibilities causing emotional burdens etc. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 25, 2013 05:48 AM
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I have suffered all my life because of the crippling Saturn-Venus opposition I have in natal.
Can you share more about your relationships difficulties. I know someone with the opposition, who has Venus as Dsc ruler. IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted January 25, 2013 04:35 PM
To NineI have taurus Saturn (11h) opposing scorpio Venus (5h) in natal. Im cappy with all personal planets (ex cappy Mercury) in scorpio and in my 5th (introvert). NN in aqua. AC cancer, DC cappy. Ouch. Maybe my situation is a bit particular because my natal chart seems to have been "designed" for emotional suffering... a Leo (5th house) - Scorpio person craves admiration and romance, but I have been "blessed" with a low self-esteem (mother-father love absent) and I have to move towards Aqua NN - all my scorpio planets squaring this NN direction. Away from being the centre of attention, away from passionate love - towards humanitarian acts and love for all mankind. MUHAHHHAA I married at the age of 20 a man I wasnt in love with (common for Venus-Saturn persons I think), stayed with him 15 years because of kids and at the same time led platonic love affairs and spent all my adult years (15-20 years) crying for men who didnt want me. They didnt want me because first, I was married,,, second, they had their own Saturn (closeness) issues and third, I held back my love. After divorce on 2007 the same trend has continued... I think that Venus-Saturn person instinctively chooses a partner who has Saturn (closeness) problems, who has a deep wound. All the men I loved (there was no relationship because all of them (3-4) were unavailable in some way or another) had distant mothers (Aqua moons mainly) and had built around themselves a high wall I was trying to get through. But the wall was too high and thick and I (Saturn-wounded too) didnt show my love much. I was very NEEDY - demanding love, but not giving any out. I had so much fear and anxiety that I was not loved back, that I was like a big black hole that devoured all light (so said one of them). Only now I am starting to realize that I have to TRUST and I have to LOVE FIRST. My fear that I am not loved (Venus-Saturn) was so huge, that I would have been a dysfunctional partner. I can say that I have not had a reciprocally loving relationship until this day. But I know it is on the way. Im in love with a Venus-square-Saturn man whose Saturn is on my Sun... thanks to him I am starting to open up, to trust. IP: Logged |
8ofHearts
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posted November 26, 2013 02:01 PM
Hi jjj,
Was curious to know how all this is working out for you. I now have Saturn transiting my Venus at 18 Scorp and have met a bunch of love interests but things have been delayed, it seems. One's Saturn is actually conjunct our mutual Venus & my Moon also. My Saturn is conjunct his south node (ruled by Moon.) Hmmm...One funny thing: all the men I've attracted recently all have Venus conj or sextile Saturn natally and/or Venus in scorp either conj my Moon & Venus so they are going through the same Saturn transit.
Was curious to see how this has played out over time. Has it lasted? IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted November 26, 2013 04:54 PM
Thanks for asking, Hearts.My Venus is at 18 Sco as well, welcome to the club . Saturn will go over our venus till December 2014, I just checked today. Not much fun here. I live in isolation... home, work, some sports, home, work... I dont want to see people, seldom talk to colleagues... this is probably Saturn influence. With this Saturnian guy things are exactly the same... he has been avoiding me like... I dont even find words... as if I were suffering from a highly contagious airborne disease he could catch only by looking at me or being in the same room. There was a small opening after the eclipse... we met by chance and he was very nice and open and even mentioned that we could lunch together sometimes. Since then there has been silence, but I feel a tad more positive now.
Saturn on my Venus will probably bring some change, either for better or worse. But it is still definitely continuing, yes.
I like Venus/Saturn in man. They are shy and apparently cold romantics and sweetheats . Saturn on your Venus is very binding... I hope this transit will be good for us in the end.
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 26, 2013 05:00 PM
Zomg, so many Scorp Venuses, and they're all around my Sun, you must love me!! 
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Sigh, okay.
I'm having a Saturn transit as well and it's full of... fun times.  IP: Logged |
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