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Topic: Saturn conjunct Sun in Synastry=Glue?
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Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 04:45 PM
If your SO's Satrn sits close to your Sun is that a good thing and will that be glue to the relationship. There are other yummy aspects but this one I am not real sure about.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 483 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 04:49 PM
It can be, just be careful. When saturn binds its not necessarily going to be positive.IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1296 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 05:05 PM
It depends on how the conjunction is aspected by the other planets and what house it is in. I have this conjunction with someone (his Saturn/my Sun in Aries) as part of a grand trine.. also involving his own Sun (Leo) and my Saturn (Sag)... and it's always been very positive. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 607 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 05:08 PM
Whoever is Saturn, just be sure not to unnecessarily criticize the Sun. Accept the other person for who they are flaws and all! If you are the Sun, be sure to be yourself! If you feel restricted, it's you! Until Saturn starts criticizing you, any restrictions you may feel, ignore them! ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 05:15 PM
"If you are the Sun, be sure to be yourself!"Wow I am the Sun, and no he does not critisize me at all. I can go on and on sometimes being very emotional and he just ignores me or tries to be kind or explain things..In turn I have no worries about being myself.. I so wish I knew how to post our synastry I really need help on this.. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 607 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 07:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Evolved1: "If you are the Sun, be sure to be yourself!"Wow I am the Sun, and no he does not critisize me at all. I can go on and on sometimes being very emotional and he just ignores me or tries to be kind or explain things..In turn I have no worries about being myself.. I so wish I knew how to post our synastry I really need help on this..
Go to Astro.com and Extended Drawings and Calculations. Then go to chart drawings. Then enter both of your birth data. Then pick synastry from the drop down menu. Then upload the chart onto tinypic. Then post here.
OR, just post both of your birth data here and i'll post the chart for you :-)
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sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1303 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 07:37 PM
You could feel like your partner is a wise person. They are probably very deep or have profundities about them. They anchor you. They make you feel stable and safe. At worse this safety might lead to you feeling listless or bored with his stability. But overall you might feel like yes, you're bound together and they have much they can offer you. If the conjunction was in Pisces in the 3rd for example, you might feel like your partner if they are Saturn has a lot to teach you or offer you about deep communications. If they are the Sun person and you are Saturn, they might enliven you and make you feel you can be even more deeply expressive and creative. There's a lot of possibilities here.
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Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1080 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted January 29, 2013 08:12 PM
I really appreciate everyone's take on this aspect in synastry. I expected a bunch of "YOU'RE DOOMED" or "ABANDON ALL HOPE" type interpretations... Because I have this in a synastry where I am Saturn, and I do not EVER criticize him. I support him to the best of my ability, and there is nothing I would change about him, I'd only encourage him towards his potential but never change him as a person. IP: Logged |
Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 29, 2013 09:03 PM
Thank you Got Gemini, I need some help here..Me: 2-25-68I chgo IL 5:45 am Him: 1-19-66 Chgo IL 12:00 midnight.. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 607 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 10:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by Evolved1: Thank you Got Gemini, I need some help here..Me: 2-25-68I chgo IL 5:45 am Him: 1-19-66 Chgo IL 12:00 midnight..
I'll post up in a few :-)
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Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 607 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 29, 2013 11:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Evolved1: Thank you Got Gemini, I need some help here..Me: 2-25-68I chgo IL 5:45 am Him: 1-19-66 Chgo IL 12:00 midnight..
Synastry: Synastry table: Composite: ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 12:31 AM
This is it...Now can you give me some insight please Got Gemini. I Just broke up with him. Just feels like it will never be over..IP: Logged |
Leocassandra Newflake Posts: 8 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 30, 2013 06:18 AM
Honestly...Orbit is quite wide, too wide.IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 2855 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 30, 2013 09:33 PM
Its depends on a few things: 1. If Saturn/Sun aspects are a common theme in your close or past relationships. 2. If you have this aspect natally, sometimes we are drawn to people who shared similar natal aspects. In this case this aspect could be glue for you.I believe Saturn-Sun aspects can teach you a well deserved lesson about discipline and ego. Actually that quintile could be very beneficial. "The Quintile is the creative, willing risk taking, playful and joyful dimension of the relationship. If you find these there is joy to be found in the relationship. It might be through children, through work or just simply enjoyment of each other and a common involvement with arts, music etc. These people are prepared to take a few chances, and will tend to lay it all on the line to each other so there is indwelling honesty. This is where the love affair can continue into old age. It is a solar kind of energy and if it's between personal planets, they each shine and bask in each other's glow. It occurs in partnerships in artistic fields. Individually they may be mediocre but together they're dynamite. They bounce off each other, feed each other, inspire and resonate off each other. The vibration is wonderful. It brings the facet of playfulness to the relationship, a childlike quality that means there is an area, which is fun. So, of the minor aspects you can't do better than a quintile. It's the Best Friend energy that can keep a relationship alive and vital. But it goes a little further because it empowers the individuals to be creative and fruitful within the relationship. Quintiles are measured from plus or minus seventy-two degrees. Bi-quintiles are measured from plus or minus one hundred and forty four degrees which is one or two fifths of a circle. When planets are quintile or bi-quintile this is an indication of uncommon creative energy and talent. They are trend-setters and need an audience. The energy here is specialized and purposely striving toward power. Quintile and bi-quintile energy can be romantic, playful and demonstrative. The quintile family of aspects can indicate science, math and engineering. There's a need to make things happen. Cosmic will seems to be at play here, so if creative things aren't happening, then look for destruction. Quintiles and bi-quintiles bring a certain dignity, clarity, pride and unusual sexual energy. A quintile resonates with the Sun, Fixed, Fire and Leo energy." http://erosastrology.proboards.com/index.cgi?board=syn&action=print&thread=490
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Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 31, 2013 01:04 PM
Nice..and that description ia so in point...IP: Logged |
FireMoon Knowflake Posts: 649 From: Minnesota Registered: Mar 2012
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posted January 31, 2013 06:44 PM
I have this with someone, his Saturn conjunct my Sun exact.. My Saturn is opposite his sun (6 degrees). We both have these aspects natally, but definitely not as close as his conjunction to my Sun. And yes I definitely feel "glued". Completely. We've maintained contact over the years despite numerous circumstances pointing to our relationship ending as a short term fling. It's probably best for us to just go our separate ways at this point but I honestly feel like I literally can't. I've tried going out and meeting new people but it always comes back to the fact that I really have feelings for him.. And he's not making it easy to walk away either. I know he doesn't want a full on commitment right now but he has wanted to keep me stuck in this weird state of limbo that we've been in for years.. He knows how I feel about him and I've given him opportunities but he won't tell me to move on, like that's what I'm waiting to hear but he just won't do it.. which is really depressing and unfair imo Also I feel he does criticize me excessively at times, I don't think he even realizes he's doing it.. But it really is like the way a protective parent criticizes their child out of concern/caring.. And then when he does realize he compliments me after lol. I guess I think he feels responsible for helping or protecting me in some ways which isn't a burden I tried to put on him So yeah sorry my Saturn story is kind of depressing at the moment, but it wasn't always, and I think ultimately it's kept us close and Saturn can offer a lot of strength and support to the Sun.. Also of course it depends on a lot of other factors too.. Evolved, what stands out to me in your synastry is you guys have good binding aspects (Sun conjunct Moon, Sun conjunct Juno, Venus conjunct Venus etc), but if anything I would look at the squares your Mars and Uranus make to his moon.. Also Sun square Neptune in composite is tricky. Overall though it doesn't look that bad or Saturn heavy IP: Logged |
Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 31, 2013 07:46 PM
Firemoon: I see the squares and not so good aspects, but hey can't have it all...IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 607 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 01, 2013 12:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Evolved1: This is it...Now can you give me some insight please Got Gemini. I Just broke up with him. Just feels like it will never be over..
I don't know how I missed your reply! I'm not the best at analyzing synastry charts, someone else may be better able to interpret for you. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 3508 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted February 01, 2013 07:39 AM
Evolved1, his Juno (marriage asteroid) is conjunct your sun...a lot of the acceptance & good feelings you get from him could also be coming from that.PLUS two you have sun conjunct moon, Venus conjunct Venus. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 607 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 01, 2013 08:16 AM
Yeah it looks like they have some really nice aspects! I can interpret them individually, I'm still learning how to interpret for the big picture.------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 73 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted February 01, 2013 09:29 AM
Faith: I know this relationship was meanf for marriage. I feel it in the depths of soul. Imma a pisces sun so if I tell you I feel something in the depths of my soul its true. He knows it too just not the right time. We have history over 20 years. When we first met I was 25 and he was 27. Our story is truely a love story which our chart may show that...Its to long to go into but its a story to tell the grand kids..lol "The Note book" has nothing on our story lets just say that...lol Got Gemini: I don't really know how to read charts in depth. But what I have gotten so far is accurate and good. Thank you for just postings the charts for me. Maybe some others who know this better will chime in.. IP: Logged |