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From: Neptune, NJ 07753
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posted January 29, 2013 05:50 PM            

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First I went through this transit. Then me and boyfriend went through it in both of our charts. Mine ended a few weeks ago. My boyfriend's doesn't end until March 6th. Has anyone had any been through this? It's been rough!

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posted January 29, 2013 06:04 PM            

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I liked it, but I was single. I wish I'd taken a lot more advantage of the energy! It hit a lot of my other planets, too, and I was really loving life!

Sorry to hear it's been rough for you.

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posted January 29, 2013 06:17 PM            

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posted January 29, 2013 07:04 PM            

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The fact that you have both made it through the retrograde hit of this transit and are still together is a good sign. In my experience, the final direct hit is the easiest. I guess the Uranus/Pluto square did a number on your relationship..

Uranus square Venus is often regarded as a break up transit. Uranus disrupts and liberates. Usually there is a separation of some kind. If the relationship is strong, you guys will be fine. Look ahead to your transits in march to see what may happen.

I had a similar transit last year. I had been seeing someone for three years, but as Uranus approached, my desire for new experiences and excitement took over me. I met someone else out of the blue and totally fell for him. The guy I had been seeing for 3 years got ignored. I was really distant for a while. I was just ao wrapped up in the new guy. But that relationship didn't work out. Honestly, I have no idea why I fell for him. Total 'what was I thinking?' moment. The relationship (if you could even call it that) was so unstable and I wasn't even that attracted. Anyway the old guy and I got back on track.

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posted January 29, 2013 08:06 PM            

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@starfairy thanks for replying we've come close to breaking up so many times. He wants more freedom so I'm trying to stay distant. This all happened during our first semester away in college (we go to 2 different schools 20 mins away from each other) so with all the new experiences it's been hard. We've been together for 6 years. I hope we make it

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posted January 29, 2013 08:28 PM            

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Yeah, that's pretty common with these transits. Wanting more freedom and seeking new experiences is what the transit is all about. Sorry you're having such a hard time. I can't imagine how frustrating it must be! I went out with this one guy who was having a Uranus conj Venus transit and it was really frustrating. Giving him space is the best thing to do, as hard as it is. Being with someone with this transit is so difficult because you feel so helpless; it feels like there is nothing you can do! Uranus is soooo destabilizing and really forces you to let go. The transit is temporary and you have been
through the worst part of it already. Things will get
better. If your Venus is in cancer, Jupiter will be
conjunct it in a few months! I hope you pull through. As Uranus moves away from his Venus, I hope things will calm down and he comes back to his senses.

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