posted February 01, 2013 01:26 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Yeah I agree, I adore Aries

My fav past lover was Aries and god was it intense and beautiful (we had Eros conj Psyche tho as well). Also he was 3 years younger and generally LOATHE the idea of being with men more than 2-3 yrs older. Some old wrinkleface to get erotic pleasure from my looks? No chance, no chance at all

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posted February 01, 2013 02:12 PM            

I only disagree that "Aries learns how to be more productive and structured, while still being Aries.", It seems that Cap needs more Aries than aries needs Cap, and the Capricorn needs to change and not the ram. But there are different kinds of capricorn and Aries, some more evolved, some less.

posted February 01, 2013 05:42 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I love Aries'. And Libra. And Caps. But I don't like Cancer's..Wonder why?

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posted February 01, 2013 09:42 PM            

Disregard everything you've heard about this "incompatibility". A Capricorn + Aries relationship, a radical combination of Cardinal earth and fire, can form a volcanic eruption of life and passion.

As a Capricorn woman, you imagine yourself as the fruit of the Earth, the highest apple on the tallest tree...Sometimes the Aries man, when looking for a challenge, will attempt to pursue the highest apple but most of the time he's too impatient and restless. Capricorn nature is a lot slower than Aries, sometimes too slow. Capricorn, if you don't attempt to move as swift as Aries, you could miss out. Step down and make yourself available, you can challenge him later.
One of the best lessons a Capricorn can learn from Aries is "to go with the flow" and let go of the attempt to control.

A Capricorn woman will have trouble trying to control her Aries man, in which she will have to submit to his will. This will be a tough challenge for her because she finds her Aries man to be underdeveloped and lacking maturity in the "control" department. Or in anything for that matter... Sitting back and letting him take the wheel can be a nerve-wracking but life changing experience for her! Capricorn will then realize what she knew along: true power is refined and not brash.

A Capricorn woman might feel she is losing a part of herself by submitting to Aries. She will soon learn that she can get the Ram to do whatever she wants this way. By letting her Ram dominate, she fuels the Cardinal fire within him, reminding her why she fell for him in the first place.

A Capricorn must remember not to put out Aries fiery flame with pessimism or realism. Both signs are Cardinal but in different ways. Aries initiates by excitement while Capricorn is fueled by practicality. Nothing excites Capricorn more than realistic vision. Aries tend to shoot high, far, and wide in the range of possibilities. She can assist him in making these possibilities tangible, since Aries are great at initiating tasks. He will love her it.

Aries, your Capricorn woman loves and deserves recognition. Don't let anything great go unnoticed, or she will feel drained and neglected. We love to know that you notice even the subtle things we do, whether it's consistently showing up on time, or always replying back to your text messages in proper time.
When she tells you about her day and accomplishments at work, "listen as if you were hearing the Gettysburg Address for the first time" (1). She will love you for it.

Earth signs enjoy being a provider for their partners.

As the Goat and the Ram relationship develops, the two will learn from each other and begin to respect each other's approaches towards the world. The once uptight worrywart Capricorn will develop a new sense of relief in immediate life while the impulses of the excitable Aries will develop a better sense of direction and responsibility. Neither will lose their sense of identity since both signs think highly of themselves.

Since the Goat and the Ram are both very similar yet very different, one thing to look out for is that the two don't focus on each other's shortcomings. But that is important in any relationship.

A perspective of a 26.08 (Third Decan) Capricorn woman dating an 8.58 (First Decan) Aries man.

posted February 13, 2013 02:32 PM            

One of my closest friends is third decan Cap married to third decan Aries (who, btw, is hot as blazes) and they are soooooooo cute together it almost makes people sick.

They're on vacation in Barbados as I type. He windsurfs while she reads books in five languages and sunbathes. Ha!

As for myself (second decan Cap) I can't think of any Aries guys I've ever been attracted to, not even celebrities, except if you extend the Pisces-Aries Cusp...like up to March 25th.

posted February 13, 2013 04:25 PM            

We are both very determined. I remember reading something on another site that read the two agree on "military history, politics, music, and running". Those are interests we share, haha.

posted February 13, 2013 09:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
If the WOMAN is an Aries and the MAN is a Capricorn, it can work. Not so much the other way around.

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posted February 13, 2013 09:16 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Me either. They are kinda too prone to be sorry for themselves, never really willing to do things, just go with the flow then complain

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posted February 14, 2013 07:12 AM            

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Goatcat,

You mentioned that Aries and Capricorn need each other, and in a way I think it’s true. I’ve noticed that in a general sense that Fire signs and Earth signs tend to ‘need’ each other. And that Air signs and Water signs tend to ‘need’ each other, even if they are not traditionally compatible.

The enthusiasm and passion of Fire needs the grounding and practicality of Earth. And Vice Versa. Fire is about inspiration and Earth is about making things happen in the physical world. Same thing with Air and Water. The intellect and rationality of Air needs the empathy and emotional sensitivity of Water, and vice versa. They balance each other out. I always find it cute, and somehow symbolically fitting when I see Air/Water or Earth/Fire romances. These can be the most heartbreaking relationships when they fail. But when they work its like a kind of magic alchemy occurs. Each provides what the other lacks, and they are better together then they were apart.

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Wow that is so true.
I've always felt this way as well. Someone could easily make the argument that water and fire need each other too because they both express their emotions, and even though that is true, I have a lot more fun with air sign people because even though fire is more expressive they boil our waters into a stormy broth. I feel that air signs do express their emotions once you get to know them. My favorite thing about the air/water pairing is the mental spark between them and their mutually sweet/compromising natures.

posted February 14, 2013 09:21 AM            

Our Planets

Me: Aries sun/mercury
Him: Capricorn Sun/Mercury

Me: Gemini Venus
Him: Capricorn Venus

Me: Aquarius Mars
Him: Scorpio Mars

Me: Taurus Moon
Him: Aquarius Moon

Me: Virgo ASC
Him: Capricorn or Scorpio ASC (don't know)

So you can see we are complete opposites, but that is exactly what fascinates me about him. My Earth ASC, Moon & stellium of outer planets (including rulers of 5th & 7th house) are in Capricorn, I believe in not what I want but what I need to be more grounded & he is exactly what I need. The stability, the strength, the motivation, the patience. wow!!!

He is the only guy in my life I have handeled with so much love & patience. After 4 months of showering him with compliments & affection & love notes, he is finally opening up.

I believe he has a really small child inside of him, to protect that child he has just closed himself off & his own mother is not allowed to see things he believes is personal (& that includes pretty much everything). he's just an insecure child, & a child just needs love.

One day he said he needs me. That was exactly when I knew I will never give up on him )

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posted February 14, 2013 10:57 AM            

I am mostly earth and water (no fire) and he's mostly fire and air (absolutely no water).

posted October 04, 2013 11:50 AM            

always ready to go, dynamic, energized and venturous.