posted February 08, 2013 09:22 PM              

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Saturnine - Can you find midpoints without time of birth? I've asked him. He doesn't know (HOW does anyone go throughout their life not knowing?!)

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posted February 08, 2013 09:23 PM            

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I get pretty clingy when their Mars is trine or square my Moon. Just *latchonforever* I get pretty needy around them. Haha it's surprising but it's not the worst thing in the world. It also adds to the attraction overall.

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posted February 08, 2013 09:23 PM            

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*ahem* *ahem* -- He's already e-married.

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when are we gonna have cyber babies

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posted February 08, 2013 09:23 PM            

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posted February 08, 2013 09:32 PM            

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cyber babies

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awwwwwwwwwwww - are you saying you're ready to conceive a brand new twitter page with me?

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posted February 08, 2013 09:33 PM            

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hannaramaa: I just want to talk to him all the time and know what he's doing even though the conversations aren't that deep and meaningful. Ugh. Why do I react this way when it's not even up to par with my standards?!

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Makes me think of
-Merc placed in the 6th via synastry
-Moon/Merc or Merc/Venus synastry

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posted February 08, 2013 09:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
awwwwwwwwwwww - are you saying you're ready to conceive a brand new twitter page with me?

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haha, you should come talk in hearth and home, that way we dont derail hannas thread

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posted February 08, 2013 09:34 PM            

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Lonake!!!!!!!

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-Moon/Merc or Merc/Venus synastry

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Why Mercury in the 6th?

Could it be Mercury-Pluto as well? Pluto rules obsession.

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posted February 08, 2013 09:47 PM            

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Hello lil lady,

Merc/6th cos it's the house of schedules/the day to day, Merc curious about what you're up to even mundane things, wants to know the details. This could be interpreted as clingy.
Yea maybe Merc/Pluto People with strong Scorp go so far as to ask me what room I'm in (????) don't see why that matters but they want to know when I'm in a different room when I'm talking to em so they can picture me doin my thing I guess? hmm but they fall in my 4th maybe that adds to it. No, but, one Mars Scorp guy told me, get this, he likes to know where people live cos in his mind he walks to visit them (???) so he wants to know the route to get there cos he likes 'visiting' people when he's relaxing. HAAA.

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posted February 08, 2013 09:54 PM              

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LOL that's cute...and weird Lonake. But I like it. It's original.

In any case, what's funny is I feel like I'm picking up all the traits he's supposed to be displaying. The possessiveness is my Taurus moon, etc. but I ask him a TON of questions. Not in a demanding way but like I said - because I want to know everything.

He actually has Mercury in Scorpio conjunct Pluto and he doesn't ask me questions. Maybe he already knows...

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posted February 09, 2013 02:12 AM            

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Like aquaguy, I don't mind at all of the other person wants to talk everyday as long as the conversation is good. However, I will only talk/contact as much as I think you're comfortable with. If I think you don't want to be bothered, I might text out call once per week. If you like talking, I might talk to you multiple times per day with conversation that has substance.

I don't have a problem with women being clingy with me as long as it doesn't get in the way of what I'm doing. Again, I'll gauge how much attention you want and dish it out accordingly. Maybe it's my mutable placements that help me adapt.

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posted February 09, 2013 03:08 AM              

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He lacks air in his chart whereas I have ASC, Mars, and Jupiter all in Gemini and Mars conj. my ASC. I re-read his first (BRAND spankin' new) messages to me and the personality in them is MUCH different than the one I'm currently getting. It's just lately the conversation has sucked. I don't tell him mundane details about my life 'cause what's it matter, and he doesn't tell me about his. I could ask - but it's like pulling teeth. I didn't text him all day today, so he texted me a picture. I was a little bit taciturn but responsive. I wonder if he's just like using me as a psych experiment... damn.

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posted February 09, 2013 03:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Define clingy.

My Cancer Venus wants to know

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My Leo Venus, Cancer Moon wants to know too

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posted February 09, 2013 04:01 AM            

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The clingiest person I've know had cancer Venus and moon in libra

The most hopeless case EVER

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posted February 09, 2013 04:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:

I don't have a problem with women being clingy with me as long as it doesn't get in the way of what I'm doing. Again, I'll gauge how much attention you want and dish it out accordingly. Maybe it's my mutable placements that help me adapt.

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awwwww you are such a sweetie!!!!!!!! <3

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posted February 09, 2013 04:19 AM            

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Originally posted by starfairy:
Pluto opposite moon wants to know their partner likes them as much as they like their partner.

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I obsess over it SO much, especially in the beginning of a relationship Moon sq Pluto.

Like I would WANT to talk to him like everyday, want to know what he is doing and stuff, even if it's mundane things because I equal it to the degree of interest he has in me, if he doesn't talk to me, it means he is not interested... Am I clingy?

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posted February 09, 2013 08:43 AM            

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The clingiest person I've know had cancer Venus and moon in libra

The most hopeless case EVER

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How was this person clingy?

#intriguedpose

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posted February 09, 2013 09:52 AM            

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Scorpio and cancer.

I'm not clingy, I think my exes had a problem with me being too space loving.

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posted February 09, 2013 09:54 AM            

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The clingiest person I've know had cancer Venus and moon in libra

The most hopeless case EVER

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Omg yeah! Lol I think the cancer placements make them overly so. A really good friend is a Gemini sun, Libra moon, Cancer Venus, rising and mars and O M GEE.
Sht son.

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posted February 10, 2013 01:13 PM            

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No, but, one Mars Scorp guy told me, get this, he likes to know where people live cos in his mind he walks to visit them (???) so he wants to know the route to get there cos he likes 'visiting' people when he's relaxing. HAAA.

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awesome.

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posted February 10, 2013 02:42 PM            

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How was this person clingy?

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Well the girl was my flatmate who had just got dumped by a bf who broke off their engagement. Ha! Shouldnt have let her move in knowing she'd just been dumped.

Anyway, she would go out of her way to get dates, would be super nervous before them, run around, fret, apply makeup, cook for them, send idiotic texts etc etc

Most of the guys who'd come over to see her never came back, the ones that did were her gay friends

And well it would take some male presence around for her to immediately start acting like a total idiot, try to get all the limelight, flash her underwear etc etc.

She felt really insecure not being in relationships, apparently her heart was set on getting herself a new one ASAP.

She was even clingy with me! I was upset that she'd misplaced my things, I stopped talking to her, then there was the most massive drama ever: yours truly was making her feel like sh1t, and who cares yours truly would have to overcome disgust to get herself to talk to the poor thing. Apparently my comfort came second to hers. Horrible horrible horrible.

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posted February 10, 2013 10:19 PM            

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Would there be any Pluto/Moon factors at play? Perhaps that's borderlining obsessive and clingy though.. maybe uranus in the other person coming out a bit and feeling like they're being clung to?

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am i the only aquarius guy on the planet who actually likes clinginess? lol

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You aren't alone! I was with an Aqua guy and he was clingy and liked for me to be very dependent on me whereas I don't mind a little bit but really don't like a lot of it.

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posted February 11, 2013 12:14 AM            

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I have a Cancer sister who pretty much wants everyone to leave her alone. She has Moon-Saturn conjunct and her inner planets in the 12th house.

I used to be somewhat clingy, and disrespectful of people's boundaries in general. I'm heavy fire with little air. Interestingly enough, my sister literally has NO air in her chart. She is super water heavy. Let me reiterate. She NEEDS her space.

I think Cancer Moons are clingy. Not necessarily Cancer Suns. I will agree about Sagittarius Sun women being clingy. Taylor Swift is getting on my damn nerves with all these petty little disses at her exes.
Finally, I will say Libra Moons. My mom has this placement and she calls at least 500 times a day.

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posted February 11, 2013 12:26 AM            

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''I think Cancer Moons are clingy''

Am cancer moon. I like to have regular convos with the person I like, I may also get obsessive ( Moon sq pluto) but am not clingy. I actually need a lot of space. Lots of uranus in my chart.

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posted February 11, 2013 12:34 AM              

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i love clingy. i'm not clingy but i am possessive.

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