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Topic: Clinginess... aspects and houses. What causes it?
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hannaramaa
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posted February 08, 2013 03:09 PM
 
Go on with your bad selves. Let a girl know.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 03:23 PM
cancer placements... i have had several experiences with cancer girls and they are clingy as fuk.... one texted me over 100 times while i was at work and had my phone off.. she freaked the fuk out.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted February 08, 2013 03:40 PM
Okay. That's a start... What about people who are clingy but fight it, or don't show it? Like ME? Haha. What in synastry can promote clinginess in a couple, or perhaps one person but not the other? Venus/Uranus? Venus/Jupiter, Venus/Mars, Venus Sun? (Venus aspecting Uranus and the fiery planets in case you didn't catch that.) IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2013 03:59 PM
I guess clinginess is different from possessiveness right?
I've delt with scorpios that want to know what your doing and where you are 24/7 its more possessive behavior..
but I have to agree with you and say its probably synastry.
venus/saturn
venus/ pluto
moon pluto
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starfairy
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posted February 08, 2013 04:19 PM
I agree with Cancer. Scorps, too (in the Pluto way). Pisces can be quite dependent.I also agree it's synastry. A man's Moon in a woman's 1st house= man is clingyyyy! In my experience, at least. As a Sag Ascendant, I find Sag moon men soooo clingy. Also, Pluto aspects, for sure. Very obsessive. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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posted February 08, 2013 04:27 PM
Define clingy.My Cancer Venus wants to know  ------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
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libraschoice77
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posted February 08, 2013 04:48 PM
Have alot of Cancer placements in my chart along with alot of Pluto placements. Have been told before I was clingy, even though it didnt seem that way to me. Once from a Pisces guy I dated for a few months in college, just because I would call at least once a day just to see how he was doing. After awhile he stopped calling me back so I stopped calling him thinking he was too busy. Eventually I ran into him between classes, and asked him if was doing ok, he quickly got angry and told me off in front of alot of people. Saying I was smothering him and was to clingy and he just wanted his space, even though according to him we were serious. This coming from a water sun with a water moon. Was really shocked by the fact that he felt that way, he could have just told first hand instead of embarassing me in front of some of the school:/IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted February 08, 2013 04:57 PM
quote:
Originally posted by libraschoice77:
Have alot of Cancer placements in my chart along with alot of Pluto placements. Have been told before I was clingy, even though it didnt seem that way to me. Once from a Pisces guy I dated for a few months in college, just because I would call at least once a day just to see how he was doing. After awhile he stopped calling me back so I stopped calling him thinking he was too busy. Eventually I ran into him between classes, and asked him if was doing ok, he quickly got
angry and told me off in front of alot of people. Saying I
was smothering him and was to clingy and he just
wanted his space, even though according to him we
were serious. This coming from a water sun with a
water moon. Was really shocked by the fact that he felt
that way, he could have just told first hand instead of
embarassing me in front of some of the
school:/
wow, what a jerk!!! Publicly embarrassing you like that is not cool. IP: Logged |
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posted February 08, 2013 05:00 PM
I have Cancer Venus. I've never been told I was clingy. Maybe is my air placements that balance that out.------------------
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libraschoice77
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posted February 08, 2013 05:02 PM
Surprisingly he was a double Pisces, but yeah he could have used more tact with telling me *shaking head*IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted February 08, 2013 05:03 PM
i dont know why people usually say cancers....
because, ive met a couple of sagittarius women who are very clingy....
and no, no heavy scorpio in the charts. texting me all of the time, and if i didnt respond right away, they wouldnt stop...
i think there was some anxiety IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 05:03 PM
am i the only aquarius guy on the planet who actually likes clinginess? lolIP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted February 08, 2013 05:05 PM
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
am i the only aquarius guy on the planet who actually likes clinginess? lol
seriously? you do....?
i need to meet more aquas like you.
adore aquas.... IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 05:09 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
seriously? you do....?
i need to meet more aquas like you.
adore aquas....
yes the way i figure it if you care about someone you want them in your life and you want to be in contact with them.. if you dont want to talk to someone you dont like them,simple as that. IP: Logged |
starfairy
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posted February 08, 2013 05:13 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hikoro:
i dont know why people usually say cancers....
because, ive met a couple of sagittarius women who are very clingy....
and no, no heavy scorpio in the charts. texting me all of the time, and if i didnt respond right away, they wouldnt stop...
i think there was some anxiety
Cancers are known for being insecure, which leads to clinginess. The one cancer guy I dated needed to hear from me once an hour, or else he got scared I didn't like him anymore. It didn't last. Sags aren't usually associated with being clingy. We are definitely aggressive, direct, and go after what we want, though. You must have something in your chart that sags really like. IP: Logged |
Krista_Kay_1993
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posted February 08, 2013 05:14 PM
I can be clingy so i think Cancer Venus but than again my venus opposes Uranus (freedom) so i require alot of freedom IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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posted February 08, 2013 05:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by aquaguy91:
yes the way i figure it if you care about someone you want them in your life and you want to be in contact with them.. if you dont want to talk to someone you dont like them,simple as that.
I can understand this point of view.
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ail221
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posted February 08, 2013 05:15 PM
quote:
Originally posted by hikoro:
i dont know why people usually say cancers....
because, ive met a couple of sagittarius women who are very clingy....
and no, no heavy scorpio in the charts. texting me all of the time, and if i didnt respond right away, they wouldnt stop...
i think there was some anxiety
Yup this comes from knowing three Sag women and two with a Sag stellium and aqua moon. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 05:17 PM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
I can understand this point of view.
i can attest to the fact that i have never cared how much someone talked to me if i liked them.. if i like someone talking to them is a joy,not a nuisance.
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hikoro
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posted February 08, 2013 05:21 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i can attest to the fact that i have never cared how much someone talked to me if i liked them.. if i like someone talking to them is a joy,not a nuisance.
marry me. lol. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted February 08, 2013 05:22 PM
Idk I find it irritating if someone keeps on texting me asking what I'm doing in the middle of the weekday and get angry when I don't text them back...
I'm obviously busy, I'm not laying in grass..
My best friend is scorpio moon and shes always angry at me because of that lolAlso I hate that in relationships, thats biggest annoyance, you don't own me nor have done anything for me to lose your trust.. If I tell them where I am, thats what I'm doing. I don't need million texts!!!!! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted February 08, 2013 05:22 PM
^you gotta court me before we do that  IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted February 08, 2013 05:26 PM
On the other hand "clinginess" or "possessive natures " isn't something necessarily such a bad thing if its a long distance relationship.IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted February 08, 2013 05:31 PM
quote:
Originally posted by ail221:
Yup this comes from knowing three Sag women and two with a Sag stellium and aqua moon.
im glad im not the only one...
mind you, im not stating that cancers cannot be clingy... but, the saggies ive come across...it can be to the point where i feel suffocated, because they were very upfront about it.
a cancer will make me feel smothered, but...wanted.
but i think the sag, being so fiery...i just feel too pressured and literally, inside a heat bubble. *need to get away*
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hikoro
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posted February 08, 2013 05:32 PM
quote:
Originally posted by starfairy:
Sags aren't usually associated with being clingy. We are definitely aggressive, direct, and go after what we want, though. You must have something in your chart that sags really like.
something in my chart. food for thought...hmmmm.
now, it only happens with saggie women, never with the men. IP: Logged |
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