posted March 07, 2013 10:01 PM            

Met for a first date this week, and whoa. We had spoken on the phone beforehand for about an hour, and definitely had a ton in common. Pretty much we were each others "perfect match" on paper. Everything we both were seeking in a partner. Within 3 minutes of the date, he was pawing at me. Now, I'm used to guys being attracted to me, but he was truly pawing me. All over. Stroking my hair, my face, my legs, my waist... He kept complimenting me on how beautiful and fit I was, blah blah. It got to the point where he was clearly no longer interested in first date chat, as he was SO distracted by the idea of sex and touching me, all attempts at polite conversation were gone. It was like he was drunk with lust.

The date lasted all of an hour, and he was ushering me out the door. I said something about the date being so short, and were we going to get together again? He said that was an obvious question, as of course we would. Next thing I know, we're making out hot and heavy on a bench. He kept asking me to go home with him, and I was pretty clear that wasn't going to happen.

He offered to drive me to my car, which he did, and then we got into it again in his car. This time, he was sucking on my fingers, and get this - even my TOES. Oh, my! He still was trying to get me to go home with him. I got out of the car, and said good night.

We were driving home separately, and when parked at a light, he rolled down his window and again asked me to go home with him. I said no, again. He then said something about how we could have skin to skin contact, without sex. (WTF?). I kept driving in a fog, as the night was so intense, I was vibrating with energy.

He called me, once again tried to get me to follow him home. When he realized this was out as an option, he said that he would call me the next day, and we would look at our schedules and set up a second date.

Surprise, surprise. NO call.

Now, here are my questions.

Is this typical of scorpio men to be SO overly sexual and pushy?

Was he just out for booty, and nothing more?

Is it possible he feels ashamed or embarrassed for how he acted? I mean, toe sucking and his repeated pleas to get me home?

I guess I'm disappointed, because before the date, I thought he was amazing. And, two minutes into the date, I thought that, too. Things definitely took a Southern direction pretty quickly, though.

posted March 07, 2013 10:28 PM            

I've done a lot of dating, and I have NEVER had a guy come on so strongly. It was like he was sexually possessed or something.

That's why I was asking if it's possible he's embarrassed for being such a dirtbag.

But, you're probably right, and this is his total (player) MO.

posted March 07, 2013 11:00 PM            

One of them would rip off my clothes the moment he walked in through the door. then i'd get slammed on the bed lol!

they are very sexual creatures.

many people dont understand their sexuality

whether u want to give them the booty is up to you

posted March 07, 2013 11:08 PM            

I'm just bummed, because he's older (50s), and I'd like to think older men aren't so scummy. He even made a point of telling me he didn't need viagra. lol

posted March 07, 2013 11:09 PM            

i honestly prefer that since i am very sexual myself.

he probably felt bad for making u uncomfortable.

if ur still interested text him a hello.

if he doesnt respond then blah what can u do

posted March 07, 2013 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by GiggityGirl:
Venusian - I have no problem with him being sexual. I love sex, too, and yes, the chemistry was strong between us. But this was a first date, and within an hour of meeting, this guy was sucking my fingers and toes deep into his mouth, and trying to get me to go home with him.

I'm just bummed, because he's older (50s), and I'd like to think older men aren't so scummy. He even made a point of telling me he didn't need viagra. lol

So, does all of this mean that even before we met, his only intention all along was to get me in bed, provided I was reasonably attractive (or does that even matter? lol).

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thats a scorpio for u lol

i love those men

just text him.

never know til u try

posted March 07, 2013 11:11 PM            

I was interested in getting to know him, but not genitally speaking with an hour of meeting.

I'm a cancer sun, cancer venus, too, so it goes without saying how I view sex and relationships. lol

posted March 07, 2013 11:13 PM            

Isn't the ball kind of in his court? We left it with him saying he was going to call me (yesterday) so we could make plans for a second date.

posted March 07, 2013 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by GiggityGirl:
Venusian - that really was one of my questions. If he backed off because he regretted making such a play, and getting shot down, or if he perceived that as me not being interested.

I was interested in getting to know him, but not genitally speaking with an hour of meeting.

I'm a cancer sun, cancer venus, too, so it goes without saying how I view sex and relationships. lol

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haha i think he felt bad

same thing happened to me when i was younger with an older scorpio man. i was scared

we never saw each other again but 10 years later we still talk on the phone lol!

p.s i believe in one night stands :P

posted March 07, 2013 11:20 PM            

Yep - he would take my hand to his mouth, and jam two or three fingers deep into his mouth and suck on them.

The foot thing happened at the bar. I was wearing peep toe pumps, and as soon as he saw that, he was bending down to take my heel out of the shoe and cup the middle of my foot and heel in his hand.

Once we were in his car, the shoe came off, and he pulled my leg over his lap, and latched onto 3 toes at a time, sucking away like a baby on a teat.

posted March 07, 2013 11:31 PM            

I guess what blows my mind is that we had SO much in common before meeting, and clearly had sexual chemistry, so even if he didn't get laid, why wouldn't he pursue things?

Unless, the obvious, is that he was only it for the nooky, despite all of his other BS crap. On our date, he talked of future things we'd do, how his brother lives in town and how I'll meet him at some point...

bleh.

posted March 07, 2013 11:33 PM            

Agreed that if he were interested, he would have contacted me by this point. He's a scorp, for Pete's sake, and they're certainly not shy about going for what they want.