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Topic: Scorpio's disappearing acts
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Doux Rêve
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posted November 13, 2013 06:12 PM
  
^ Depends on why the power struggles began in the first place.Most Scorpios are very fixed and stubborn, they expect the other person to make the first step and apologize before they even consider budging. I think it's possible to mend a "damaged" relationship with a Scorpio but it all depends on the level of damage, precisely.
If they're super Plutonian, it will be very difficult and even impossible to go back to "normal" interaction... but if they really care and see that you care too, they may try to work on it. IP: Logged |
dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 13, 2013 06:20 PM
Well, in the precise case I have in mind I'm the most Plutonian of the two.
According to my scale, I don't think that anything has been done that would be beyond repair. But I already tried to make the first step, as sincerely and sweetly as I could, and got ignored.
Moon in Leo didn't like that part. At all  Edit: as for why the power struggles began, the usual plutonian stuff. The Scorpio is more in the power thing, I'm more in the mistrust thing. Since, being mercurian, I could lead the conversation quite easily, communication was cut (the famous "one-word answers"). IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 13, 2013 06:22 PM
Ohh. Then play the mind game and see who wins...  But only if you think you can win!  (dang, that's like the worst advice evah).IP: Logged |
dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 13, 2013 06:26 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Ohh. Then play the mind game and see who wins... But only if you think you can win! (dang, that's like the worst advice evah).
Even worse: it's the one I want to hear IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 13, 2013 06:29 PM
You go, girl!!  Keep us updated. IP: Logged |
acousticbob
Knowflake Posts: 150
From: UK
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 13, 2013 08:35 PM
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Originally posted by dadoo:
Is there anyway to make things better with a Scorpio once the relationship, with all the power struggles, has become a battlefield (psychologically abusive behavior followed by defensive retreat on both sides) ?Apart from sex, I mean.
Because yes, it's more often than not the Scorpio way of solving stuff but I kind of don't like the idea of them behaving like jerks and getting rewarded Plus, my question is also about friendship ^^
The only thing I can think of is time apart. With the occasional brief interaction.
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joyful1
Knowflake Posts: 93
From: MI. United States
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted November 14, 2013 08:29 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ Depends on why the power struggles began in the first place.Most Scorpios are very fixed and stubborn, they expect the other person to make the first step and apologize before they even consider budging. I think it's possible to mend a "damaged" relationship with a Scorpio but it all depends on the level of damage, precisely.
If they're super Plutonian, it will be very difficult and even impossible to go back to "normal" interaction... but if they really care and see that you care too, they may try to work on it.
The scorpio I am talking to did apologize for disappearing for 6 months even though I am starting to think I may have offended him with a joke I made. But he's now back to acting obsessive towards me and even stalking me. I so do NOT understand this behavior. But his game is working. He has this girl intrigued!!! ------------------
Leogirl :) IP: Logged |
Liliya
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Registered: Jul 2013
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posted November 14, 2013 09:49 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
It's usually the same people who have wet dreams about Edward Cullen that rave on about Scorpios lol.
amen! IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted November 14, 2013 10:29 AM
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Originally posted by joyful1:
The scorpio I am talking to did apologize for disappearing for 6 months even though I am starting to think I may have offended him with a joke I made. But he's now back to acting obsessive towards me and even stalking me. I so do NOT understand this behavior. But his game is working. He has this girl intrigued!!!
Well... it doesn't sound too good to me, to be honest.
Sure, you can be excited and see where it goes but I think that when someone doesn't talk to you for 6 months... it's probably because they had someone else to toy with in the meantime.
And now things are probably not going well with that other person (maybe they're even over) so he's back to focusing on you. I may be off on this but that's the impression I get... So please be careful! IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted November 14, 2013 08:06 PM
The scorpios i dated never did that either. Its okay if it happens once but im older now and i dont take crap like that no more. Its annoying.IP: Logged |
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Knowflake Posts: 714
From: The Strand
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 15, 2013 04:33 AM
He's having you on Joyful. Any person, regardless of sign who loves you will want to be around you, including us Aquarians! The fact that he emotionally debriefed after sex shows that he felt intimate after act, which is what men do after sex. Us women operate differently, we have sex with who we are already close to.
He sensed you were an easy root, is probably fishing around for another none. The rest are games which are only played with others when you feel you're either going to get hurt or when you aren't serious about them. I do it too and I'm an Aqua. IP: Logged |
dadoo
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: Mercury
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted November 15, 2013 04:44 AM
For me it all boils down to:
- do you enjoy the drama?
- do you think your Scorpio loves you?
As long as your answers to these questions are "yes" and "no" respectively, I'd say you're quite safe.
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