posted March 31, 2013 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by CherryVodka:
I know this is a bit off subject, I just wanna know - does anyone know that site 'dxpnet' I think that is one of the worst sites on the internet.

Their astrology forum is full of pricks, and most of them don't even know anything about it.

I was on there a long time ago and some guy was making fun of me/talking trash to me, so I left and never returned.

I would say sorry for being off topic but I'm not really, I wanna know if anyone else hates that site or am I all alone.

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Happy Easter, CherryVodka!

posted March 31, 2013 01:53 PM              

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
True for me! If I actually like someone (and let's be real I'm amorous so there's always a few people), they will probably have to be the one to make the move.

I don't quite think it's bad though. Selfish isn't always bad, but it turns bad when you abuse the person for selfish reasons. Say leading them on without any intent of dating them, only because you like the attention! That's bad. But the desire to want to be pursued isn't bad in itself. My two pence.

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It isn't bad when you put it that way, but I forget since many, many people do the latter of what you mentioned (like the attention, etc.)

posted March 31, 2013 04:43 PM              

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Happy Easter, CherryVodka!

Never even heard of that site until now.

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posted April 10, 2013 09:08 AM            

''a yearning to truly fall in love, but feel they never have and probably never will"

from Jim

but i wonder, does the yearning increases or is just the same every day in/out.

Something like Hope..always there..when u think about it in ya head suddenly u feel it...

posted April 11, 2013 08:48 AM            

I can detach myself from this feeling, but it comes in cycles, so it always returns.

Venus in Scorpio in my 12th house... I don't think I have to comment on this, speaks for itself.

posted April 11, 2013 08:59 AM            

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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
True for me! If I actually like someone (and let's be real I'm amorous so there's always a few people), they will probably have to be the one to make the move.

I don't quite think it's bad though. Selfish isn't always bad, but it turns bad when you abuse the person for selfish reasons. Say leading them on without any intent of dating them, only because you like the attention! That's bad. But the desire to want to be pursued isn't bad in itself. My two pence.

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I also have this tendency, I don't make the 1st move at all.

posted April 11, 2013 09:22 AM            

Its always followed with 'True Love'

So tell me what do u understand under true love for those venus conjunct saturn..

Is True love for u perfect?

Then what is perfect?

Never argueing and always understanding each other?

2 minds dancind instead of battling?
2 hearts sharing and caring without taking?

What is it that u believe that give u that security...that no other relations can have?

Maturity? but i guess a venus conjunct saturn=maturtiy itself in love?

posted April 11, 2013 09:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Aqua86:
When i hear saturn conjunct venus...

Its always followed with 'True Love'

So tell me what do u understand under true love for those venus conjunct saturn..

Is True love for u perfect?

Then what is perfect?

Never argueing and always understanding each other?

2 minds dancind instead of battling?
2 hearts sharing and caring without taking?

What is it that u believe that give u that security...that no other relations can have?

Maturity? but i guess a venus conjunct saturn=maturtiy itself in love?

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I had a relationship which lasted for 6 months, my ex was immature as hell. In love and his behaviour, and everything!

I was treated badly (once he said vulgar words "just because he always says it to his friends", too) and he thought the relationship "took care of itself"...

Oh, the most beautiful part that he said I had a huge forehead and asked me to visit a hairdresser and get a fringe. He wanted to change me, and he constantly compared me to other girls.

One advice I have for everyone: DON'T EVER date a photographer!!! Or at least a "wannabe" one as I did.

posted April 11, 2013 09:47 AM            

So..do i get like a feeling..True love is accepting others?

Then Are u able to love imperfection in others?

Because saturn=though cookie, he only loves strength/perfection/discipline/mature/control oneself, not someone else/mastery but for good us.

posted April 11, 2013 10:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Aqua86:
ouch :')

So..do i get like a feeling..True love is accepting others?

Then Are u able to love imperfection in others?

Because saturn=though cookie, he only loves strength/perfection/discipline/mature/control oneself, not someone else/mastery but for good us.

The mastery of controlling oneself to stop oneself to control others or change, and to love what is real and appreciate what none can percieve with eyes but only prove with actions requires patience and trust=True love?

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For me, maturity is huge turn-on, especially that I have earthy qualities as well (influenced by Virgo and Capricorn), but the perfection part is not so true for me. I mean I rather look for something that is 'beautiful' - in it's own way.

I agree with you, I think acceptance also plays here.
In my opinion trying to change someone is quite a selfish thing to do. It's like you actually don't care about the other person, but only about your own interests, and only you exist - e.g. in my case a goal to finally have a perfect GF/placing own needs in front of the other's needs - so "said" my ex

posted April 18, 2013 01:47 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I admit deep down I dream of a true, lifelong love but I don't think I'm that lucky

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posted April 19, 2013 12:27 AM            

thats why his good with a venus scorp gal like myself because i too want that soulmate forever love

its definately different with them, theyre not too showy or lovey dovey when theyre interested theyre basically the definition of a "man" they work for u and will go to extreme measure to show theyre love for u. theres not a whole lot of flirting, talking/ playing around. its alot of "let me show u what i can do for u" and i sure as hell dont mind that i feel like its a good balance because i love the flirtatious talking and sweetness and his just my man!!!! i can loosen him up

but yes theyre extremely picky, guy i know could have had 20 gorgeous gfs by now but his just not into them. when he finds someone that lights him up the feelings are deeeeeeeeeeeep. very extreme. any girl would feel lucky for a guy like that to fall for them

posted April 19, 2013 08:10 AM            

Once u get used to it and it sink to u as a 2nd nature, then aqua venus will change once again, now he leads, and u can sit back.

By allowing u too initiate, whatever u initiate with, tells a lot about a person.

So do it like this.. 1 time Deep start or question/second a bit lighter, and keep switching...

Cuz this man, is not being a slave, he wants a woman on his side, who can inititate as well as him if needed...focus on if needed..

Talk just to talk=bad..

Better invest energy on working on internal issues that might prevent relation from blossoming

So invest inyourself/ Deep question or talk / light and breezy

posted April 20, 2013 09:26 AM            

i try to dig deep into him, he doesnt budge

=>ye stop trying, world doesn't work like that.

Unless u both a very spiritual and life goal=self exploration==>if this is not the case==>do not touch==>but try this

Once upon a time deep in the mud, there would be a seed, fighting against all things that supress it's needs.All it wanted was to do good deeds, forced to wait, always too late.Life passes by..inside there was a cry...why?!

And then a voice of laughter appeared and said:

Now u know what is at the bottom, why don't u go to the top?

Suddenly the mud dissapeared and the seed saw water as clear as he could imagine his own fear. And beyond the water he saw a white light and at night he saw a blue light.

Inside of his heart something begin to grow.
The seed bursted open,Reborn in its spiritual and physical path.

And the voice of laughters said:

See u at the top, once there we will call u

'Lotus'

Gifted with the ability to repel all that is dirt(science) and to stay pure forever,to understand that life is righteous. That life is precious.So that u may bring hope to mankind.

To guide them trough their struggles their darkness, their solitude, whisper in their hearts and minds, that we care...