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Topic: How to deal with Sun square Ascendant?
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soulstress
Knowflake Posts: 206
From: Neptune's Fantasy Land
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 09, 2013 10:47 AM
  
Am I viewed as someone who has an attitude problem? I dunno..
Do I come off as someone who's not sincere? I dunno..I don't go out of my way to offend people. I am never a mean girl. But someone said I am. Why, I dunno.. What did I do? What did I say that cause others to react negatively? How should I deal with this aspect?  IP: Logged |
k e p h x i
Knowflake Posts: 181
From: St. Paul, MN, USA
Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 09, 2013 11:02 AM
"The Sun square the Ascendant indicates that when you express yourself you unknowingly cause others to react negatively. You tend to get off on the wrong foot because you have trouble convincing people that you are sincere and honest. You come on a bit strong, which just doesn't set quite right with people, and they resent you for it.""You want to win everyone's approval, and you can do so by asserting yourself more modestly, so people don't feel that you are forcing yourself on them." "It is better to attract them to you than to demand their submission." "If you realize that it's not your creative abilities but your attitude that offends people, you will succeed in winning complete approval for your competence." You can't do anything, really. This is your ASC - something we really have no control over. This is our vibe. This is what people preceive. "This is a very significant aspect, as the way your express yourself is rough and even explosive at times, running at cross-purposes to your will, goals, and life purpose. You have trouble getting your ideas and thoughts across, and may have decided that your appearance doesn't matter, or even dress in a self-defeating manner. In any event the way you present yourself conflicts with who you really are, making it difficult for others to know or to respect you, or even repelling them." I know we're not mean, but I am very-very explosive. ------------------
Rising: Virgo
Sun: _____
Moon: _____ IP: Logged |
soulstress
Knowflake Posts: 206
From: Neptune's Fantasy Land
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 09, 2013 11:45 AM
^I can be too...unknowingly.  Me being Aries, sometimes I can't control what comes out of my mouth. -_-
Sometimes I'm clueless that what I said or did was offensive. I guess I should start to be more "self-aware" by the way I communicate or express myself. IP: Logged |
soulstress
Knowflake Posts: 206
From: Neptune's Fantasy Land
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 09, 2013 11:53 AM
The topic was double posted.
My apologies. :-/IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 185
From: New York
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 09, 2013 12:07 PM
Soul,what is your ascendant?? I interpret sun square ascendant as in your purpose and the way your express yourself (sun) is at odds with the way you appear to others or who you would like to be (ASC) IP: Logged |
soulstress
Knowflake Posts: 206
From: Neptune's Fantasy Land
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted April 09, 2013 12:31 PM
^Cancer.
Fire and Water. -_-Sometimes I'm Aries..sometimes I'm Cancer. Never both..if that make sense... :-/ IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 185
From: New York
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 09, 2013 02:30 PM
oh, OK, so Aries/Cancer. So do you feel that you at times need to assert yourself, and other times, you are sensitive and self-protective? I see why you made the comment earlier about just saying things and not seeing that they hurt people--this is the predicament of Aries/Cancer! Aries wants to take the lead, and Cancer wants to support and can sometimes be overbearing/protective to some people--but that is not to say this is you! So, I would say that the key to this would be to know that these two energies are working with you--you have the ability to really combine your take charge nature with a gentle, compassionate side as well! For instance, mine is Cap/Gemini, so I often go through times when I am a full blown Gemini--talk,talk,talk! But then, I am also quiet, reserved, and aloof also which confuses people at times. However, I combine this to make it so that when I do come out of my Cap reserved place, I know that I can pull out those Gemini skills. Do you know what I mean? IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1438
From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted April 09, 2013 03:58 PM
It seems like your ego and inner self would be at conflict or misaligned with your natural outer identity. I feel that maybe you should strive to be more open about who you are. Be more outgoing and don't fear taking center stage but, don't be overwhelming either. IP: Logged |
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