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Topic: How are Cancer men in bed?
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Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 03, 2013 07:13 PM
  
Am a libra sun, mars and rising.
his a Cancer Sun, Mars and rising. He added me randomly and started talking to me. He finds me attractive and his very flirtatious. He has venus in Gemini 27 degrees and I have venus in Scorpio 28 degrees. His very free-adeventureous-Likes different cultures.
anyways I just find it odd that he likes me. and I was wondering how is sex with a cancer.?
Are they aggressive, cuz am very aggressive and I behave all crazy in that department (am not a lady like)... IP: Logged |
PixieJane
Knowflake Posts: 2223
From: CA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted May 03, 2013 07:26 PM
They're generally described as emotional, nurturing, and a tendency to be on the submissive (but not masochistic) side. And they're supposed to love using their mouths. Of course House placements matter, too. The one Cancer male who's sex life I knew a lot about was very giving, and he liked dominant/demanding women (come to think of it, I heard of another Cancer man who loved dominant women as well). He wanted to please, something of a willing slave (not to be confused in the bondage or S&M sense). In a way he was like many women, he would sacrifice himself to a partner but if a partner got to take him for granted then he'd eventually have to leave (though it was always traumatic and he remained supportive of wives even after they split which didn't always go well with future wives, though I think his current wife is a very good choice who is mature about these things and appreciates him). In short, I'd guess he'd be fine with your being aggressive, though don't expect him to be as fiery...and never, ever hurt his feelings (being demanding is one thing, and the 2 Cancers I mentioned even accepted an absurd amount of being controlled, but not cruelty). IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2276
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted May 03, 2013 09:43 PM
in my personal experience (we're both cancers) they would sacrifice their other preferences for their partner but the men like to take charge and be dominate, he would never want to be tied up or dominated.. thats a huge turn offIP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 2074
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 03, 2013 11:09 PM
This one cancer mars was a really bad kisser lol...
Too much saliva ew..IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 829
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 03, 2013 11:45 PM
Is his mars near his asc? In first house or 12th?That will really change how he acts. Generally heavy cancer guys are moody and passive, and the Venus in Gemini will make him super flirty (which I have experienced and don't like). If his mars is in the first house, it'd make him have some Aries like traits too, but we really need to see his chart to get a better idea of how he is as a person. If he has sun conjunct mars, it'd make him more assertive so he would more likely be alittle more dominant in bed. IP: Logged |
beckylee
Knowflake Posts: 99
From: japan
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 04, 2013 07:49 AM
I had 2 cancer boyfriends with gemini venus and they were both perfect in bed. And they got better in time! Because they are emotional and a bit insecure, they might be a little shy at first. IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 04, 2013 08:23 AM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Is his mars near his asc? In first house or 12th?That will really change how he acts. Generally heavy cancer guys are moody and passive, and the Venus in Gemini will make him super flirty (which I have experienced and don't like).
If his mars is in the first house, it'd make him have some Aries like traits too, but we really need to see his chart to get a better idea of how he is as a person.
If he has sun conjunct mars, it'd make him more assertive so he would more likely be alittle more dominant in bed.
Hi there  ,
his mars is in the first house. his asc is 21 degrees and his mars is 28 degrees IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 04, 2013 08:26 AM
How can I upload his chart here?
need help in that please IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
Knowflake Posts: 157
From: London, united kingdom
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 04, 2013 08:33 AM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
I had 2 cancer boyfriends with gemini venus and they were both perfect in bed. And they got better in time! Because they are emotional and a bit insecure, they might be a little shy at first.
I hope this one is gd in bed. Am a bit scared of Cancers as I got some cancer friends (they get attached and are moody, i dont feel there man enough...) However am drawn to there personality for a while then I get annoyed or bored. I hope this guy is gd in bed! thats really important to me the SEX if we r connecting in that level or not :/ . His very assertive and aint shy as a normal cancer. IP: Logged |
ifyoufalldive
Newflake Posts: 24
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 10, 2013 11:06 AM
The Cancer guys I've slept with have been... Cancer Sun/Mars: Quiet, nurturing, loved deep eye contact, best cuddler for someone I wasn't in love with, *always* a gentle touch (I'm Aries, so this got old pretty quick), and secretly loved going down on me. I say secretly because he never said anything about his emotions, really tight-lipped about these things, but once woke me up at 3 AM *just* to go "down there" and cuddle. He always made breakfast the morning after. Also a submissive lover who just wanted his partner to intuit things... But it could only feel good, no pain mixed with his pleasure, thank you. Cancer Sun/Moon, Venus in Taurus/Mars Aries: My Venus conj his Mars in the same sign = I destroyed this kid on an almost daily basis, and he loved it! To the point, he LOVED performing oral sex. To the point where he would finish me, and I'd have to shout his name because he'd be so into it he wouldn't realize I'd stopped. He literally just went into his happy place down there. I was more dominant than him in bed, too, but he was actually really submissive once our relationship trust was established... (Oh, this one time...) Cancer Sun, Moon Aqua, Leo Venus, Mars Aries: I could do anything I wanted with him as well, but he had to feel in control. Except I'm better at it than he is. It felt like being part of a bad drama... But he was also pretty quick in going down, too, though either he was just that bad at it or he didn't like me - but whatever, still finished. Other things they all had in common: There was something all of them were insecure about that showed up in bed. The first was just insecure in general. The second could handle his **** until he was put into the dominant role of either actual penetration or trying to be dominant. I could always feel it. The third wanted to come off as more experienced than he actually was. But... Even air signs can be cuddly, physical creatures - though it helps if they have water or earth in their chart, ha! IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
Knowflake Posts: 1306
From: Silent Hill
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted May 10, 2013 11:57 AM
Check his Mars sign + ruler + house, aspects to Mars, 8th house sign and ruler, 5th house sign and ruler. One might look at Eros as well.
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GiggityGirl
Knowflake Posts: 35
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 10, 2013 12:10 PM
They are not aggressive, not kinky, take care of their partners, and are really into the passionate side of lovemaking - the eye contact, touching, talk...He's not going to open a cabinet of whips and toys, though. Cancer guys would take some time before they "experimented". IP: Logged | |
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