posted May 10, 2013 02:07 PM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
and then the other half of me says....maybe he's just pursuing me in his own way, i.e. a different way than you think (the guy i'm into's mars is in cancer and mine's in sag...so we don't seem to work the same way) what if this is him putting himself out there and i'm just not seeing it because it's not the same way i'd put myself out there.

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you could be right....along with everyone else...I just hate to get my hopes up...wishing and hoping that someone feels for me the way I feel for them

I am only going by actions moving forward and if actions arent matching up then its not what I think it is

posted May 10, 2013 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by GiggityGirl:
invited me to come tour his work place, but hasnt made his move.

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I think that WAS the move! Did you go with him? If not, next time you see him, ask if he'd still be willing to show you his workplace. Then suggest coffee afterward to talk some more about what he does. If he's shy, it would give him a chance to open up about something he's apparently comfortable with or proud of (and maybe you can get his year/time/place of birth over that cup of coffee). Just because it wasn't your idea of a date, doesn't mean that he hasn't "made his move".

posted May 10, 2013 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
I think that WAS the move! Did you go with him? If not, next time you see him, ask if he'd still be willing to show you his workplace. Then suggest coffee afterward to talk some more about what he does. If he's shy, it would give him a chance to open up about something he's apparently comfortable with or proud of (and maybe you can get his year/time/place of birth over that cup of coffee). Just because it wasn't your idea of a date, doesn't mean that he hasn't "made his move".

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Yeah, it totally could have been his move. lol. Personally, I wouldn't invite anyone to my workplace that I wasn't into. I mean, all of his coworkers will see me with him and he doesn't work somewhere that offers public tours. I felt like it was his way to try and get control and his bearings after me trying to orchestrate meeting outside of group. Like this is one place that he feels powerful, and like he can be impressive. We have an age gap, so I think he wants to look accomplished to me.

I haven't seen him since he brought up the work thing, and that's been almost two weeks. Hopefully I'll see him next week and be able to better gauge.

I do know his birthday and place, and as far as year, I can narrow it to about a 3 year span and estimate his birth time. lol

So, that would give the options of:

Moon - Libra
Mercury - Aries
Venus - Taurus
Mars - Scorpio

Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Aries
Venus - Aries
Mars - Gemini

Moon - Gemini
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Capricorn

And I am:

Sun - Cancer
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Virgo

Not sure if any of that helps. lol

posted May 10, 2013 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by GiggityGirl:
I do know his birthday and place, and as far as year, I can narrow it to about a 3 year span and estimate his birth time. lol

So, that would give the options of:

Moon - Libra
Mercury - Aries
Venus - Taurus
Mars - Scorpio

Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Aries
Venus - Aries
Mars - Gemini

Moon - Gemini
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Capricorn

And I am:

Sun - Cancer
Moon - Aries
Mercury - Cancer
Venus - Cancer
Mars - Virgo

Not sure if any of that helps. lol

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I'd bet on option 3: Mars in Capricorn could equal taking initiative by showing you his place of status. And if it squares your Aries Moon, that would REALLY make you feel impatient with his slow approach!

posted May 10, 2013 07:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Jkitty:
I'd bet on option 3: Mars in Capricorn could equal taking initiative by showing you his place of status. And if it squares your Aries Moon, that would REALLY make you feel impatient with his slow approach!

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That one actually is my personal best guess of his birth year.

Impatient for sure, because I've only talked to him 4 times, and after the first time, we both made a point to separate ourselves from everyone else to do so. And he comes in with everyone he works with - I come alone, so it's a lot more impactful for me to be privately talking with me to his world than mine.