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Topic: the "I can't forget you" synastry.
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ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 784 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 12, 2013 02:34 PM
Is there such a thing ? And if there is, what points to one person (or both) not being able to just forget about the other(regardless of what happened or if anything happened at all) IP: Logged |
tgem Moderator Posts: 4672 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted May 12, 2013 05:10 PM
Water placements Saturn aspects Pluto aspectsIP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 62040 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 12, 2013 06:08 PM
Saturn bonds are unbreakable. Pluto ones can be obsessive. Either of these.IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 171 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted May 12, 2013 08:29 PM
I agree about Saturn. And possibly moon.. how can you forget how you felt?  IP: Logged |
Jkitty Knowflake Posts: 992 From: an oasis in the desert Registered: Mar 2013
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posted May 12, 2013 09:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by greatquincunx: I agree about Saturn. And possibly moon.. how can you forget how you felt? 
Feelings are very changeable! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 12, 2013 09:28 PM
I have a friend that I've known for a long time, nine years, and his Venus in Scorpio is exactly opposite my Saturn in Taurus. We are often miserable with each other yet we stay friends anyway. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10914 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted May 12, 2013 09:48 PM
Moon trine Pluto in the composite?IP: Logged |
birdy Knowflake Posts: 1610 From: Registered: Dec 2011
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posted May 12, 2013 10:11 PM
Moon/Saturn & Venus/Saturn are strong ones.IP: Logged |
andstuff Knowflake Posts: 2897 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 12, 2013 11:33 PM
For romance it's Eros conj PsycheAgree about Pluto. I hate Saturn as a planet too much to analyze IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 23948 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted May 12, 2013 11:56 PM
Saturn and Pluto to Moon, Venus, DESC, IC, ruler of Desc and the waterhousesIP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 02:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: Saturn bonds are unbreakable. Pluto ones can be obsessive. Either of these.
what if we have both? obsessive and unbreakable sounds hot  IP: Logged |
Leocassandra Knowflake Posts: 617 From: Poland Registered: Jan 2013
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posted May 13, 2013 02:50 AM
Pluto, Saturn, Nodes?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 03:10 AM
^^^ The guy I know with Saturn opp my Venus also has his south node conjunct my North Node in Pisces/North Node conjunct South Node in Virgo. Funny that, lol. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 03:10 AM
What if there are Saturn,Pluto,NN and Uranus? My take is Saturn and NN are stronger than Uranus. IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 784 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 13, 2013 03:13 AM
Well I guess if you have both and are in a relationship with that person it can be great. I know pluto is the obsessive, can't do without you, need to be with someone. Thankfully I got over that phase (though it took me quite some time). But I've been wondering what makes it so impossible to just forget about some people. Even when they're miles away, or haven't seen them or talked to them in a long while, the thought of them is still there. So Saturn is responsible for that kind of things? Mixed with pluto I can definitely see how that could make it especially difficult to just forget. What if it's one sided though? is it more likely to be the Saturn/pluto or planet person? Is Saturn responsible of this because it's part of their "karma" or actually what they need to go through to learn their lesson?
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 03:13 AM
^^^ Nodes conjuncting nodes, especially if they are opposite. It's fate! But, at the same time, it's probably not such a good contact since, what it really means, is we pull each other away from what we should be accomplishing in life...it sounds more like an undoing thing.IP: Logged |
ueharaa Knowflake Posts: 784 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted May 13, 2013 03:15 AM
the nodes could be responsible for this. What is everyone's experience? Is there anyone that you just can't forget? (regardless of what your feelings for that person are) what is your synastry with them? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 03:19 AM
With this same person, I have one more Saturn contact but the orb is around four degrees wide and I am not sure how close it should be in synastry. We have a Sun conjunct Saturn in Virgo, my sun his Saturn, so you see, the chart is heavy on the Saturn contacts. Our friendship is wrought with insecurities and tension a lot of the time yet we still keep in touch. Our suns are square by the same orb square Saturn in Virgo, too. Doomed friendship lol. Now that I think about it, with these aspects, it's probably some karmic thing from a past life. It's so strange how the Nodes and Saturn figure into it. And on top of all this, he has several Neptune conjunctions involving the sun and I have the exact Neptune opposition involving the moon. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 03:51 AM
Does Astro give south node contacts? I don't find it.There's only True Node and Mean Node..IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 04:04 AM
It shows the true North Node opposite the planet Pluto when I tell it to show all aspects in the extended chart selection. It doesn't show the aspects the the South Node though but since it conjuncts Pluto, it would be the same as the ones for that planet. If there aren't any conjunctions, you just assume it will square, trine, sextile anything the North Node does. Right?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 04:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: It shows the true North Node opposite the planet Pluto when I tell it to show all aspects in the extended chart selection. It doesn't show the aspects the the South Node though but since it conjuncts Pluto, it would be the same as the ones for that planet. If there aren't any conjunctions, you just assume it will square, trine, sextile anything the North Node does. Right?
This is a bit confusing to me.I've tried searching for how to find SN contacts. SN in vedic is ketu that's why I know where to find it in my chart.The south node is to the opposite end of the axis.If NN is in libra,SN would be in aries.But no where can I find my SN natal aspects.So if I have NN square leo venus,is my SN making an aspect with venus? And if I have sun square NN (his) in synastry, (his SN is in aries) what aspect would it be making to my leo sun? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9168 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 04:30 AM
quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: This is a bit confusing to me.I've tried searching for how to find SN contacts. SN in vedic is ketu that's why I know where to find it in my chart.The south node is to the opposite end of the axis.If NN is in libra,SN would be in aries.But no where can I find my SN natal aspects.So if I have NN square leo venus,is my SN making an aspect with venus? And if I have sun square NN (his) in synastry, (his SN is in aries) what aspect would it be making to my leo sun?
Yes, I am pretty sure that's a t square. Any planet square your north node naturally squares your south, so it creates the t square formation, the opposition with both ends square a third planet. It will always do this with any planet the North Node squares. With the easy aspects, one end will trine the planet in the same element while it sextiles the opposite end creating the easy opposition which will make the effects of the configuration (north node naturally opposes south creating the natural tension which is why it's considered bad, I guess) easier to deal with. The conjunction of a planet at one end will always oppose the other. So, if you have a Jupiter conjunction of your north node, it will oppose the south, creating the urge to overdo what is indicated by the south node. The best aspects for the nodes are the trines and sextiles. I have them with Neptune, it trines the north node, sextiles the south. It helps me with Piscean ideals of imagination, empathy, emotional release, forgiveness, acceptance, non judgment, worry-free. I have the worry-free quality in excess. It also keeps the Virgo critic tamed. I think what it really does is create a very easy going streak in me, perhaps too much so. I want to just go with the flow and sorta mellow out a a lot, can get really into things in that Piscean way, you know? IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 5151 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 13, 2013 04:48 AM
^^ Lucky you.I have all squares with NN. Mercury,Venus and Saturn square NN,therefore square SN too right. Virgo mars sextile NN.I don't suppose that brings much help to lessen the strain of the squares. (shrug) IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 397 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 13, 2013 04:52 AM
My sis is right now obsessed with her ex husband, she is suffering a lot ebcause she just cant get him out of her head! They met 2 years ago and married some months later. And divorced in less than 2 years. He left her because it got overwhelming. Her Gemini venus is conjunct his SN.IP: Logged |
Swift Freeze Moderator Posts: 721 From: Dreams Registered: Nov 2009
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posted May 13, 2013 04:53 AM
Saturn? Check Pluto? CheckGrand trine involving her Moon, Venus, Mars, Saturn, Pluto, my Venus, Pluto, Eros, Jupiter? Check Grand trine also all in water? Check My Venus Pluto Eros Conjunct her South Node as well? Check Our ICs as part of the Grand Water Trine? Check Our ACs, ICs, DCs MCs conjunct? Check Her Eros conjunct my Psyche? Check I can say now, I will never forget her, however things turn out. ------------------ Learn lots. Don't judge. Laugh for no reason. Be nice. Seek Happiness. Follow your dreams. IP: Logged |