posted May 26, 2013 03:37 AM            

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Originally posted by *Golden_Wing*:
I don't know why, but I'm getting the feeling that you like playing text warrior for some odd reason, Jessica. Basically, what you stated, doesn actually come down to trustworthiness. Don't take me for a fool* :]

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Oh my. You are funny, you know. You asked for advice,some nice people here has given you their time.

The wisdom of asking for advice is being able to take what's given to you constructively and with an open mind. If you are going to compare notes with what people tell you here with what your friends tell you, I don't see the point of asking advice in the first place.Your mind is pretty set on some things. I have a feeling you haven't actually read and understood what people told you in this thread. However, this is MY feeling.

posted May 26, 2013 03:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:

[B]I don't trust vocal cappies much...may be that's just me..

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I didn't say ALL vocal people are untrustworthy, did I? I gave an opinion based on my experience with cappies.

Actually I didn't understand why you felt the need to explain that despite being a vocal person you are trustworthy. It sounds a bit immature to me, same way I sounded like a text warrior to you, I guess.

posted May 26, 2013 03:43 AM            

Google Mars in Sag to see what other traits he might show around girls he likes.

posted May 26, 2013 03:44 AM            

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Originally posted by yaygirlthecat:
He's going to act like a Sagittarius around girls he likes because his Mars and secondarily, his Venus are in Sagittarius. So he would give you freedom, pal around, and want to be friends first.

Google Mars in Sag to see what other traits he might show around girls he likes.

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posted May 26, 2013 03:55 AM            

Okay, so he is vocal, it might be a bad thing to some, & it might be a good thing to others. I am like that too, so it's a good thing.

I'm actually happy & thankful that I've posted this & for the advice, because it seized the opportunity for me to seek advice from a mutual friend & I never thought about that, believe it or not. So, if he likes me, he will tell me, but I have noticed he won't do that until he's 100% certain of me.

posted May 26, 2013 12:10 PM            

I've dated people less vocal & withdrawn people I thought were trustworthy, but they turned out differently.

I guess one never really knows. But I do have a very manipulative side to me. If I want you to feel a certain feeling or do something, I will get it out of you. So maybe I have that influence on him. I haven't seen him being vocal towards other girls, or sweet. Only me. But still, I don't trust anyone.

The guy I've approached asking about him, has told me that he trusts him with his life & he will look after me. He doesn't play games. He's known him for a long time & they go out very often as well. So I will trust his word though.

posted May 26, 2013 12:26 PM            

But I think he's too shy. When I pay him compliments, he makes jokes about it or doesn't always respond to it. Just like Cappy's do. As I said, he gives off subtle signs. He hasn't been that forward with me. When I try showing sympathy, he'll tell me not to. Veeeery stubborn along with those subtle signs. I've read that Cappy's act goofy around you if they do like you, which is usually not their thing to do, because to them it's seen as unacceptable behaviour. That's all I've picked up so far. He's not always sweet with me. It varies. One day he'll be sweet, the next he'll pull away.

posted May 26, 2013 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by *Golden_Wing*:
But I think he's too shy. As I said, he gives off subtle signs. He hasn't been that forward with me.

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I have to agree with YTA. With all those Cappy, Sag and Aquarius placements that you gave for him, there is NO reason to believe that he's be shy, subtle or less than straight foreward with you if he was truely interested in you as anything more than a casual acquaintance.

I think you are seeing what you want to see. It's a very human tendancy. We all do it at times, including me; that's why we tend to seek the opinions of others. Sometimes we listen. Most of the time we just go and do whatever we'd already determined to do; we were just hoping someone would validate us before we did.