posted June 11, 2013 02:04 PM              

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Originally posted by spanishlover:
I know that I have had dreams of the guy, but I don't know if he feels as much as I do.

I am the venus in his 12th house

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posted June 11, 2013 03:02 PM            

there are two people who have venus in my 12th i just adore. they have told me the same.one of them told me his feelings too late after i was already in a relationship and i met the other while i was in the same one. i dont know what we were meant to learn from each other but i admire them both.with both of these people , we understood each other really well and there was a connection. i did not have any dreams of them. i also met someone else in between all this somewhere who also had venus in my 12th who i had a lot of weird occurences with. didnt dream of them either.

i, how ever, have only dreamt of someone who has moon in my 12th .the other person i have dreamt of has nothing in my 12th.

posted June 11, 2013 06:43 PM              

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Originally posted by spanishlover:
how does the 12th person feel if they don't know of the Venus person's feelings?

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He tries to act like he's not the jealous type but he is. Lol

He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that. He does tell me how he feels about me. Just not every second.

I don't mind though. I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second.

He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me.

posted June 11, 2013 06:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
He tries to act like he's not the jealous type but he is. Lol

He has trouble verbalizing his feelings but he said he's always been like that.

I don't mind though. I don't expect him to pour his heart out every second.

He shows me he cares with actions and he has told me twice he is in love with me.

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posted June 11, 2013 07:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Is it hard for u to let ur feelings out?

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I have a venus in capricorn...so yes it is hard for me to let my feelings out.....I don't expect to say I love you...I just assume you should know it by my actions...

posted June 11, 2013 10:22 PM              

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
To get this straight, the "he" you're speaking of is the 12th house person?

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No he is the Venus in Cancer. I am the 12th house person.

My Gemini sun is in my 12th house on the Gemini/Cancer cusp.

He is also a Gemini sun.

posted June 11, 2013 10:27 PM              

Sorry i also speak Trini...

posted June 12, 2013 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
the Venus person is allured into the partner's magical 12th house and held a dear captive there, but in NO way the Venus person would admit (willingly) that they have such strong feelings of love and adoration for the 12th house person. No way, jose. Nevah!
The 12th person has no idea what the Venus person is feeling/thinking and even if the Venus is gun-pressed to admit their feelings, the 12th house person still would doubt it.
Otherwise, the love they feel for each other can be magical,selfless and unconditional but in most cases - no one is ever aware of what the other is feeling or is super suspicious and mistrustful even if Venus opens up and pours it..

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Oh.My.God.!

You're spot on, Orange, it's freaky!!

I've experienced this, exactly.

Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection).
It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.

I used to dream about them a lot. Now it doesn't happen that often but I can say that as the house person, I'm almost always affected by someone who has Venus in my 12th and if it aspects some of my planets. I am fascinated by them, and the love I feel is otherworldly. Sigh..

posted June 12, 2013 04:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:

The 12th person has no idea what the Venus person is feeling/thinking and even if the Venus is gun-pressed to admit their feelings, the 12th house person still would doubt it.

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posted June 12, 2013 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh.My.God.!

You're spot on, Orange, it's freaky!!

I've experienced this, exactly.

Sadly, I was the house person and hopelessly in love, while the Venus person would not admit their feelings even though we both knew they did feel for me, just like I felt for them.. Actually, the guy told me "I love you, *insert my name here*" while we were in class, but we barely knew each other and I didn't know if he was being serious.. later on he denied it said it was a joke (but it wasn't). Long story short, we both loved each other but it didn't work out for various reasons (I suspect fear and insecurity was the main issue - karmic connection).
It was beautiful and tragic, and the deepest feelings I ever had.
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I'm sorry it didn't end as you wanted, Douxie. Venus in 12th entirely depends on how well both people can handle Neptune. One who never had to deal with neptune before would have it very difficult to submerge themselves past the toes dipping.

posted June 12, 2013 04:47 PM            

I guess some things are just not meant to be.

posted June 12, 2013 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Thanks, sweetie pie.

I guess some things are just not meant to be.

All we can do is hope for something good in the future!

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be on the look out for that cute Pisces man with an Air Moon and a Fire Mars. You need some fire.

posted June 13, 2013 06:25 AM            

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Originally posted by psytaurus:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Orange:

The 12th person has no idea what the Venus person is feeling/thinking and even if the Venus is gun-pressed to admit their feelings, the 12th house person still would doubt it.

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This has been my experience as well. I've had their Venus in my 12th house three times (one conjuncting Mars which unfortunately makes it too aggressive for my liking) and it just feels... unbalanced... unequal. At first when I met them I was okay with this because they were cool and mysterious and there was something about them that had me completely enthralled. But afterwards, when we started spending time together it became obvious that the fog surrounding them wasn't going to dissipate. They were able see who I really was... no pretense... no masks and that was scary especially since I only saw snippets of their personality. It's like they were a never ending puzzle and I only got one piece at the time so my imagination was working over time "recreating" them. Now I don't have Pisces placements nor a strong Neptune (according to that Pullen delineation at least) so that felt like an exercise in futility. I begun to put some distance between us since I was growing suspicious of their intentions and because of this it never led to a anything (romantic or otherwise). I also don't think I would have let them around me for so long if I hadn't had my SN conjunct their Venus. That karmic tie forced me to stay put... for a while.[/b]

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I also have my venus on their south node...

posted June 13, 2013 08:56 PM            

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At first when I met them I was okay with this because they were cool and mysterious and there was something about them that had me completely enthralled. But afterwards, when we started spending time together it became obvious that the fog surrounding them wasn't going to dissipate. They were able see who I really was... no pretense... no masks and that was scary especially since I only saw snippets of their personality. It's like they were a never ending puzzle and I only got one piece at the time so my imagination was working over time "recreating" them.

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