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Topic: How is a Moon-Venus relationship?
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 01:57 PM
But i love him a lot...feel a sense of devotion too....feel really comforted and FREE in his presence sometimes ( when we are not in awkward mode).......I actually find hime quite motherly....i love the feeling of being protected that comes with it...must be all the moon-venus. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 02:14 PM
So, um. Why aren't you guys in a romantic relationship?IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 02:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: So, um. Why aren't you guys in a romantic relationship?
Um..... i dont know how to explain lol...its wierd. He's my cousin lol...its just not possible.  I've lived in another country with my parents and we used to come to my native place yearly during my vaccations....so that brother-sister connection between us couldnt develop properly maybe.... So when i was 14 we got infatuated...then i forgot all about it and then when i was 17 i fell in love with him, my first love... and BAM! i sure fell hard! ....coz its Wrong and not meant to be...but i cant get him out of my head! IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 02:36 PM
We also have Uranus-ASC and Uranus-Pluto DW in synastry.....that might be the CULPRIT?His Uranus conjunct my Pluto(2.5 deg) My Uranus square his Pluto(1 deg) My Uranus conjunct his ASC exact His Uranus square my ASC (2 deg) What do these aspects do here? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 02:39 PM
Oh, dang it. Talk about taboo/unconventional.That's what the whole Pluto/Uranus is all about.. Complicated. Sorry, it must be hard for you.  Good luck with all this. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2013 02:45 PM
thanks everyone... so jupiter spoils moon emotionally. sounds like a nice aspect. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 02:46 PM
Can go both ways, hikoro.  IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 02:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Oh, dang it. Talk about taboo/unconventional.That's what the whole Pluto/Uranus is all about.. Complicated. Sorry, it must be hard for you.  Good luck with all this.
Thanks  Yeah..I'm 20 now...been in pain for 2 years now... not sure whom to blame...trying to get out of all this....but this pull is stronger than gravity  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 02:52 PM
sillyme,Listen to your intuition. What does it tell you? Is this good, and worth it? Or would it be better for you to leave all that behind and move on? Only you can know. Relax and think about it in a calm manner. Take all the time you need. Stay strong! ~ IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 02:53 PM
And i dont feel the need to have a sexual relationship with him or anything....just want to be with him forever and love him and be loved by him :rheart: and grow old with him......and that he should not be with anyone else..Okay, i'm a virgin so i dont really understand sex lol... but thats what marriages are about  IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2013 02:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Can go both ways, hikoro. 
you're right. moon could be all nurturing and maternal...sigh. i think my favorites outer planet-inner planets contacts are jupiter moon and neptune moon, never experienced them though. and of course, pluto for intensity...i still dont know which one is nicer pluto-moon, pluto-mars or pluto-venus... IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 02:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: sillyme,Listen to your intuition. What does it tell you? Is this good, and worth it? Or would it be better for you to leave all that behind and move on? Only you can know. Relax and think about it in a calm manner. Take all the time you need. Stay strong! ~
 I've thinking about this for sooooo long.....sometimes i want it so bad and other times i want to think as badly of him as possible because it hurts so much....its such a CONFUSED feeling..... and my stupid intuition is so optimistic and tells me to wait since some miracle might happen....like thats gonna happen!! IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 03:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: sillyme,Listen to your intuition. What does it tell you? Is this good, and worth it? Or would it be better for you to leave all that behind and move on? Only you can know. Relax and think about it in a calm manner. Take all the time you need. Stay strong! ~
Can Uranus-Pluto make miracles? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 03:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by hikoro: and of course, pluto for intensity...i still dont know which one is nicer pluto-moon, pluto-mars or pluto-venus...
Hah! Moon/Pluto is so intense, holy moly. Makes you want to rip your heart out sometimes. I had it in the composite (in a T-square with Saturn!) and it'd make me physically sick sometimes. Mars/Pluto is all about sexy times.. and very often control & power games. Venus/Pluto is the weird one, cause it's sexual and emotional at the same time, but usually one person is more into the "feeling" part than the other.. it's often said that Pluto wants sex whereas Venus is looking for love. It doesn't have to play out that way but there's definitely an attraction that goes beyond the simple "physicality". Usually it comes with a lot of problems, like triangles or insecurity / trust issues, etc. It's magnetic and problematic at the same time. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 03:08 PM
quote: Originally posted by sillyme: Can Uranus-Pluto make miracles?
Well.. usually it creates disasters.. Not gonna lie, I don't get a good feeling about your situation. But who am I to tell you what's gonna happen. Only you can know. Be patient and in time, you'll figure this out. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2013 03:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Hah! Moon/Pluto is so intense, holy moly. Makes you want to rip your heart out sometimes. I had it in the composite (in a T-square with Saturn!) and it'd make me physically sick sometimes.Mars/Pluto is all about sexy times.. and very often control & power games. Venus/Pluto is the weird one, cause it's sexual and emotional at the same time, but usually one person is more into the "feeling" part than the other.. it's often said that Pluto wants sex whereas Venus is looking for love. It doesn't have to play out that way but there's definitely an attraction that goes beyond the simple "physicality". Usually it comes with a lot of problems, like triangles or insecurity / trust issues, etc. It's magnetic and problematic at the same time.
thanks  we are talking about the soft aspects, right? in that case, i think i like mars pluto conjunction or trine, for example. with the hades moon we have, i think someone's pluto hitting my moon...i dunno. it may not be a fun feeling. i know of someone who has moon opposite pluto, just like me. and his pluto opposes my moon and and my moon opposes his pluto, he annoys me..... he is taurus moon, scorpio pluto and asc. im taurus moon, scorpio pluto and taurus asc. cant stand him. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 03:28 PM
Hikoro,No, I was talking about the hard aspects, including the conjunction. Venus/Pluto conjunction, I had with my ex. It was based on attraction more than anything, no obsession whatsoever. However he, as the Pluto person, found it hard to let go even after several months of not being together. He wanted to get back together or stay friends but I didn't. We also had his Sun/Mars conjunction in Cancer trine my Pluto. Mars/Pluto, I've had the opposition and the conjunction with two flings. No feelings, but sexual attraction, and secrecy involved.
Moon/Pluto square: I had that one with a guy whom I loved like crazy (actually it's his birthday today!). The most intense experience to this day! We had it natally and in synastry, but wide orbs. We're both very Plutonian and the synastry was crazy, Saturn had a lot to do with it, too. Oh and, Pluto almost always creates an attraction/repulsion dynamic. It's.. normal. 
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 04:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: Well.. usually it creates disasters..Not gonna lie, I don't get a good feeling about your situation. But who am I to tell you what's gonna happen. Only you can know. Be patient and in time, you'll figure this out.
Thanks  If you dont mind, shall i post the synastry and composite so that i can get a third person's view of this?? Please..please.. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 04:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by HannieBananie: I agree i have this aspect with my Taurean man. My moon trines his jupiter and his Saturn.
I'm happy you're happy, Hannie  IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 04:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by sillyme: Thanks  If you dont mind, shall i post the synastry and composite so that i can get a third person's view of this?? Please..please..
Yeah, why not. Not sure if you should post it in the Personal Readings forum or here..
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hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2013 05:32 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Oh and, Pluto almost always creates an attraction/repulsion dynamic. It's.. normal. 
i think it is his taurus moon, im starting to think taurus moon is not a good position in men this guy....he is like a child.
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Doux Rêve Knowflake Posts: 9926 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 23, 2013 05:41 PM
I'm pretty sure Odette isn't that fond of Taurus Moon men. Apparently they're machos and expect their girl to do all the stuff like cooking and cleaning and have very traditional views on gender, and so on.And yeah, maturity isn't exactly a male thing. loool. IP: Logged |
hikoro Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 23, 2013 06:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I'm pretty sure Odette isn't that fond of Taurus Moon men. Apparently they're machos and expect their girl to do all the stuff like cooking and cleaning and have very traditional views on gender, and so on.And yeah, maturity isn't exactly a male thing. loool.
yes!!! ive agreed on this with odette before.... and this one has mars in cap....but what a child and a mama's boy... IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 9169 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted June 23, 2013 08:06 PM
Hi, hikoro! Nice to see you! quote:
elaborate please? yes, i can always look at the internet descriptions, but, i always like to read people's perspectives, by your post, it seems you have personal experiences?
I tend to get along pretty good with air moons probably because I have Jupiter in an air sign. Do you notice same in your relationships? Do you get along well with people who have moons in the same element as your Jupiter's? Jupiter and moon have a really sweet relationship, so does Moon and Venus since moon is exalted in one of her signs. Jupiter is exalted in the sign the moon owns. Oh, and I almost forgot, lol, I have the moon in an earth sign. Can't forget we get two shots at this! Don't you have an earthy moon, too, hikoro? Do you find yourself feeling secure around people with Jupiter positioned in earth signs? Jupiter is often overlooked. Sun, moon, Venus, Mars, and Pluto take center stage.
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sillyme Knowflake Posts: 289 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted June 24, 2013 12:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I'm pretty sure Odette isn't that fond of Taurus Moon men. Apparently they're machos and expect their girl to do all the stuff like cooking and cleaning and have very traditional views on gender, and so on.And yeah, maturity isn't exactly a male thing. loool.
He has a taurus moon too....lol Just woke up...will post the charts now... IP: Logged |