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Topic: "I OWN YOU" in synastry
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lovehate122
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posted July 17, 2013 05:43 PM
  
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Wow! This is it. You just described how the aspect plays out for me & the person I share this with. Does he have Moon square Pluto/Venus in his natal chart?Any pluto squares in your synastry?
He has sun square Pluto in his own chart and my Pluto squares his sun but so does everyone in our generation .
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 17, 2013 05:47 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
My father is one . No he's not . Most of my friends and every guy ive ever had anything to do with is either jealous or possessive and if im lucky their both .
So a lot of people in your life have been jealous and possessive? If they have, it sounds more like an energy thing than synastry. You would need to change the energy pattern to get out of this cycle in your relationships with people. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted July 17, 2013 05:52 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
So a lot of people in your life have been jealous and possessive? If they have, it sounds more like an energy thing than synastry. You would need to change the energy pattern to get out of this cycle in your relationships with people.
what kind of energy ?
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 17, 2013 05:57 PM
You have some intense/oppressive energy in your life that wants to limit you. It should be replaced with healing energy that will free you and your loved ones. Do you know anyone who does energy work? Maybe that helps? IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted July 17, 2013 06:12 PM
No i don't think so . Can this energy be found in some of my natal aspects or ?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 17, 2013 06:15 PM
Not sure because I haven't seen your chart. There could be indications this type of energy is prominent in your life if you notice the same types of situations repeating themselves. For example, the same sort of people enter your life and they cause you to feel a certain way you are not comfortable with. You should try to break the pattern some way so you can be happier. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted July 17, 2013 06:27 PM
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Originally posted by cappy1277:
Saturn in 2nd house & venus/saturn synastry aspects. Also if the person has strong fixed placements
Haha I'm all of the above IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted July 17, 2013 06:28 PM
oh i get it now .. i do attract alot of Capricorn and cancer men i don't know why since im all wrong for them (im very aquarian) but yeah they seem to be the controlling and possessive ones . IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 17, 2013 06:38 PM
By Aquarian you have planets in Aquarius? If they have oppositions or squares to other planets, it could indicate this pattern since these are fixed signs. Fixed signs like to hold onto what they have. There can be insecurity about losing something or someone. If this shows up in your natal chart, it shows you attract this type of energy into your life especially if you have the sun in Aqua, since this indicates men. Mars does, also. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted July 17, 2013 07:19 PM
no i just have alot of planets in Aquarius in my 1st house and their all aspecting each other like my ascendant is Aquarius with Uranus in the first house conjunct my Aquarius moon and pretty much everything in my chart that isn't in Aquarius aspects Uranus .My mars is in my 8th house tho . IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted July 17, 2013 07:23 PM
Hey there Love:I was just reading about the opposition aspect in natal charts and how it causes us to work on the way we relate to others and how to deal with other people's desires, feelings and thoughts. Do you think you might have any oppositions in your chart that are making possession/obsession/jealousy type experiences continually pop up?  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 17, 2013 07:25 PM
Does your Taurus sun square Aqua moon? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted July 17, 2013 07:41 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
My mars is in my 8th house
^ This is probably it. Is your Mars afflicted? IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted July 17, 2013 08:26 PM
Did you say his sun/moon/asc?Oh I just saw he's cap moon
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WarriorPrincess7
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posted July 17, 2013 10:34 PM
I think its moon/pluto or moon/mars. Female being the moon and man being the mars or pluto. Its way deeper and obsessive with pluto though. At its best, in my case, the pluto was always very protective of me, and possessive also but I didn't mind because I was so in love with him.IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted July 18, 2013 12:11 AM
Venus/pluto
Mars/pluto
Plutos/moon
Mu boyfriend has all these aspects and we have them in synastry.
Hes very paranoid about other men being near me .
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posted July 18, 2013 12:13 AM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
He has sun square Pluto in his own chart and my Pluto squares his sun but so does everyone in our generation .
My boyfriend and i also have sun square pluto in synastry and pluto trine sun. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted July 18, 2013 12:16 AM
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Originally posted by WarriorPrincess7:
I think its moon/pluto or moon/mars. Female being the moon and man being the mars or pluto. Its way deeper and obsessive with pluto though. At its best, in my case, the pluto was always very protective of me, and possessive also but I didn't mind because I was so in love with him.
Same here. My plutonian man is very paranoid and obsessive but so am i lol! IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted July 18, 2013 12:17 AM
Taurus & scorpio influences too.
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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
miranda
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posted July 18, 2013 02:17 AM
Am an Aqua, with a Saturn-Venus opposition on the 2nd/8th house Cancer-Cap axis.Attracting Caps and Cancers? Yep. In spades. Also lots of Gemsies, but that's my Asc & Mars. Funny thing, I used to be possessive and jealous and all that stuff and the other person seemed aloof and never quite into me. I figured "oh hey it means I do really care and I have passion" until I figured out that I was just insecure and projecting my Uranian and Mercurial qualities outward  I kept the passion and tossed out the useless energy drains. IP: Logged |
foxxyxo
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posted July 18, 2013 04:38 AM
i have venus/pluto in 8th house natal and it seems like i always attract possesive girls as friends...or just overbearing ones like ones that call 5 times a day n leave voicemails and texts asking where i am or they get worried, so naturally i don't want to respond cause its too much!!!!!!!! then they get mad at me and blah blah blah, so not relaxing.....im a really carefree funny person who likes to have fun but all i do is attract these girls with issues...what the hell, how do i change this energy? o yea and btw they always seems normal at first.....lol omgIP: Logged |
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posted July 18, 2013 09:15 AM
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Originally posted by foxxyxo:
i have venus/pluto in 8th house natal and it seems like i always attract possesive girls as friends...or just overbearing ones like ones that call 5 times a day n leave voicemails and texts asking where i am or they get worried, so naturally i don't want to respond cause its too much!!!!!!!! then they get mad at me and blah blah blah, so not relaxing.....im a really carefree funny person who likes to have fun but all i do is attract these girls with issues...what the hell, how do i change this energy? o yea and btw they always seems normal at first.....lol omg
Lmfao!!! IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted July 19, 2013 12:35 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Does your Taurus sun square Aqua moon?
Yeah it does . IP: Logged |
lovehate122
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posted July 19, 2013 12:37 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
^ This is probably it.Is your Mars afflicted?
No its not . its trines my moon and sun . its a happy mars . IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted July 19, 2013 12:39 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
Yeah it does .
In that case, yes, you could attract possessive people. These are both fixed signs, so the possessive quality of each could be exaggerated. Do you ever feel like you are possessive at times, too? It's okay if you do because these squares can indicate that feeling. Or, do you just attract this kind of person into your life? If you are this way, too, it could just be a cycle where both can practice allowing more space and freedom. It's a trust issue. Trust each other, neither of you are going to leave if you are both stable and in love. If it's just your bf who is behaving this way, try to get him to understand he can trust you. IP: Logged |
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