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posted July 23, 2013 11:11 PM            

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I am a Scorpio female who met my Taurus guy at work about a year ago. We immediately were drawn to each other and once I found out he was interested (he would hint and say things to our coworkers), I made the first move and we've been tied up in this intense web ever since. We dated for about 8 months before I decided to end things because of a heated argument and things were just getting crazy between us, but overall, I love our relationship. Anyway, about two months after our break-up, I end up contacting him because I wanted to work things out. At first he was against the idea, but once we talked it out, he gave in. Awhile after that, he ended up ending things because he just lost his job and he had too much going on to focus on our issues. So now we're at this "just friends" stage. I just want to know if I should give up or if I should stick around, do my own thing, and see what happens? He said he has too much on his plate to even consider being in a relationship, but he wants us to still be friends and spend time together. As a Scorpio female, this is extremely difficult for me to handle because it's all or nothing when it comes to my heart. I want to try being just friends and see where this goes, but I'm a little skeptical at the same time. I've asked him does he see a future with me in the past and he has said yes. He has also done the usual Taurus gestures to show he cares in place of verbal communication, but I just want to know if I've lost him or is he just not ready? He has also told me in the past that having a serious relationship is fairly new to him and I'm the first girl he's actually trying to settle down with, eventually. Is this typical Taurus make behavior?
I do not know his birth time so I know the majority of his chart is missing, but here are the basics. I know this doesn't help much, but any insight will do. I know it takes a long time for Taurus men to commit, especially the young ones, but is it worth it? He has said he wants me in his life and later on down the line, he'll want a relationship, but I just want some insight from an astrological point of view. Also, we are drawn to each other like magnets and our chemistry is out of this world. I am head over heels for this guy, but my head is not in the clouds. For the most part and from what I can see, he has been honest with me about his intentions.

Him:
Sun in Taurus
Moon in Taurus
Mercury in Aries
Venus in Cancer
Mars in Cancer
Jupiter in Leo
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio

Me:
Ascendant in Taurus
Sun in Scorpio
Moon in Libra
Mercury in Scorpio
Venus in Scorpio
Mars in Sagittarius
Jupiter in Scorpio
Saturn in Aquarius
Uranus in Capricorn
Neptune in Capricorn
Pluto in Scorpio

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posted July 24, 2013 12:50 AM            

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Taurus and Scorpio couples are my favorites. Yes it's intense.

Just be patient and keep hanging out with him.

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Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp)
Cancer asc 1st
Taurus moon 11th
Taurus venus 11th
Libra mars 3rd
Gemini mercury 11th

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posted July 24, 2013 02:41 AM            

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I find it a bit unusual considering his chart. Venus/Mars in Cancer can be very clingy - and once they fall in love they can really cling on for dear life.
Looking at your charts I would imagine him to be the one who really wants to be in a relationship and who panics at the thought of losing you (or anyone else close to him for that matter).
You, on the other hand have a Sagittarius Mars..
Even though you are both emotional people who don't easily 'let go'... the Sag Mars makes it easier for you to cut the cords.

He is definitely someone who is traditional and who wants to have a wife and family. I am not sure what's going on.
It could be an age thing, as you said. How young is he exactly?
If it's not his age - then maybe he panicked so much when you broke up with him, that he is scared to really try again - and he wants some sort of reassurance that you are there for him, and you're not going anywhere.

Another possibility - Cancer-influenced men can be vindictive. It's not just a Scorpio thing. They are also very thin skinned. If he took something the wrong way.. when you guys had that argument and you left him - he will remember it until the day he dies. It's possible that he broke up with you - to 'hurt you back'.

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posted July 25, 2013 11:23 PM            

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It could be an age thing, as you said. How young is he exactly?

He just turned 22 actually, but what you're saying makes a lot of sense.

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posted July 25, 2013 11:32 PM            

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I've witnessed these pairings myself. And it seems to be VERY intense. Of all the opposite couples, Taurus/Scorpio is my favorite. It's a beautiful thing to see.. Soo hot, soo loving, so protective of each other. I get the feeling that they will never separate.. Just beautiful. *tears*

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posted July 26, 2013 12:07 AM            

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I never thought I would be able to submit to any man until I met this one. It's scary, risky, but it feels amazing. I just think he's keeping me at arm's length because I hurt him when I left. I just hope we can fix things.

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