posted August 08, 2013 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by geea:
i know i know, no misunderstanding (i forgot to add the emoticons) and thank you

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posted August 08, 2013 07:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Vradec:
Agh Gemini sun men usually drive me nuts, probably something to do with the fact I'm a very Saturnian and stable Capricorn female.The last guy I met who was a Gemini sun - well, I really had to try to understand him! I found him so lighthearted all the time, to the point of insensitivity and rudeness. Our conversation at the end of our time hanging out basically went like this:

Him: "you're too serious and sober minded, you need to lighten up. I don't understand the way you relate"

Me: "and you're too lighthearted, impulsive and all over the place. I don't understand you either!"

Lol, I guess Geminis and Capricorns don't always relate to each other well.

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And that's the thing tht I was wondering about for ages, 'cause my chart is pretty much taurus, scorpio and a couple of aries, so I never had idea what's my thing with solar geminis, but someone amazing in this thread wrote about the 8th house, and damn gemini is da ruler of my 8th house. So weird.

posted August 08, 2013 07:29 PM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:
I hope I'm not annoying anybody by replying. I'm Lunar Gemini, man! C'mon... I'm chatty! If I'm annoying, just let me know. That's not my intent and I also don't expect anyone to like Gemini men. I just hope I can make a little sense of our craziness at least.

@Barbiegirl19
Well... I can't just speak for him or anyone and he's sun, I'm lunar. But, I'm willing to bet he's just as confused and miserable about it. It's not fun! Sometimes I'd gladly pay someone a few hundred bucks if they could just make my mind turn off for a week and give me a break! We have multitasking minds and therefore, it's simply impossible to do ANYTHING distracting enough to blur out those issues that bother us. It's there, always, no matter what else we're doing. I'm sure he doesn't want to hurt her when TECHNICALLY she didn't deserve it. (I'm assuming). But he wants you. I had a similar kind of problem last year with a married woman, but I was single. I ignored her for a while because my feelings were getting out of control, yet didn't want to tell her and make things weird. It all failed and things blew up in the end. Oh well... I could go on forever but I'll shut up.

Ok guys, peep this. LOL I'm a dork.
I come up with some strange things but let me sort of sum up a Gemini man a little bit at least. Just follow me here.

Gemini man, is a squirrel. We're just chillin' like a villian. Gettin' some nuts, burying them. Climbing wires, flapping our tails and barking at people. Then, we look across the street and think, "HEY! There's some trees over there and I bet there's nuts too! There's different people to bark at and OH OH! There's a cat. I can mess him too!"
So we start hopping across the street, "Oh yeah. Giggity giggity." Singin' a song, "I'm gonna get some nuuuuts. Get some nuts todaaaay"
All of sudden, there's a car coming right for us! (complicated emotional situation). We don't know what the eff to do! We get in a panic and start darting back and forth in the street. Then squish! We get clobbered by the car anyway. When in truth if we had just picked either side of the street and went we would have been fine.
But there you have it friends, the Gemini man. Just a squirrel tying to play with his nuts.

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posted August 08, 2013 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Lianee:
hahahha I love the direction that this thread is going to. It was meant to be about geminis with cancer **** in their chart and now we got a novel pumping about squirrels hahha. No, seriously I love You geminis, don't know why [/QUOTE [QUOTE]Originally posted by Lianee:
hahahha I love the direction that this thread is going to. It was meant to be about geminis with cancer **** in their chart and now we got a novel pumping about squirrels hahha. No, seriously I love You geminis, don't know why

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Well at least I was entertaining to a couple of people. Helps lighten the mood.
Someone mentioned 8th house which I'm sure is true. My 8th is Taurus and I have had little interaction with them. I attract Cancer which Cancer is my 10th house but my MC is Cancer. Could that be it?

I'm LUNAtic Gemini. The worst of the breed!

posted August 08, 2013 07:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:
Well at least I was entertaining to a couple of people. Helps lighten the mood.
Someone mentioned 8th house which I'm sure is true. My 8th is Taurus and I have had little interaction with them. I attract Cancer which Cancer is my 10th house but my MC is Cancer. Could that be it?

If it makes a difference I'm LUNAtic Gemini. The worst of the breed!

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Oh, god I'm actually ******* myself as I read this story haha. It's all good guys, write everyhing you want, no restrictions haha I probably said that bilion times, I ain't a master, but I guess it's true with this midheaven thing. Mine is in virgo and unfortunately I get them in my way (esp. those "amazing" virgo moons haha). I never even mention them, 'cause they make ma go mad, but yeah that's probably the thing.

posted August 08, 2013 08:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Lianee:
Oh, god I'm actually ******* myself as I read this story haha. It's all good guys, write everyhing you want, no restrictions haha I probably said that bilion times, I ain't a master, but I guess it's true with this midheaven thing. Mine is in virgo and unfortunately I get them in my way (esp. those "amazing" virgo moons haha). I never even mention them, 'cause they make ma go mad, but yeah that's probably the thing.

Thanks to that person that got my gemini thing solved. Now I wanted what the hell do I have with sags...
uand sorry I'm blind, I thought You're solar gem haha, but still I'm not a t astro freak, so it's not like I judge people just because of their freaking placements, gotta get to know them first

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posted August 09, 2013 02:13 AM            

Barbiegirl19 - this is to you and inspired by your situation but anybody can read it to maybe gain some understanding. Also, I should point out, as you know, it's not like all Gemini's are made by cookie cutters. Some of what I say may not even apply to Gemini's. I have Mercury, Mars, and Venus all in Virgo. So I have boatloads of Mercurial influence. And I'm lunar Gem.. My Leo Sun puts up a good fight though. For example, as many of you have stated, Gemini's are liars, cheaters, and play games. I've lied, about silly things or to avoid emotional confrontation. I've played games, because someone ****** me off and I was able to use my going cold ability to mess with them. I have NEVER cheated though! That's probably the Leo side, being that it's such a faithful sign, so I've read. Which is also weird because anyone I've been with has been REALLY insecure and jealous. I'm just like... "WHY? There's nothing to worry about."

As to your questions. Have I done that to a girl? Mmmmm... sort of. Not exactly in the situation like you have. Someone who is not terribly close to me, yeah, no problem. The only time I've done that to someone that is close to me was to my father. Him and my step mom ****** me off, but I didn't want to deal with it so I ignored him for 6 months. Through my birthday and everything. I think it was his birthday when I finally decided to let it go. I had emotion, I just didn't want to deal with it and I figured by ignoring him, he'd figure it out.
Your guy? Well, I'm not saying he's upset with you, but there's likely something that he doesn't want to deal with OR perhaps more likely, he doesn't know HOW to deal with it.

I would be the richest person in the world if I had a dollar for every time I said to myself, "I feel like this, but should I be?" I've personally gotten better with age but it's not necessarily that I understand emotions like many others. It's like an equation. I know that if I just tackle the problem this way, all is well. I don't know why, but I know it works. LOL

So here's a tip that hopefully is a good one and can work. We have emotional instability, so we need YOU to give us that stability. Next time you talk to him, tell him to tell you exactly what he feels. VERY important is to ASSURE him that whatever he tells you, even if you don't like it, you're not going to get upset. (just hide it best you can if you get upset - just no big displays) Then, if what he tells you makes you upset, just do your best to be calm. Stick by your word. Then, one... you're providing the stability. He'll follow your lead and trust you more. You can become a LITTLE more cold, and he can warm up a little and sort of meet in the middle.
You know, because if you start rocking the boat, I'm not helping you paddle!!!
I'm hanging on for dear life and hoping I hit shore soon so I can get the hell out of there!
My ex-wife did that once about something. She did what I suggested to you. She said she wouldn't get upset at what it was and I believed her. I trusted her. So I let her part way in and she got upset and a little mean.
That was the end of that! I lied and wormed my way out of that and hid it deeper. I didn't even think it was much of a big deal, but she was Cancer, so a little sensitive.

posted August 09, 2013 06:19 PM            

Now, I hate to give away my secrets... LOL. Nah not really. For me it could be leo, gemini, or both, plus strong placements in 8th, 9th (my gem moon) and 12th houses. Gems can be pretty charming. :-)
I think it's the gemini but my intuition is incredible (about nearly anyone I meet in person). I can many times sense a person's vulnerability and particularly if I have some.... Power I guess but I hate that word. If he knows you'll be there he knows he can get by with some bs
I know it's done now but in the future. Don't fall into that trap.
Don't flaunt it, so as not to provoke jealousy, but just keep a general attitude in the background that he's not the only option and only man on earth.

posted August 10, 2013 02:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
@Zander thank you so much you've definitely made me realize and feel better about alot.

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