posted August 30, 2013 01:40 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The ones I knew didn't pick on me that's the thing. It's so weird. They were unVirgo-like Virgos. One had a Pisces moon, the other could have, too, I don't know. I knew a third one, it wasn't a real love, just friendship. None were picking on me but somehow, the relationships went nowhere.
Virgos do tend to be very flighty and don't like to stay with one person for very long. This has been the case with all Virgos I know, except for the mother of one of them. She is married to a Scorpio, but she is never really warm or loving in her marriage. She has Venus in Libra, too. She is one of the ultra critical Virgo types and does pick at people. Very annoying.
The one with Cancer Venus doesn't act much like a Virgo with that Venus placement and moon in Pisces.
The other one, I don't know the exact birth date but he was the most unVirgo of them all, trust me.

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posted August 30, 2013 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Well ya, one of them does - the mother of this Virgo friend. That's someone with worry ulcers from this perfectionism but she also made a lot of money as a court transcriptionist, she even bought a house for the girl I knew as a wedding present so there's some good that goes along with that perfectionism, if you are related to one who knows how to use it properly. Some do. Others don't.

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posted August 30, 2013 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The one I knew was married, it didn't last. She picked the wrong one, I guess. He was very critical of her, actually. She has the Pisces moon, he the Sag sun and he always criticized her for one reason or another. Eventually it fell apart. They divorced, sold their house.

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posted August 30, 2013 01:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
That's sad. That's one thing that I'm very afraid of especially nowadays. People just don't value or appreciate marriage anymore. I feel if you go into knowing how the person is and you don't like how they are why waste the time, money or even just the energy on it. I value family and can't wait to be married to someone who hopefully feels the same way I do about it

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posted August 30, 2013 01:58 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Venus in Libra can value marriage but it doesn't always mean it will be daisy chains and laughs. They just kinda do their own thing after a while but at least they stay married.

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posted August 30, 2013 02:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Zander916:
I agree with you both!

I can't COMPLETELY relate as I'm Leo, but I have Venus in Virgo. Pretty much all of my nit-picking is in my head. I don't release it.
I am pretty flighty UNTIL it reaches a certain kind of seriousness. I can't explain it. Then I'm yours. You'll have to REALLY screw up or run me off with a baseball bat. LOL In the beginning though... it could be anything! That's the mutable followed by fixed.

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posted August 30, 2013 02:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I don't want that. I want the person that I marry to be just as passionate as I am and love me every day for the rest of our lives just as I plain I doing to them.

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posted August 30, 2013 02:10 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The best advice I can give: Be prepared to forgive.

If you can do that, your marriage could last forever and ever.

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posted August 30, 2013 02:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Thank you lol not sure if that's a good or bad thing

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posted August 30, 2013 02:14 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
It's practical. No one can honestly live up to another person's expectations and humans are humans so "for better or worse" really does mean something. People treat it like it doesn't. It is serious. A lot of people really cannot handle what marriage really means. "For better or worse" means exactly what it says. It's not always gonna be fun.

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posted August 30, 2013 02:26 AM            

I'm weary of touching on this marriage thing because it's asking for trouble on this site. Oh the opinions will be far and wide and things can get heated VERY quickly.
Having been married once. I never gave up until I realized there was nothing I could do anyway. It's all good now. If I talk about it, it's just because it was an experience. I could run into her tomorrow and just be like, "Sup?" LMAO!
Me PERSONALLY, from what I have experienced and seen out there with my nieces, friends, what have you.
I think people expect that the passion that they had when they met to last forever. It can't. I don't mean that things can't be passionate, but you have to look elsewhere and explore new ways to get it.
What I do, and I think it's a blessing and a curse together. I get very very comfortable. I can do things apart, or do things together. For me, activities done together are just activities and the enjoyment of each other's company. Not so much a "bonding" moment.
To me, it's things like sleeping next to each other. I love that almost more than anything. I can't even explain it! It's just, something that I normally do in private. Or something that I've done with family like when you're a kid and you sleep in the bed with your mom and/or dad. That's the REAL bonding because I can't do that with anyone else. Go shopping at the mall, ice skating, or whatever. I could do that with anyone.
A lot for me is just the knowledge that the support is there, the love is there. I don't need it to be demonstrated constantly. I just need it to be there when I need it. So as you can see, security is big for me. Reliability, loyalty, faithfulness, honesty, etc. I value those things highly.
If we take a trip to Vegas, or to see Niagara Falls? Great! It will be special and I'll certainly have a special memory etched in. It won't be impersonal but just not as much as the other things that often get taken for granted. I'll NEVER EVER take things like waking up together for granted. I love those things with all my heart. It never gets old to me but I think it gets old for many others. People seeking that rush, and when it's gone, they're gone.

Speaking of staying together for finances. I know a couple at work that do that. He has a gambling problems and she has a spending problem with clothes and make-up. They have kids too. They're always on the edge of getting divorced but never do. It's been that way for years.

posted August 30, 2013 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
That's the funny thing about Virgo people do not understand. We draw in as much criticism as we give, sometimes a lot more. It's like there's a sign on every Virgo's forehead that reads "criticize me" and everyone can see but us. It's like the chicken and the egg story. Which came first? The criticism from someone else or the one from Virgo?

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posted August 30, 2013 02:46 AM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
That or perhaps, they feel criticized even when they are not being? For example, I told Virgo guy I knew he had thick hair, ran my fingers through it, that is smelt good he said its probably my gel (in regards to the smell), I said why do you put gel? You doesn't look like it..something along those lines cant recall exactly and the next week, hair came up again and he said he didn't put any gel because I told him not too that I liked it better without? Lol..just something odd lol! It obviously caught my attention that he would do something to himself at my suggestion or whatever he thought, it was flattering that my input mattered that much to him lol

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posted August 30, 2013 03:13 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
My ex was a Virgo sun with all his personal planets (Mercury,Venus,Mars) in Virgo. He knew right from the start that he wanted a relationship with me, like from te second date he was very firm about he wanted and we had a discussion about his previous relationships and he had told me that he pretty much knows from the beginning what he wants from each girl he wants.
So I believe that Virgos pretty much know what they want.

But you know generalising like that from the Sun Sign only is totally wrong, you should post his chart if you want but really describing him solely as "Virgo" doesnt say much! I told you my experience with a very Virgoan Virgo, maybe he has various placements that play out differently! Hope I helped

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posted August 30, 2013 03:16 AM            

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Originally posted by its_aqua:
My ex was a Virgo sun with all his personal planets (Mercury,Venus,Mars) in Virgo. He knew right from the start that he wanted a relationship with me, like from te second date he was very firm about he wanted and we had a discussion about his previous relationships and he had told me that he pretty much knows from the beginning what he wants from each girl he wants.
So I believe that Virgos pretty much know what they want.

But you know generalising like that from the Sun Sign only is totally wrong, you should post his chart if you want but really describing him solely as "Virgo" doesnt say much! I told you my experience with a very Virgoan Virgo, maybe he has various placements that play out differently! Hope I helped

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Hmmmmmm... I have Venus, Mercury, and Mars in Virgo. 0_o
What's your name?? Maybe we've met before.

LMAO! Just kidding.