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Topic: Very confusing Virgo man?
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Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 03:26 AM
  
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Yes, I know.. I wish I could I just don't have his other info like place of birth or time...I know he has venus in Cancer though and I'm sure synastry has a lot to do with it as well...
You could still get a general idea by birthday no? You just wouldn't know asc and therefore, houses. But you could still see planets in signs. The moon changes every couple days I think so you could get a vague idea. I do that sometimes. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 30, 2013 03:35 AM
Yeah, I used Configuration Hunter synastry. Has anyone heard of it?? I just put 12:00 since I heard that is what you put if you don't have time of birth...we have venus/sun aspects, moon/mars, mars/saturn, I think we have some sun/pluto, possibly some venus/pluto as well...IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 03:53 AM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Hmmmmmm... I have Venus, Mercury, and Mars in Virgo. 0_o
What's your name?? Maybe we've met before.  LMAO! Just kidding. Edit: Oh I missed the Virgo sun bit. That rules me out. 
Haha LOL ! Out of curiosit Zander, how would feel if your ex gf remembered your bday when you didnt even remember that you had told her your bday?
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Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 03:57 AM
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Originally posted by its_aqua:
Haha LOL ! Out of curiosit Zander, how would feel if your ex gf remembered your bday when you didnt even remember that you had told her your bday?
I think I would take it as very flattering or possibly that they cared more for me than I thought they did. I don't think I would take it as creepy but it depends I guess.
It's hard for me to really wrap my head around because I remember birthdays like crazy. I could name off each ex's birthday, my nieces, nephews... They just stick! lol IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 04:04 AM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
I think I would take it as very flattering or possibly that they cared more for me than I thought they did. I don't think I would take it as creepy but it depends I guess.
It's hard for me to really wrap my head around because I remember birthdays like crazy. I could name off each ex's birthday, my nieces, nephews... They just stick! lol
Yeah Im the same way with bdays, but this Virgo ex didnt even remembered his sisters bday-let alone mine, so i was thinking of texting him happy bday.
He could never figure me out anyways so I just want to puzzle him a bit, but i dont know if he will be puzzled ideed since he could have found someone new IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 11:13 AM
@Zander Awe you are seem like such a sweetie bear  I love that you cherish waking up in the morning next to someone you love because I do too. I loved sleeping in bed with my mom and even with my little brother when he was 2 and 3 years old and especially with my high school sweetheart. Too bad that's done but anywho those are extremely comforting to me and I understand you there. I guess really what I'm trying to say is that once I give myself to a person I plan on that person being it for me. I'm a woman and a libra woman at that and obsessed with love and being in love. If I give myself completely I expect that person to do the same for me. I'm a very loving and passionate person and really love and cherish the smaller things in life and in relationships. The problem with lots of marriages seems to be the marrying for the wrong reasons. If you don't love someone than you should never take that more serious step and people just don't take it as being that anymore which really saddens me. Isn't marriage and having a family supposed to be a wonderful thing? It's what we were meant to do and people just don't see it that way anymore. It's all a big joke and is a big part as to why I don't attach myself to anyone right away. I've learned to watch my back because no one else will IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 3734
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 01:56 PM
The hardest thing about being a mutable sun - people often won't take us seriously. I see it time and time again with the mutables, all of them. People write us off then wonder why we go cold then hot then back again. So many threads exist wondering about people with sun in __________ mutable sign and then giggles and jokes at the answers. The tone is never really serious. If you want a mutable sun to take you seriously, you have to do the same with them not just laugh at every little thing they do, make jokes about it and exclaim "I can't believe he did that!" If it were a fixed sign the response would be, "that's so great that he did that no one has ever been that sweet before..."
What is it about mutables that brings this out?IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 02:13 PM
@Barbiegirl19I CAN be sweet! Usually am from my perspective. I'm just not very flashy and full of spark. I'm consistent which, becomes "boring" to most. I thrive on it. Special moments should feel special! Like I've had very very few surprise birthday parties but MAN were they awesome! If it happened every year I'd say, "I'm having a surprise birthday party. You want to come over?" LOL See what I mean? @SSS
Do you have an example? I'm just trying to understand this clearly.
Do you mean about what I was saying just before? Things like that?
I'm actually curious to know what you mean and maybe figure it out. I like to know things. LOL
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 3734
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 02:15 PM
Zander, I was addressing VenusScorp. Sorry for the confusion
My post was not directed at you personally. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 02:33 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Zander, I was addressing VenusScorp. Sorry for the confusion
My post was not directed at you personally.
Oh okay! I hadn't taken any offense whatsoever. I was curious. Still am curious about it. The word "why" pops up and it's like a dog whistle. *head pops up* "Huh? What? Where? I heard 'why'" I always like to try to understand 'why' anything. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 02:56 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
@Barbiegirl19I CAN be sweet! Usually am from my perspective. I'm just not very flashy and full of spark. I'm consistent which, becomes "boring" to most. I thrive on it. Special moments should feel special! Like I've had very very few surprise birthday parties but MAN were they awesome! If it happened every year I'd say, "I'm having a surprise birthday party. You want to come over?" LOL See what I mean? @SSS
Do you have an example? I'm just trying to understand this clearly.
Do you mean about what I was saying just before? Things like that?
I'm actually curious to know what you mean and maybe figure it out. I like to know things. LOL
Completely 😊 that's awesome. I think we all Can be sweet some of just choose to be more or less than others which is fine in my book completely. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 3734
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 03:36 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Oh okay! I hadn't taken any offense whatsoever. I was curious. Still am curious about it. The word "why" pops up and it's like a dog whistle. *head pops up* "Huh? What? Where? I heard 'why'" I always like to try to understand 'why' anything.
Doesn't it seem like certain fixed suns in particular do not have a positive opinion of mutable suns? It's like the two natures are so completely opposite, maybe that's why? Fixed is absolutely still and steady while mutable jumps around from here to there, physically, mentally, emotionally. These two modes seem completely out of sync with one another. IP: Logged |
its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 03:51 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Doesn't it seem like certain fixed suns in particular do not have a positive opinion of mutable suns? It's like the two natures are so completely opposite, maybe that's why? Fixed is absolutely still and steady while mutable jumps around from here to there, physically, mentally, emotionally. These two modes seem completely out of sync with one another.
These is so true. I love Geminis for company most of closest friends are Gemini or Virgos or Sags I love their breezy attitude but, when it comes to romantic feelings I would stay away, they just really have the bad reputation although I know plenty of people who are perfectly loyal and right in their relationships
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 616
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 05:02 PM
lol gurl ! You aren't only one !I met a Virgo man last year who confused the hell out of me too !!
One minute, he's all hot, interested and romantic then the next he's all cold, distant and pretty much dismissive. My Sagittarius Stellium couldn't stand that so I simply forget all about him. Last week, he called me and said he wished if we could meet again. I told him to his face that I won't date him until he figures out what he exactly wants from me first.
Haven't heard from him ever since..lol.. well..this is for the better...I already lost interest in him anyway. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 05:35 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Doesn't it seem like certain fixed suns in particular do not have a positive opinion of mutable suns? It's like the two natures are so completely opposite, maybe that's why? Fixed is absolutely still and steady while mutable jumps around from here to there, physically, mentally,emotionally. These two modes seem completely out of sync with one another.
Yes. I think you're right.
It depends on the chart obviously and you know a lot more than I do. I'm fixed sun as you know but with plenty of Virgo and a gemini moon. So I feel connected in ways but I can be left scratching my head, "what the eff is wrong with them?"
Some yes, I don't get too close to. It takes other things in the chart to balance it I think.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 3734
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 07:02 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916: So I feel connected in ways but I can be left scratching my head, "what the eff is wrong with them?"
You're not the only one. I notice many threads about mutable suns and the confusion we cause lol.
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Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 07:32 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Zander916:[b] So I feel connected in ways but I can be left scratching my head, "what the eff is wrong with them?"
You're not the only one. I notice many threads about mutable suns and the confusion we cause lol. [/B][/QUOTE]
Hahaha
Does it work the other way?
Fixed confusing mutable? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 3734
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 07:40 PM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Hahaha
Does it work the other way?
Fixed confusing mutable?
I always understand my fixed friends. One thing the fixed mode is really good at dealing with is restlessness. They will sit in one spot forever. They are the ones at the movie who's eyes are fixed on the screen the entire time. Never a yawn or need to get up, walk around the lobby outside. They sit, engrossed in what they are watching. I can enter that mode sometimes, I have fixed moon and Venus, not always. I tend to vacillate between being totally consumed/absorbed and A.D.D. Fixed suns do have difficulty understanding my mutable mode. They want to take me and plant me in concrete at times. I won't let them. Too quick and I get away.
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Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 07:51 PM
Ah okay.
I think I'm a mixed bag. I can do either depending on what it is. Movies? Nah. I can with company but not alone. I don't even own a television by choice if that says anything. LOL
I get distracted enough online and having to pull away to get things done. IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
Knowflake Posts: 909
From: Nyc
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 08:08 PM
Has he pointed out a zit on ur face yet? Thats how u will know he is opening up.IP: Logged |
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