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Topic: Very confusing Virgo man?
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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 29, 2013 11:53 PM
  
Hello,I posted on here before, but never really got a response,so just figured I would give it a try again. What is with these men? Is it normal for them to be confusing? I feel like he likes me, then sometimes, ugh not so much :-/ I had read somewhere it is normal for them to do a push and pull thing but just dumbfounded still. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 29, 2013 11:54 PM
Those Virgos :/
I'll never understand them.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 29, 2013 11:57 PM
He probably is just as confused about everything as you are. Virgo men are and can be very confusing at times unfortunately. But for give up if you like him then keep being persistent, be honest with him and he'll be putty in you're hands. Don't ever give him any reason not trust you. They live off of it and if they don't trust you it's really hard to earn it back. All personal reasons been in 2 relationships with Virgo men IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 351
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 30, 2013 12:08 AM
Thank you! You Two! Ok, ya I mean we started out like we knew eachother would say Hi, beginning of Summer we just kinda...took it to another level. He was ridiculously flirty, still can be at times just not as much. He told me he respected me & tells his family I am good family friend with his family he tells them I'm cool and funny so much fun to hangout with. The family teases us in a complete innocent nice way about the two of us...we both just say we are friends. I told him I liked him, but wasn't ready for a relationship not sure if that was good or bad move  I didn't see him last weekend, the weekend before I did, at his dad's wedding he was like standoffish though totally confused me, but at the end of the night he assumed and was waiting for me to stay with him but I didn't know since we didn't really talk. He text me of course looking for me. I'm going to try be super patient, give him his space if he needs it cause I just feel super comfy with him & I want to improve myself be better with him being around in my life, I adore his family our backgrounds and everything are so similar. I knew him before, but this Summer I met a whole different him and I like it  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:13 AM
I agree with the giving him space part but to an extent. He's a man and men like to talk about how their feeling just like they want to hear about our feelings right? Even if they aren't as straight forward about them we are all people and all have feelings. It's better to talk then not to talk. So if he likes you and wants to go to that next step with you then be needs to be upfront with you too and you do the same for him. You both sound very young. So take it slow but still be honest with him sweets  IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:17 AM
And speaking of young you're probably older than I am lmao I still would hope that I give the best advice that I can IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 351
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 30, 2013 12:29 AM
I don't think we are too young, but I think the timing is important...I mean I am unemployed, makes me terribly upset I like to work, want to have my stuff together before I get in a relationship. It sounds silly, but I want to have someone there then when I'm ready for a full on relationship I know that he can be the one to do that with. I told him I liked him, but I also told him I'm not ready for a relationship he responded with oh ya, I like hanging out with you and stuff but I'm not ready either. We rarely talk during the week. It's really short when we do. I'm 26 but I don't have much experience dating.IP: Logged |
Zander916
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From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:38 AM
Sounds normal. Hahaha
I have three personal planets there. In vedic astrology I'm a virgo rising. My best friend who I've known longer than a lot of people here have been alive is a Virgo sun. We're quite alike. For us, it's partly a fear of discovering that we landed a clingy, possessive person that wants to take away our freedoms. Or.... Along those lines a fear of someone who won't take things at the pace that we want to. When myself and my friend talk, it doesn't sound nice but we'll end up just basically listing, weighing what we like and don't like about a possible partner. It's instinctual.
Plus, figuring out what we want with a particular person. Sometimes we're not sure ourselves. We need more time to investigate. That's my perspective. IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 351
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 30, 2013 12:43 AM
Oh thanks Zander! I guess I'll just let him do as he pleases in regards to how fast, where, all that stuff lol. I don't ever text him first during the weekend he does that, or we will run into one another. I don't wanna cling to him or be disrespectful at all. I adore him too much for that lol well respect him too much lol. He really is something kinda calming for me, for sure. He is a little critical is that normal?? Def notices my clothing how I carry myself which he hasn't complained about he actually complimented it, but he is critical in other ways like we should work out together, I should eat better....I'm thicker but no insanely overweight, but then when we talk he tells me he loves curves a taller women so ugh ya..he stumps me. I also read they try and want to improve someone when they like them??IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:46 AM
I'll be 21 in a few weeks and have dating and just male experience. It sounds like he liked he wanted more with you and when you said not right now he took it as something he did, hence why he stopped talking to you as much. You should tell him why you don't want to date now, and then he'll realize that its not him. Hes a virgo and a man at that they always think there's something wrong with them even when its not them lol. And I completely respect your decision to want to have your stuff together that's awesome. So many people just don't care anymore and it makes me sad I do realize that I'm very young but I am such an old soul. I feel like I'm already 30 mentally lol I don't pay any attention to age IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:47 AM
Also agree with vs86.
Feeling ready or not. My friend and I are always wanting "a cool chick to hang out with" and are more than patient in that arena. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:49 AM
God yes "I constantly critic" should be their motto lmfao hahahah. That's very normal for Virgo men they notice everything. Whenever I meet a new Virgo person I always feel like their judging me because they all always are lol so yes definitely normal for them IP: Logged |
venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 351
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 30, 2013 12:50 AM
Lol! Good! Yay, ya'll made me feel better about the whole thing I obviously am concerned there are other girls, he said he doesn't actually have anyother girls he sees or whatever. Patience is of the virtue with him I guess IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:53 AM
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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Lol! Good! Yay, ya'll made me feel better about the whole thing I obviously am concerned there are other girls, he said he doesn't actually have anyother girls he sees or whatever. Patience is of the virtue with him I guess
And he's probably being very truthful with you. Once a Virgo likes you it's only you IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 439
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:57 AM
Good stuff here. I'm not as picky as my Virgo sun friend. He will NOT date a woman with short hair. 0_o
I'm not quite that bad. Either way don't take the criticism too personal.
It's not a deal breaker necessarily but I'm just going from myself and my friend. Everyone is different. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 12:59 AM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
Good stuff here. I'm not as picky as my Virgo sun friend. He will NOT date a woman with short hair. 0_o
I'm not quite that bad. Either way don't take the criticism too personal.
It's not a deal breaker necessarily but I'm just going from myself and my friend. Everyone is different.
I agree they honestly can't help it. That's just the way they are lol they strive for everything to be perfect when it's just not possible 
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venuscorpio86
Knowflake Posts: 351
From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011
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posted August 30, 2013 01:06 AM
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
And he's probably being very truthful with you. Once a Virgo likes you it's only you
Yay!I do know that in June when we first started well...hanging out or whatever there was a girl he was talking to, basically just well being intimate with. That night, he made plans with me when he already was supposed go see her, told my friend he wanted to hangout with me. Then, he had told me that he was pretty much messing with her for a whole month well, just on the weekends, which was probably from May- June day we started hanging out. That he just quit. I have been hanging out with him since June so yay I guess I made it this far lol. He def is player type but I also see a side to him that is very honest.. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 01:12 AM
Virgo men do give off that player vibe but they are really misunderstood. They're very different. They hide how they really feel and mimick the other persons feelings. It's all about them being comfortable with you and then they can be the sweetest honey bears lol just be honest and tell him and he will or should do the same for you IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 01:13 AM
^It's probably just because the Virgos are mutable.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 01:15 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
^It's probably just because the Virgos are mutable.
Right. They're just so difficult at times. I love them and then it's like whoa. A few of my greatest friends have been virgos and I've dated two Virgo men. I can say for me that I don't plan on going there again though  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 01:23 AM
I find relationships with Virgo suns to be very difficult and rewarding. I had two I loved very dearly. They always seem to be the most wonderful relationships ever at first but they sour quickly for some reason. It's just something about Virgo and ltr I guess. Incompatible. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 01:28 AM
I definitely believe virgos and libra or I should say most of them are very incompatible. We are just too different. They're too negative and depressing for me. Which I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that I just feel there's no need to be like that every day. They pick at you about everything. It's annoying IP: Logged |
charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 01:33 AM
IMO (partly based on myself..) Virgos tend to get turned off very easily. This can be for any reason under the sun such as your hair color looked horrible with that sweater you wore....it ruined the fantasy...so then they'll need some time to mentally get over that.
I can be turned off by the most ridiculous things and eventhough it's gotten better with age and I HAVE worked in it, it still happens and sadly when it does, I have a hard time getting back to how things were.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted August 30, 2013 01:36 AM
The ones I knew didn't pick on me that's the thing. It's so weird. They were unVirgo-like Virgos. One had a Pisces moon, the other could have, too, I don't know. I knew a third one, it wasn't a real love, just friendship. None were picking on me but somehow, the relationships went nowhere.
Virgos do tend to be very flighty and don't like to stay with one person for very long. This has been the case with all Virgos I know, except for the mother of one of them. She is married to a Scorpio, but she is never really warm or loving in her marriage. She has Venus in Libra, too. She is one of the ultra critical Virgo types and does pick at people. Very annoying.
The one with Cancer Venus doesn't act much like a Virgo with that Venus placement and moon in Pisces.
The other one, I don't know the exact birth date but he was the most unVirgo of them all, trust me. IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
Knowflake Posts: 390
From: Smalltown Pennsylvania
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 30, 2013 01:37 AM
I feel so bad. It's like you guys torture yourselves and ruin things that shouldn't have been ruined in the first place. There is way too much over thinking and too much trying to perfect every little thing IP: Logged |
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