posted September 01, 2013 10:26 AM            

While these interpretations are, to some extent, excessive, this contact is certainly not designed for the half- hearted and some couples do face the violence of emotions that so often erupt when they get together.

Mars-Pluto contacts in synastry show an overwhelming passion in this interaction. It intensifies sexuality, passion and competiveness between a couple. While there is the possibility for explosiveness, both individuals in this partnership will love a challenge and a bit of conflict, as neither Mars or Pluto are afraid of confrontation.

Passion and power are likely to be significant themes with this combination, but there is also this crazy, wonderful sexual magnetism between the pair. Imagine the drama, intense heat and blazing theatrical scenes when these two form a union. Pluto is fiercely proud and Mars is independent, and neither will tolerate control, and the power-struggles begin.

Manipulation, games and power stand-offs could bring uncomfortable feelings to the surface. There is always a card hidden in the deck with this interaction that is ready to be dealt when the two of you fall in love. Once you bare your souls to one another there really is no going back. The chemistry between you both is extremely hot and steamy, and at times it may feel like the relationship is an emotionally loaded gun ready to fire off.

The main requirements for any Pluto synastry contacts in a relationship are truth and honesty in all your dealings, and the more real you are with each other – the better. You need to be aware of the imbalance of power because what you really need to strive towards is mutual empowerment.

You have a tendency to push one another’s most reactive buttons and there could be a dangerous test of wills. Pluto represents a place of wounding where our anger and hidden resentment becomes poisonous, and Mars likes things to be more open, direct and confrontational.

Astrologer Lyn Birkbeck warns about the danger of playing with fire with this contact. However, this connection can be one of passion and depth, triggering strong emotions and intense exchanges. There is a tendency to go to extremes, and this is a transformative and deeply obsessive relationship.

One partner may be demanding emotionally, sexually or mentally, and a battlefield could easily develop, but quite often the desires of Mars are transformed and experienced on a deeper level through this interaction. With any Pluto relationship anything kept hidden creates trust issues. Mars with Pluto describes a mutually exciting exchange, full of emotional intensity, but also liable to provoke feelings of turbulence in the relationship.

Mars is drawn to Pluto’s depths, while Pluto is attracted to Mars’ strength, and the couple are changed dramatically through their interaction with one another. Mars-Pluto contacts may signify a pronounced expression of intensity, strength, and power as each partner tries to dominate the other.

Mars acts more open and direct, while Pluto is hidden, secretive and is an expert on subtle strategies; both are testing each other’s will. They work best when showing loyalty and respect for one another. Make sure the battles don’t become hurtful or destructive, and keep the passion, excitement, and fires burning more creatively.

http://theastrologyplace.blogspot.com/2012/01/mars-pluto-synastry.html?m=1

posted September 01, 2013 05:12 PM            

People only become aggressive and violent when they have aspects in natal that show they are predisposed to that. They synastry is not enough.
The most violent men will be the ones who have a Mars/Pluto or Mars/Saturn opposition or square in natal --- If they happen to meet a woman with her Moon or Venus on their Mars --- that would be good reason for her to be scared and run for the hills - because I've seen countless examples of sadism and very nasty behaviour, with this astro-mix.

posted September 01, 2013 05:19 PM            

I was afraid because I read in some websites that this a rather violent aspect which can signals abuse in relationships.

posted September 01, 2013 05:29 PM            

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I once saw a sign that said "sin is death" but if "all deaths are suicide (linda goodman)" and suicide is sin, then shouldnt "death is sin" be more appropriate?

posted September 02, 2013 12:34 AM            

We fight but quickly make up. When he gets mad i get turned on lol.

Its sick.

posted September 02, 2013 12:48 AM              

Sounds scary.. I mean I do attract violent and crazy people (Lilith conjunct dsc) but I usually run far away from them. I'm not bound by anyone..
So i've never experienced a violent relationships with a lot of arguments.... I've never been in love with someone I wanted to kill ahaha!

Wait, I have experienced plenty of mercury/pluto synastry.
Probably because mercury is so dominant in my chart..
However it can be a double edged sword, but mercury/pluto synastry is one of my favorites.
The intense conversations is what I live for in relationships and love.

posted September 02, 2013 04:47 AM            

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We fight but quickly make up. When he gets mad i get turned on lol.

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posted September 02, 2013 07:29 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Venusian - Didn't you say you have a Sun square Mars in synastry as well?
Or was that another poster?

It's not that kind of aspect. It's much deeper and more psychological. It's not so sexual in this kind of way..
This sounds like something else.

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Yes

Sun square pluto (i am the sun)
Pluto square mars (he is mars)
Lilith square pluto (i am lilith)
Mars square mercury (i am mars)
Neptune square mars (i am neptune)

posted September 02, 2013 07:34 AM            

Mercury square mars
Sun opposition mars
Moon inconjunct mars

posted September 02, 2013 11:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
The conjunction in synastry does not (on its own) signal abuse.

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You`re right. It doesn`t.

posted September 02, 2013 11:34 AM            

My best friend`s Venus and Mars is conjunct my Pluto as well.

posted September 03, 2013 12:14 PM            

This is how your union looks through colorvision Synastry Aspecting. Only the major aspects are shown. 5 deg. orbs.

Planet and color code, in both directions:

S = ego energy
MR = raw energy
P = passionate energy
Asc = showmanship energy

Yellow boxes = high priority position for favorable major aspects.

Green column and row = emotions

Black column and row = North Node = groups of people that you know and do not know.

Gray column and row = communication channels

Black Aspects Not In NN columns = strong influences that could lead to physical fighting and separation.

Inner Box (VE on VE to JP on JP) = the core of the unit, favorable aspects in this area are very good indicators of success.

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You are drawn together by MR conj. P

You are being held together by:

M conj. M - two peas in a pod kind of thing. Very good for emotional togetherness.

MY tri. M - ability to favorably express your positions with each other

VE tri. M - this is the M willingness to comfort VE

JP conj. UR - fantastic ability to communicate between you!

If you stayed together what would happen?

MR sext. SA - you do what you can to help each other.

JP sqr. M - there may be a strong dislike of the direction the union may be going.

SA tri. VE - VE feel secure with SA, SA likes this.

SA tri. JP - your tenacity to stay together may produce some growth.

SA conj. SA - you both feel the frustrations of the union equally so. And this will be expressed thru M conj. M.

SA sqr. MR - outside influences will prevent you from moving forward. That will stimulate your frustrations thru:

SA sqr. P - bitter disputes

MY conj. MR - the potential of bitter intense arguments. And this would be supported by another

P sqr. SA - bitter disputes.

The bottome line:

At the beginning, this may be a very hard union to walk away from because of your ability to relate so well to each other. But, over time, unfavorable circumstances outside of your control may weigh heavy on the unit, preventing the kind of growth you might like to see yourselves in. Your devotion to each other can become strong, so much so that if one of you tried to part ways, the ensuing battle to part may become intensely disruptive to you both.

You may be able to do better.

There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart, a color coded chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting