posted September 16, 2013 10:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Milkyshutter:
I've realized my vulnerability comes from Plutonian contacts. My natal chart has Pluto in the 7th house with an hard aspect to my moon which is in the 1st which conjuncts my ascendant.

Last year, I had a terrible TERRIBLE relationship with someone who had my mars square her pluto. Well, its not even a relationship but pure obsession. It end up costing me my job. It was draining experience, and that obsession and unrequited love led to complete depression.

Well, lately, an irresistible feeling has developed with someone. This time both my Sun and Venus square her pluto. And it's a double whammy too, as my Pluto inconjunct her Venus. I'm talking about really close orbs like 1 degree or less both ways.

And, I have to say, Pluto contacts are really scary. If the first mars-pluto contact was about sexual fantasies and obsession. This Sun/Venus to pluto contacts are just life-sucking disastrous obsession. This woman is in my head 24/7.

I've heard that pluto contacts are karmic. I was hoping if someone can shed some light on this. Also your experience. I've read all the topics regarding venus/pluto contacts in Lindaland. I'm hoping to hear some more latest developments.

Did any of you in this relationship tamed this beastly feelings? Where does this kinda thing lead to?

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posted September 17, 2013 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
HI, YES I HAVE PLUTO CONJUNCT VENUS AND MARS IN A COMPOSITE CHART WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
THE OBSESSION HAS BEEN CRAZY! I HAD TO LEAVE MY JOB BECAUSE (YOU GUESSED IT) HE'S MARRIED AND WAS VERY WORRIED OF DIRE CONSEQUENCES. IT WAS A VERY EMOTIONAL GOODBYE FOR BOTH OF US AFTER KNOWING HIM FOR SIX YEARS. I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM IN SIX MONTHS AND I STILL THINK OF HIM EVERYDAY. I WAS TOLD BY SEVERAL TAROT CARD READERS TO SEE HIM AGAIN AS THIS IS KARMA AND THERE IS A LESSON TO BE LEARNED. NOT SURE WHAT IT IS THOUGH.

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posted September 17, 2013 08:17 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
HI, YES I HAVE PLUTO CONJUNCT VENUS AND MARS IN A COMPOSITE CHART WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
THE OBSESSION HAS BEEN CRAZY! I HAD TO LEAVE MY JOB BECAUSE (YOU GUESSED IT) HE'S MARRIED AND WAS VERY WORRIED OF DIRE CONSEQUENCES. IT WAS A VERY EMOTIONAL GOODBYE FOR BOTH OF US AFTER KNOWING HIM FOR SIX YEARS. I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM IN SIX MONTHS AND I STILL THINK OF HIM EVERYDAY. I WAS TOLD BY SEVERAL TAROT CARD READERS TO SEE HIM AGAIN AS THIS IS KARMA AND THERE IS A LESSON TO BE LEARNED. NOT SURE WHAT IT IS THOUGH.

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What about your synastry chart?
Were you already in a relationship with him?

posted September 17, 2013 11:14 PM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
HI, YES I HAVE PLUTO CONJUNCT VENUS AND MARS IN A COMPOSITE CHART WITH SOMEONE ELSE.
THE OBSESSION HAS BEEN CRAZY! I HAD TO LEAVE MY JOB BECAUSE (YOU GUESSED IT) HE'S MARRIED AND WAS VERY WORRIED OF DIRE CONSEQUENCES. IT WAS A VERY EMOTIONAL GOODBYE FOR BOTH OF US AFTER KNOWING HIM FOR SIX YEARS. I HAVE NOT SEEN HIM IN SIX MONTHS AND I STILL THINK OF HIM EVERYDAY. I WAS TOLD BY SEVERAL TAROT CARD READERS TO SEE HIM AGAIN AS THIS IS KARMA AND THERE IS A LESSON TO BE LEARNED. NOT SURE WHAT IT IS THOUGH.

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posted September 18, 2013 02:42 AM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi everybody

I will post my synastry chart shortly @milkyshutter. Would that be O.K.? I am the one who has the Pluto, hence the obsession and I did not get fired from my job. I decided to leave. #1 I have health issues and #2 I was getting really scared of my feelings for him.

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posted September 18, 2013 02:43 AM            

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Originally posted by poochycat:
Hi everybody

I will post my synastry chart shortly @milkyshutter. Would that be O.K.? I am the one who has the Pluto, hence the obsession and I did not get fired from my job. I decided to leave. #1 I have health issues and #2 I was getting really scared of my feelings for him.

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posted September 24, 2013 10:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:

I would never get involved in a Venus-Pluto relationship again. Love becomes torture. Pure heartache and drama.

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posted September 24, 2013 12:45 PM            

His Pluto squares my Venus, octiles my Sun, trines my Chiron, trines my NN, octiles my ASC and sextiles my MC. My Pluto trines his Sun, octiles his Moon, squares his Mercury, opposes his Mars, sextiles his Saturn, sextiles his Neptune, conjunct his Pluto and trines his Chiron. AND we have DW Venus-Mars, Venus-Venus and Mars-Mars.

I feel an inexplicable pull towards him. However, my obssession is not unhealthy, it's mostly wanting to talk to him and to share thoughts and experiences. And to sometimes kiss and grope him (all that Venus-Mars aspects, who could help it?).

I can't speak for his feelings but there was too much intensity from the get go. So much so that I got really scared, then got fascinated and started crushing on him. He hacked into my email account, changed the password and told me to my face, as if that was nothing major. He still pushes friends of his onto me, as if I'd go there (he'd probably interrogate the poor person)... one time, I was crying and, when he saw it, he assumed it was over a boy and asked me who was making me cry, because he was going to "fix" it.

We have a very high-minded, beautiful friendship, which is why I haven't walked away for ever. I had to have some time for myself, away from him, at the peak of these feelings (I told him I was crushing on him and he was very uncomfortable with it), just to get over him.

I'm told he still talks about me (very fondly) when he's drunk and around a cousin of mine, but when I tried to confront him, he played dumb, said only "maybe" and changed the subject. I get the feeling that he genuinely loves me for who I am but is afraid to end up hurting me or himself and ruining our friendship...