posted March 23, 2015 11:06 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Aquacheeka, ( I hope I spelled it right cause editing on my phone is a ...) who gets abused? Mars or Saturn? I'm Saturn and I'm just too mature to abuse people. If they rub me wrong I'll let em go.

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This is a pretty apt description of what happens with this synastry aspect, imo:

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This is a very negative aspect to share with someone in synastry.
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With this aspect, it seems that no matter what the Mars person does, the Saturn person is bothered. Nothing is ever “good enough” for Saturn. The Saturn person usually sees the Mars person as childish and irresponsible. The Mars person’s energy is the sort that makes the Saturn person very uncomfortable. More specifically, the Mars person’s self-confidence and assertiveness brings out Saturn’s insecurities, and in response, the Saturn person attempts to restrict and limit the Mars person’s actions by telling Mars what to do. Saturn may resort to constantly tearing the Mars person down through criticism and psychological abuse.
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It is common for Mars to feel Saturn is condescending and treats Mars like a child. Mars may become angry with this and lash out at the Saturn person. The cycle of criticism and conflict can soon become a vicious cycle. This aspect lends itself to verbally abusive relationships, and can even escalate into physical aggression.
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Since Mars is the planet of sex and physical energy, this aspect can also manifest into sexual problems for the couple. Saturn may find the sex disappointing, and Mars may sense this, and lose their sexual confidence. This is an aspect often found in the synastry charts of sexless marriages.

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Source: http://astrolady.wix.com/astrolady#!saturn-in-synastry-relationship-hell/cv4v

posted March 23, 2015 11:18 AM            

Mars Uranus
Mars Pluto
Mars Neptune
Mars Jupiter

This is because outer planets have immense, condensed energy and Mars is an inflammable planet.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

posted March 23, 2015 12:16 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hard aspects between Mars and Saturn are very common in long-term romantic, crazy in love couples, as stated in this thread so no, that description is not correct. But physical violence is a possible scenario with it, but this is because all hard aspects between Mars and an outer planet have physical violence as a possible effect:

Mars Uranus
Mars Pluto
Mars Neptune
Mars Jupiter

This is because outer planets have immense, condensed energy and Mars is an inflammable planet.

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It's actually very correct. Lots of long-term couples are in unhappy, unhealthy marriages. Lots of marriages involve domestic violence, as the many shelters for women will attest. Lots of men complain their wives emasculate them. And 1 in ten marriages are sexless.