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Topic: how can you make venus in leo forgive you?
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Venusincap89
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posted October 17, 2013 12:32 AM
  
Dear venus in leos, is it ever possible to be forgiven by you guys after committing a death sentence worthy crime? Ok so here is my story
I asked a venus in leo (virgo sun, mars libra) to a cup of coffee and I assumed she wasnt interested due to the body language she presented As expected she canceled the date 30 minutes before the date. She counter offered for other day within the week, but I suggested she should grab coffee with me when she feels more comfortable to do so Few weeks later she explained how she had a personal situation that made it tough for that specific day and suggested that we should talk but I was being silly and didn't buy the excuse I moved on and dated someone else but she took it as an in your face kind of thing. Dating didn't go too well so I became single again few months later and she managed to have me asking her out for the 2nd time and she straight up rejected me I moved on again but few months after she once again got me to ask her out and this time it came to a point where she had a satisfied smirk on her face as she was rejecting me for the third time I made a huge mistake making a clever comment (no foul words though) which made her even more furious because I got very angry when I saw the smirk on her face during the rejection The thing is I am stuck in the environment which I am not able to avoid her..
What can I do??? at this point I don't even consider her a potential lover, I just want to be not hated/revenged on IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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From: vodka fine, I'm so divine
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posted October 17, 2013 12:42 AM
Omfg the Leo Venuses I know usually aren't forgiving either..."YOU slighted ME?? Who do you think your are????" Flips hair and walks away. IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
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From: AZ
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 12:46 AM
I just went through my list of friends to see if I knew any Leo's in Venus so I could help and sure enough I do. The one I know I didn't even think that maybe he could still be upset with me or hasn't forgiven me, mostly because I don't care. I noticed though that after he and I had a falling out, I tried to apologize for my part in the wrong doing and he said it was fine and he was over it but he doesn't talk to me anymore. So I guess maybe he hasn't forgiven... I guess they are like that. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted October 17, 2013 12:57 AM
Yeah :'( wish I knew she was venus in leo.. it woulda never gone this farSSS are you here IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 01:04 AM
Just smile politely when you see her, say hi, and then RUN as fast as you can far far away.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted October 17, 2013 01:05 AM
SSS what is your venus in leo doing?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted October 17, 2013 01:06 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
SSS what is your venus in leo doing?
Squaring Saturn :s
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Kerosene
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posted October 17, 2013 01:08 AM
Is venus square saturn that bad?
My mom has venus in aries square saturn.
She's confident but is an ice queen sometimes.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted October 17, 2013 01:10 AM
Nah it's not that bad. My Venus in Leo is harmless but the chick the OP knows sounds like hers packs a powerful punch. So, I'd just avoid her or I'd bs, one. If I knew she hated me I would avoid though. That's what I do with the Leo suns who I get a bad vibe from. Leo can be quite the fighter. I know one Leo sun, if I see her at the store, I quickly run to another aisle and hope she didn't see me first. Then, I sneak away to another part of the store without uttering a word so I won't bump into her. IP: Logged |
somethingexcellent
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posted October 17, 2013 01:11 AM
Venus square Saturn...Venus in aspect to Saturn in general is an ice queen placement.  quote:
StarlightSmileSupremep: :s
This is still the cutest thing ever omfg ahahaha awh omg! IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted October 17, 2013 01:12 AM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Venus square Saturn...Venus in aspect to Saturn in general is an ice queen placement. This is still the cutest thing ever omfg ahahaha awh omg!
Just like Libra I'm a lover not a fighter  IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted October 17, 2013 01:28 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
but the chick the OP knows sounds like hers packs a powerful punch. So, I'd just avoid her or I'd bs, one. If I knew she hated me I would avoid though. That's what I do with the Leo suns who I get a bad vibe from. Leo can be quite the fighter.
Everyone thinks shes very innocent and i am the bad one
I got pretty much no where to hide
And I really think I am cursed
I come across venus in leos in similar fashion (but not to this extreme, because with others i can avoid them) at least one venus in leo per month
Same thing happens over and over again
I cant handle the amount of attention they need and they get super angry at me IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 01:31 AM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Everyone thinks shes very innocent and i am the bad one
I got pretty much no where to hide
And I really think I am cursed
I come across venus in leos in similar fashion (but not to this extreme, because with others i can avoid them) at least one venus in leo per month
Same thing happens over and over again
I cant handle the amount of attention they need and they get super angry at me
I'm a Venus in Leo who has a fear of attention.
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Venusincap89
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posted October 17, 2013 01:39 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Venusincap89:
[b] Everyone thinks shes very innocent and i am the bad one
I got pretty much no where to hide
And I really think I am cursed
I come across venus in leos in similar fashion (but not to this extreme, because with others i can avoid them) at least one venus in leo per month
Same thing happens over and over again
I cant handle the amount of attention they need and they get super angry at me
I'm a Venus in Leo who has a fear of attention. [/B][/QUOTE]Why do you think that is?
Is there certain part of your chart/signs that indicates that? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 01:40 AM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Why do you think that is?
Is there certain part of your chart/signs that indicates that?
12th house Libra stellium/conjunction sextile Venus and Venus square Saturn. It tones down Venus big time. I like things to be calm and I have a pathological fear of confrontations. IP: Logged |
IndigoDirae
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From: Venice, California, US
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 17, 2013 01:41 AM
Not a Venus in Leo only thing. Venus in Aqua can be just as unforgiving if you should misread them, 'move in' but never ACTUALLY move on. STILL hurts. His justification being how much I hurt him first, of course. I think there's Saturn involved. His is in Scorpio, smack on his SNode and my Moon. Yeah. IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted October 17, 2013 01:49 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
12th house Libra stellium/conjunction sextile Venus and Venus square Saturn. It tones down Venus big time. I like things to be calm and I have a pathological fear of confrontations.
Oh how can I know which house she is in? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 01:52 AM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Oh how can I know which house she is in?
Her exact birth time, date, location, and make a chart with it at astro.com only that might be difficult since she is being so unfriendly toward you. She sounds more like an angular Venus to me. I have an angular Venus too but it's in the tenth house square Saturn, natural ruler of ten, so it sorta doesn't count. IP: Logged |
Zander916
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From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 01:54 AM
I think it works for Mars too. Maybe. Or it's the Cancer sun/moon but this woman simply does NOT let go! I went through (kind of still do - 14 months later) the SAAAAAAAAAME thing almost exactly. Except I said many mean things over the course of the next few months.
All you can do is just ignore her. The more attention that you show to her she'll keep trying to push your buttons. If you just go about your business she may not forgive you or talk to you, but she may stop the games. If it's a work situation like mine was. I just walk straight up and talk to them if it's work related. I mean that's part of the job. I treat them just as politely as I would anyone but it's strictly business.
Don't know what your situation is though. IP: Logged |
Zander916
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Nah it's not that bad. My Venus in Leo is harmless but the chick the OP knows sounds like hers packs a powerful punch. So, I'd just avoid her or I'd bs, one. If I knew she hated me I would avoid though. That's what I do with the Leo suns who I get a bad vibe from. Leo can be quite the fighter. I know one Leo sun, if I see her at the store, I quickly run to another aisle and hope she didn't see me first. Then, I sneak away to another part of the store without uttering a word so I won't bump into her.
We're not that bad are we?? LOL (Sun) I got a vibe that you kind of did that to me for a little while when I got all feisty. (still do to an extent) Hahaha
If true, no biggie and I knew why exactly. Maybe a hidden worry that I'd "snap" on you also. That's just my intuition running but I could wrong - as always.  Plus mine is 3rd decan Mars ruled, conjunct Regulus and square Jupiter. :/ So fighty? Yeah sometimes. Seems like a Leo Venus/Mars might be worse (erratic). I really don't know. Kind of asking. Simply because Leo is natural territory for Sun. IP: Logged |
elixir
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Registered: Apr 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 04:23 AM
Just act aquarius like you don't give a **** . It will earn her respect. Deep down she's insecure. She's playing games with you.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted October 17, 2013 10:33 AM
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Originally posted by Zander916:
We're not that bad are we?? LOL (Sun)I got a vibe that you kind of did that to me for a little while when I got all feisty. (still do to an extent) Hahaha
If true, no biggie and I knew why exactly. Maybe a hidden worry that I'd "snap" on you also. That's just my intuition running but I could wrong - as always. Plus mine is 3rd decan Mars ruled, conjunct Regulus and square Jupiter. :/ So fighty? Yeah sometimes. Seems like a Leo Venus/Mars might be worse (erratic). I really don't know. Kind of asking. Simply because Leo is natural territory for Sun.
Sun Leos aren't known from backing down from a challenge. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1070
From: Midwest
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 17, 2013 10:44 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Sun Leos aren't known from backing down from a challenge.
Just this second I discovered Lucifer is conjunct Sun <1 degree. But anyway... That's all another topic. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted October 17, 2013 07:51 PM
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Originally posted by somethingexcellent:
Omfg the Leo Venuses I know usually aren't forgiving either..."YOU slighted ME?? Who do you think your are????" Flips hair and walks away.
Lol so true. And all this time i was thinking it was because of his scorpio moon. Never realized leo could be so unforgiving.. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted October 17, 2013 07:59 PM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
Same thing happens over and over again
I cant handle the amount of attention they need and they get super angry at me
I have experienced this too. Its like the one second you turn your head they automatically think you've lost interest and throw a hissy fit (or at least the guy i know lol). And they also expect you to run after them when they're mad at you. Even if they've been ignoring you forever they still expect you to try.
You give up and they're even more ****** ! IP: Logged |
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