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Topic: Virgo guy ignoring me??
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ash20
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 08:05 PM
  
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I've heard this sooo many times before (also irl) that I'm starting to believe this is the general behavior of virgo men saying "go away"
Well they should stop acting like little girls (not the word i want to use) and just say that. IP: Logged |
ash20
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 08:31 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I just noticed - you have Venus in Aries square Neptune like me! SO, considering this are you sure things are as good with you and Virgo as they seem? Is it worth saving?Venus square Neptune just made me think of something (especially with Venus being in the first sign of Aries.) I wonder if this placement means the person will make a lot of mistakes in their partnership and end up having to apologize or be sorry a lot?
I am pretty naive lol. So i think you could be right but usually the only mistake i make is trusting the wrong people.
With this guy i know it's not worth saving bc of how much it hurts but i don't want to let go either. We have venus sq pluto in synastry so that could be why..
I had a very real dream about him last night which made me realize how much i missed him. But im seeing i need to stop thinking about him so much. This is my last post about him lol Thanks for the response! IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1048
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 10:26 PM
As said, he very likely had this building up in his mind and making decisions about if he needed you for anything. Thinking for weeks, if not months.
I weigh it out logically and when I have no need of that person (not wants) and they seem fickle or draining - time to go. The silence, blocked contact, and general disappearance IS the message. The "I'm finished with you" message. If forced to communicate it can get ugly. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 1546
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted October 21, 2013 10:29 PM
I'm Virgo Rising, and I do this. Venus in Aries pops up often in the people I do this to. I do it brutally and without remorse or shame. I view this treatment as an act of self preservation least these people drive me to distraction. In truth I do feel much calmer having rid them from my life. IP: Logged |
ash20
Knowflake Posts: 136
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted October 21, 2013 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
I'm Virgo Rising, and I do this. Venus in Aries pops up often in the people I do this to. I do it brutally and without remorse or shame. I view this treatment as an act of self preservation least these people drive me to distraction. In truth I do feel much calmer having rid them from my life.
It would be alot easier to get rid of us if people would just be blunt honest. Venus in aries CAN handle it... i actually prefer it. And then we will move on like you never existed and give you what you wanted.
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Regulus18
Knowflake Posts: 142
From: Washington, D.C.
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:48 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Maybe it's the same person being ignored in each thread.
Hahahaha! It's pretty ironic that this has cropped up this week. A week and a half ago I dealt with a Virgo man ignoring me. I started ignoring him and he is actually beginning to come around. Turn the tricks around on him. Maybe something is going on worldwide with Virgos...except I'm a Virgo Rising...and I don't do this to people... well...not without good reason. IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1048
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 12:59 AM
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12muddy
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posted October 22, 2013 01:43 AM
I guess you're better off without him. Find someone who's strong in fire. They're probably more direct (well, they are in my experience though lol)Is leo venus the only fire placement he's got ? The ignore game often annoys me. If you have something in mind, just say it loud and clear, geez. The last time a certain virgo moon/mars/venus tried to play this punishment trick, I left him to stew in his own juices. Then he said he needed time. Lol I told him to **** off, he could spend his time however he wanted, but I wasn't gonna waste a single second of my life on him.
* Oops, I just saw that you said it was your last post about him. Hehe sorry I didn't read the thread. Never mind my question then =D
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hannaramaa
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posted October 22, 2013 02:21 AM
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Originally posted by ash20:
It would be alot easier to get rid of us if people would just be blunt honest. Venus in aries CAN handle it... i actually prefer it. And then we will move on like you never existed and give you what you wanted.
Yeah, it seems so much easier that way. That's when I really appreciate my fellow fire signs 'cause they're like me in that manner!!! IP: Logged |
AqMoon
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 05:28 AM
I'd just stop talking to him...if he's ignoring you why would you want someone like that to be in a relationship with.Remind yourself that your a good person,try your damndest to not think about him throw yourself into your work and wait until the right person shows up.Ironically Mercury has to be Rx in Scorpio right now...stingy communication. IP: Logged |
NoRainNoRainbows
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 07:05 AM
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Originally posted by AqMoon:
I'd just stop talking to him...if he's ignoring you why would you want someone like that to be in a relationship with.Remind yourself that your a good person,try your damndest to not think about him throw yourself into your work and wait until the right person shows up.Ironically Mercury has to be Rx in Scorpio right now...stingy communication.
Exactly 
If someone cuts you out, without even bothering to tell you it's over....they simply aren't men, so go and look for someone else one who wouldn't do this to you in the first place. Actually look for someone else anyway, as such he's not talking how would u know if he wanted you...let these childish things backfire on people who do them. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 338
From: Mercury
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 08:16 AM
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Originally posted by ash20:
Well they should stop acting like little girls (not the word i want to use) and just say that.
that is probably the problem... virgo guys often act like little girls in situations like this... but I personally think (Im a virgo girl) that guys who act like this havn't got any idea about what's going on, or they just simply doesn't feel anything back so they just think it's annoying to them IP: Logged |
Zander916
Knowflake Posts: 1048
From: I visit a lot of planets, but the Sun is my home.
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 22, 2013 11:23 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
or they just simply doesn't feel anything back so they just think it's annoying to them
This.
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