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Topic: Venus/chiron flowing aspects anyone?
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 02:02 AM
  
Idk I don't mind when people talk to me their emotional problems. how they are feeling etc.however victim types always annoy me, please be nice to me because life is so hard.... wow grow a pair.
I've had some really f'ed up **** happen to me but I learn to move on.. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5839
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 02:07 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yeah, me too. I have always noticed that.
When someone is nice to the other person, they either start to walk all over them or use them.That's why I'm unsure if I should continue being the "nice guy", or start to be rather cold and less caring because it's seriously not working out or paying to be nice. But I won't want to be with the girl that liked me for not being myself. I like being myself and being nice to them. So if she doesn't like me for being a nice guy, then I guess I will stay single then. Her loss. But in actuality, my loss I guess.
Venus in Libra are usually polite, social types so it's really difficult for them to be rude and antisocial. I think it's wise to be nice to the ones who are nice and indifferent to the ones who do not appreciate your niceness.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 5839
From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 02:09 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Idk I don't mind when people talk to me their emotional problems. how they are feeling etc.however victim types always annoy me, please be nice to me because life is so hard.... wow grow a pair.
I've had some really f'ed up **** happen to me but I learn to move on..
That's probably the message of Chiron as healer you are responding to. Victim complexes are supposed to delay the healing process so Chiron is saying be tough and work through the difficulty so they can get on with their lives. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 2297
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 27, 2013 02:09 AM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
[b] Yeah, me too. I have always noticed that.
When someone is nice to the other person, they either start to walk all over them or use them.That's why I'm unsure if I should continue being the "nice guy", or start to be rather cold and less caring because it's seriously not working out or paying to be nice. But I won't want to be with the girl that liked me for not being myself. I like being myself and being nice to them. So if she doesn't like me for being a nice guy, then I guess I will stay single then. Her loss. But in actuality, my loss I guess.
Venus in Libra are usually polite, social types so it's really difficult for them to be rude and antisocial. I think it's wise to be nice to the ones who are nice and indifferent to the ones who do not appreciate your niceness. [/B][/QUOTE]Yeah, that's actually really true. I guess that's just how it has to be then. I'm not that social in school. I hardly talk to anyone and keep quiet and to myself.
I'm only like that in school and sometimes in public though for some reason. I like socializing, but I get nervous about being judged when I try to be myself. So I always have this innate sense that I have to "fake" it unless it's with my close friends. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 27, 2013 02:17 AM
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Chiron: Rainbow Bridge Between the Inner and Outer Planets:Chiron conjunct Venus is the beginning of the spiritualization of the value system and of inherent receptivity. This native is idealistic, and he or she must have relationships which bring in the spiritual dimension. Often there is a strong desire to mix sex and religion, and this native experiences an orgasmic fusion with the cosmos.
I'm just coming up to this in my life. What I've noticed so far with my Chiron conjunct Venus at an orb of 0°25' is that I see my relationships as part of my path to learning and see how my partner's and I are mirrors for each other. I also tend to always see the inner dynamics of relationships around me and I inwardly try to figure out how I would help them. Being a relationship therapist interests me. The one time I actually spoke to someone about their relationship, the person told me that I should do it for a living. In essence, I like to heal relationships through communication. Kissing is healing. Venus rules my 2nd and 7th House so most descriptions do hit on the correct headings. My conjunction occurs in the 3rd House, I notice my partners have issues regarding their mouth, curiously. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 7266
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 02:18 AM
Lol school is always awkward..Whenever I hear teens hate life because of high school I cringe because life outside thosecement walls is pretty awesome if you want it to be.
You'll have a better time in uni, no more douches calling you a faggot because you're not interested in their stupid activities  IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 2297
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 27, 2013 02:26 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Lol school is always awkward..Whenever I hear teens hate life because of high school I cringe because life outside thosecement walls is pretty awesome if you want it to be.
You'll have a better time in uni, no more douches calling you a faggot because you're not interested in their stupid activities
Yeah. Well for some reason my high school doesn't consist of too many douches at least. (unlike elementary school)
I hate the fact that I'm really interested in having a relationship because I focus most of my attention on that instead of my work. And obviously, that won't pay in the long run. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 7266
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 27, 2013 02:38 AM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
I'm just coming up to this in my life. What I've noticed so far with my Chiron conjunct Venus at an orb of 0°25' is that I see my relationships as part of my path to learning and see how my partner's and I are mirrors for each other. I also tend to always see the inner dynamics of relationships around me and I inwardly try to figure out how I would help them. Being a relationship therapist interests me. The one time I actually spoke to someone about their relationship, the person told me that I should do it for a living. In essence, I like to heal relationships through communication. Kissing is healing. Venus rules my 2nd and 7th House so most descriptions do hit on the correct headings. My conjunction occurs in the 3rd House, I notice my partners have issues regarding their mouth, curiously.
I like it, interesting enough your venus is in Gemini so healing relationships through communication is on point!
I always felt like Gemini more so than scorpio would be a more proficient therapist. Mainly because gemini rules communication while Scorpio can get to the bottom of things gems have an easier time getting others to open up to them with out manipulation tactics. Relationship therapist sounds appropriate for venus in gem, with chiron I would imagine its easier resolving the pain with communication.
I've always felt Venus has a special affinity in Gemini because communication IS everything in love and relationships with out it the relationship will always have misunderstandings that cause tragedy. I'm quite similar to you.
Venus in gemini 1st sextile chiron in Leo 3rd. I don't do this is partnerships but in general I like giving makeovers of sorts, not always aesthetics, bringing out peoples winning qualities which is leonine in nature.
when I see someone with a broken spirit or severe lack of confidence... it gets to Chiron Leo.
1st house is personality and 3rd house communication. interesting About Chiron in the 3rd house healing others through communication, my S.O has mercury in pisces retrograde 3rd house with sun and saturn. literally mute around strangers very reserved, though that does not stop people from starting conversations but I'm always the mediator and diplomat in these conversations with OUTSIDERS lol. Maybe that's just because I'm protective too..
I definitely encourage communication with strangers, while I understand some people are introverted open communication makes a world of difference, like networking for example.
perhaps that's my gemini talking lol. IP: Logged |
LionFish
Knowflake Posts: 940
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 28, 2013 06:48 AM
I've got Chiron sextile Venus almost exact and I relate to your original post. Putting myself on the altar of love *sigh* Every damn time. But I'm getting better about this!It's even harder though because my Chiron/Venus sextile comes to apex at my Pluto, forming a YOD. So relationships have a tendency to transform me. And so far, every one I've been in has done just that. Drastic changes that everyone in my life notices. IP: Logged |
DialecticLady
Knowflake Posts: 313
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Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 28, 2013 07:29 AM
Hey you all,I have an square between Venus and Chiron (4º apart) and I don't know if I feel this more because of my almost exact square between my venus and NN (conjunct chiron by 4º too). It's very difficult to me because my venus is in my 8th house and chiron in my 5th house. I see this aspect like: casual sex vs merging/deep sex commitment or be funny/casual person vs deep/serious person, and yeah, I can be the two, but not at the same time what bothers me because there is a feeling that something is always missing when I must to choose one or another. To me it's the worst aspect in my chart. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Knowflake Posts: 6948
From:
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted November 28, 2013 10:53 AM
Well...
I can relate to lots of things you people talked about aaaand I have no Venus/Chiron aspects. So you're all WRONG.
Joking.
I have Chiron square DSC.
((( hugs ))) to everyone.
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