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Topic: How does one attract a Mars in Scorpio (man)?
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Odette
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posted November 28, 2013 11:47 PM
  
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if your desire is "not to screw things up" then WHY would you play games?
LoL.. Because "you" have the emotional IQ of a 5 year old. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 29, 2013 12:01 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Be mysterious, give them something to dig their filthy, sexy claws into. But be honest with yourself or they will sting and no one likes scorpio poison.
What is all this stinging people talk about? If Scorpio is already playing mind games with you, how much different could their sting really be? I've known two MiS that I can remember off the top of my head. They were lurkers. Nothing gallant and outspoken....shy observers at most. These are guys in their 20s though. I'm sure men of different ages approach on different levels. IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted November 29, 2013 12:38 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
LoL.. Because "you" have the emotional IQ of a 5 year old.
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PeterPan
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posted November 29, 2013 02:30 AM
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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
But if your desire is "not to screw things up" then WHY would you play games? That makes no sense lol. One of the last guys I really liked was Scorpio Mars, Venus Aquarius. He pursued me intensely, then once I returned true interest, he started playing games & he wanted to appear cool & indifferent. I thought for sure that was his Aquarius side doing that!! But you say it's the Scorpio side pulling that stunt? In the end, he lost me. I love intellectual/spiritual connections - but I totally HATE mind games.
Edit: Odette great feedback! As usual.
Why do you think anyone conciously plays games in the first place? because they want to attract someone and are not completly confident in their ability to attract someone "just beiung themselves" so they feel like the chances of getting who they want are higher if you play mind games. also about your aqua scorpio guy yeah probably, air signs somtimes play alittle mind games but they don't even come clos to scorpios, well maybe gemini but still a far way to go as they are more carfree. IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted November 29, 2013 03:23 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:Whatever you do - do not play any games. Your vibe should be - classy, serious and confident.
Ooooh, yessssss. I wholeheartedly agree!!!
Oh, he just turned fifty, btw. Maybe it's the Capricorn influence in my fifth house, but my next partnership will be with someone 5-15 years older than me. I turned forty in October, and I'm looking for a MATURE love. IP: Logged |
SunMoonStars
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posted November 29, 2013 04:19 AM
Mars in a man is not so much about what type of women they want but how they go after what they want...Enduring, intense focus, obsessive at times. Men with Scorpio Mars can have whatever personal planets that make up what he desires in his partner. When they recognize that in somebody, then the Mars sign is switched on. And it also applies to material and immaterial things they desire, not just people. So it is not possible to answer your question, because first there has to be the attraction which does not depend on the Mars sign (of heterosexual males). IP: Logged |
LovelyAries86
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posted November 29, 2013 04:23 AM
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Originally posted by PeterPan:
Why do you think anyone conciously plays games in the first place? because they want to attract someone and are not completly confident in their ability to attract someone "just beiung themselves" so they feel like the chances of getting who they want are higher if you play mind games.
I'm Cap Mars. The best way to attract me is by being your TRUE authentic self. That turns me on - someone who is comfortable in their own skin. So I encourage you, and all Scorpio Mars folks, to never run from who you are. At the end of the day...don't you want someone who loves you for being you? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted November 29, 2013 04:28 AM
Easy have an aries mars who THEY think can keep up with them..
Honestly they can't keep up with me but I can easily accommodate but the ones I know act so cocky so I don't really want to 
I'm not even talking about sex just our interactions in general.to answer your question.
Do things for them... service them.
When they sit on their ass gazing intensely from a distance.. at absolutely nothing.
Which they do most of the time..even better, bring a harem.
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Odette
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posted November 29, 2013 05:07 AM
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Oh, he just turned fifty, btw. Maybe it's the Capricorn influence in my fifth house, but my next partnership will be with someone 5-15 years older than me. I turned forty in October, and I'm looking for a MATURE love.
Well a Scorpio Mars man with a Capricorn Moon - at 50 years of age... will not play games. You can be 100% on that.
I'll renounce astrology if he plays any games LOL IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 29, 2013 05:08 AM
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to answer your question.
Do things of them... service them,
When they sit on their ass gazing intensely from a distance.. at absolutely nothing.
Which they do most of the time..even better, bring a harem.
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LionFish
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posted November 29, 2013 06:00 AM
My Mars in Scorp fiance was smitten with me when he met me and he let me know it that night  Doting on me, following me around (not in a pathetic way, just trying to be involved in what I was doing), trying to impress me and one-up the other guy who was there trying to get my attention. The other guy failed miserably  I was very direct and blunt. Just myself. I flirt a lot and he was receptive to it, so I just went with it. I wasn't ALWAYS available and wasn't super snoopy in his business, which made him want to hang out and want to open up. I love how that works  Having depth and stamina, my MiS loves that I can keep up with him through anything and I do mean anything  lol But really, he's even commented on that before. That he likes being with somebody who can match his pace in life, which more often than not is just set to "GO!" Also, crawling across the floor to him on my hands and knees might have helped... Power trip and all
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starr33
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posted November 29, 2013 06:07 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Well a Scorpio Mars man with a Capricorn Moon - at 50 years of age... will not play games. You can be 100% on that.
I'll renounce astrology if he plays any games LOL
You just made my night. Okay, morning.
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Liliya
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posted November 29, 2013 06:09 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Be mysterious, give them something to dig their filthy, sexy claws into. But be honest with yourself or they will sting and no one likes scorpio poison.
You are mysterious or you are not Scorpios, like no other, will sense if person is fake. IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted November 29, 2013 06:11 AM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
My Mars in Scorp fiance was smitten with me when he met me and he let me know it that night Doting on me, following me around (not in a pathetic way, just trying to be involved in what I was doing), trying to impress me and one-up the other guy who was there trying to get my attention. The other guy failed miserably I was very direct and blunt. Just myself. I flirt a lot and he was receptive to it, so I just went with it. I wasn't ALWAYS available and wasn't super snoopy in his business, which made him want to hang out and want to open up. I love how that works Having depth and stamina, my MiS loves that I can keep up with him through anything and I do mean anything lol But really, he's even commented on that before. That he likes being with somebody who can match his pace in life, which more often than not is just set to "GO!" Also, crawling across the floor to him on my hands and knees might have helped... Power trip and all
Ooooh,Lol. What are his Moon and Venus placements?
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LionFish
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posted November 29, 2013 06:13 AM
He's a Virgo Moon, Aqua Venus.. An Earth/Air combo like your guy if I'm not mistaken.IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted November 29, 2013 06:32 AM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
He's a Virgo Moon, Aqua Venus.. An Earth/Air combo like your guy if I'm not mistaken.
Well, he's not my guy, yet. This may take a while.
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starr33
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posted November 29, 2013 09:37 AM
What would be the meaning of his Mars in Scorpio with my Mercury in Scorpio? IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted November 29, 2013 09:45 AM
Libra - Capricorn Male:Strong motivation and concern for self mark this man. His needs come first and if that doesn't suit you, well... that is just tough. ...He is going to expect a superwoman. He is highly impressed by hardworking, beautiful, domesticated women. Life, afterall, is a marketplace. He is trading his considerable earning power for a mate. ...He wants romance and mush. He wants it to come from you. He has no plans to give it to you. That would embarrass him. He believes in good old fashioned things like hard work and tradition. It is vital for you to believe in these same things also. IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted November 29, 2013 11:16 AM
Yeah, my Moon is in Cancer (Western), so that sounds about right. Me being the Nurturer. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 29, 2013 06:06 PM
My ex of two years is a Libra/Cap Moon and Libra Venus - but Virgo Mars. I have other friends and exes with Scorpio Mars. And I know multiple Libras with Scorpio Venus and/or Mercury - so I'm very familiar with this energy.I'm the opposite - Aries with Cap Moon.
My ex was NEVER self-centred OMG
He is the least self-centred person in the world. I was the self-centred one if anything.
Libra is a social sign and Capricorn is transpersonal so they are very focused on other people and very polite and kind. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 29, 2013 06:08 PM
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He has no plans to give it to you. That would embarrass him.
I think that comes from the misconception that Capricorn Moon is cold. My own Moon is in Cappy - and emotions don't embarrass me. My Libra ex with Cap Moon was very open about his emotions.
It depends on the synastry.
Capricorn Moon plays for keeps. If they feel like the other person is not as serious about them - then they can become cold. quote:
domesticated
umm naw..
Libra men are the most feminist. Not into domestication LOL
That's why they like me (Aries) - because I am not domesticated.
Taurus/Cancer influenced men are the sexist ones in my experience. Also - Scorpio Mars men likewise respect strong women who know what they are doing in their career and in life in general.
My exalted Sun and Mars can be scary to some men.. but not to Libra/Scorpio influenced men. They can handle me...Many others can't. So I know first hand that they are not sexist. IP: Logged |
Padre35
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posted November 29, 2013 06:17 PM
[QOUTE]to answer your question.
Do things of them... service them,
When they sit on their ass gazing intensely from a distance.. at absolutely nothing.
Which they do most of the time..even better, bring a harem.[/QUOTE]That is soo true, have this placement and when I like someone in a romantic way, I make completely obvious...as in point blank obvious. If they mentioned they were dating other people it would be stomp the brakes time..ain't no one have time for it least of all me. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted November 29, 2013 08:19 PM
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I think that comes from the misconception that Capricorn Moon is cold. My own Moon is in Cappy - and emotions don't embarrass me. My Libra ex with Cap Moon was very open about his emotions.
It depends on the synastry.
Capricorn Moon plays for keeps. If they feel like the other person is not as serious about them - then they can become cold.
I think the implication there was that he'd prefer you show your hand first. Capricorn energy is socially polite, and they will remain this way even as they steal your lover and go after your promotion because they think they're more deserving. This is why they have a reputation for being cold. Capricorn is a very ruthless sign. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 29, 2013 09:10 PM
Maybe you personally have issues with Capricorn Moon.
It really depends.
Some people I love - Some people I'm neutral towards.
I can't be the same towards everyone.
If I do *love* I show it! And so did my Libra ex!And honestly - when I read 'ruthless' I think 'lack of moral backbone' or 'lack of integrity' -- and then I think - *Negative Jupiter placement*.
A Capricorn influenced person with moral standards - can be ambitious without being ruthless. IP: Logged |
starr33
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posted November 29, 2013 10:08 PM
You go, Odette. I appreciate your support! In Vedic astrology Jupiter is said to be the significator of a woman's husband. Have you or anyone else found this to have merit? IP: Logged |
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