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Topic: Does 12th house synastry ever work out?
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 282 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted November 30, 2013 06:59 AM
In my experience, beautifully sad. His Venus/Neptune aspect in my 12th which his Venus conjunct my Jupiter in the 12th. He let me go, saying he was bad for me, which was true and probably felt guilty, but I felt I could love unconditionally despite him being a poison to me. I also felt it could easily turn into an abusive relationship, from his part, and he probably sensed the same and had to let go incase he did hurt me, we both saw the storm infront of us, and we ran. So its definately a karmic house. It was too passionate from heart and soul, we also have Scorpio ascendant in our composite. When he let go, or more like drifted away I was deeply wounded on a soul level, and still to this day I kind of long to be with him and feel hurt feelings with my longing, I'm most likely deluding myself to want to be with him because I know he's dangerous to me, but it is a love I cannot explain. I'm not sure if he deceived me, I will never know the answer. I also don't know if he still longs for me too, I would like to hope so, I'd like to know if he feels the deep bonding that I did. This is a house of secrecy and unknown things that are hard to define. IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 168 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 30, 2013 11:23 PM
QUOTE]Originally posted by NeptunianSag: In my experience, beautifully sad. His Venus/Neptune aspect in my 12th which his Venus conjunct my Jupiter in the 12th. He let me go, saying he was bad for me, which was true and probably felt guilty, but I felt I could love unconditionally despite him being a poison to me. I also felt it could easily turn into an abusive relationship, from his part, and he probably sensed the same and had to let go incase he did hurt me, we both saw the storm infront of us, and we ran. So its definately a karmic house. It was too passionate from heart and soul, we also have Scorpio ascendant in our composite. When he let go, or more like drifted away I was deeply wounded on a soul level, and still to this day I kind of long to be with him and feel hurt feelings with my longing, I'm most likely deluding myself to want to be with him because I know he's dangerous to me, but it is a love I cannot explain. I'm not sure if he deceived me, I will never know the answer. I also don't know if he still longs for me too, I would like to hope so, I'd like to know if he feels the deep bonding that I did. This is a house of secrecy and unknown things that are hard to define. [/QUOTE](((HUGS))). Your story is bittersweet. Just so you know this is my second time around with Sun/Mars in the 12th. The first time was 22 years ago when he was 21 & I was 18. When he broke it off, I was the aftermath of the London Blitzkrieg. We both went on with our lives & I moved far, far away as always (Sun/Uranus). Fast forward 19 years later, he offered me a an ear to bend when I was going through a divorce (believe me that marriage was dust). He probably contacted me out of curiousity and exes do that intermittently. I went to visit him him 4 years ago & we have been together since. He is the reason I started looking into astrology more in depth. 12th house is the house of unfinished business. I just wanted to share with you my story. I totally get the devastation. I feel for you ------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
Emily033 Knowflake Posts: 36 From: marysville, ca Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 01, 2013 08:48 PM
I don't like anyone in my 12th houseIP: Logged |
swampys Knowflake Posts: 588 From: St. Louis, Missouri, USA Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 01, 2013 08:56 PM
I had one, it's off and on, and I still love and admire that person, but I won't be doing that with anyone else ever again. Why? Because for my personal situation (I have nothing to compare it to) it too often felt emotionally abusive. There's so much manipulation and passive-aggressiveness. IP: Logged | |