posted December 08, 2013 01:13 PM            

Chances are, faithful Libra men exists, yet something in the OP keeps attracting the unfaithful/unhealthy ones.

posted December 08, 2013 01:20 PM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Many times when someone says that they have or haven't met Sun signs that are of certain patterns, they might want to wonder why they are attracted people that fits those patterns.

Chances are, faithful Libra men exists, yet something in the OP keeps attracting the unfaithful/unhealthy ones.

We often might not realize why we keep attracting people of similar patterns, but the answer is often within ourselves.

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I know why I always attract libras, I have a scorpio venus in 5th house, and my 5th house is ruled by venus(libra)
And I also have a juno in libra so I actually feel attracted to those prince-charming types with good manners and social intelligent…

posted December 08, 2013 03:34 PM              

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Many times when someone says that they have or haven't met Sun signs that are of certain patterns, they might want to wonder why they are attracted people that fits those patterns.

Chances are, faithful Libra men exists, yet something in the OP keeps attracting the unfaithful/unhealthy ones.

We often might not realize why we keep attracting people of similar patterns, but the answer is often within ourselves.

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Totally agree! I noticed a pattern with me, so I said, "Well it has to be me!". So I've been single for a long time but it's in hopes to change this pattern.

The Libra who was not unfaithful, yet did something shady. It's like this.

On her Facebook, this guy from the UK started really talking her up. (Beautiful, baby, sexy, etc etc.)
She never really even mentioned me. (she wasn't hiding this conversations. I was home)
I said something, but she just played it off. Then he offered her plane tickets to come see him. Again, she just kind of said, "Maybe, I'll think about it." It disturbed me. I was like, "what's there to think about?" She said, "nothing. I'm not going to." So I told her to just tell him that, it'll be much easier. She didn't.

Weeks or months later we broke up for completely different reasons. We didn't talk for a while. A couple months later I learned that she had gone over to see him after we broke up. Eventually they got married. (now divorced because he turned out to be just a big @zzhole)
It just kind of rubbed me wrong because it all started while still together and no clue our relationship would be ending in the next few months. Just a bitter taste in my mouth.

posted December 08, 2013 07:45 PM              

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
The ones with Venus in Virgo can be extremely chaste.

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Yeah what's up with that? I've been trying to date a Libra-Virgo cusp with Libra Venus/Moon and Mars in Virgo but from what I can tell he mostly stays too busy with work to really be serious with anyone (working 60+ hours a week by choice, why???) and it's not like he's a virgin or anything but I can definitely see the whole Virgo guilt thing going on... Although I've read Virgo mars or venus can also secretly be freaks lol

posted December 08, 2013 07:47 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Yeah what's up with that? I've been trying to date a Libra-Virgo cusp with Libra Venus/Moon and Mars in Virgo but from what I can tell he mostly stays too busy with work to really be serious with anyone (working 60+ hours a week by choice, why???) and it's not like he's a virgin or anything but I can definitely see the whole Virgo guilt thing going on... Although I've read Virgo mars or venus can also secretly be freaks lol

As for libra guys in general, I don't know enough to comment on whether or not they're usually faithful, but I could see them being the type to always want to "keep their options open" without knowing when to really commit... I'm a 7th house sun and admit I can sometimes have this tendency too unfortunately lol

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posted December 08, 2013 08:00 PM              

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Sounds like a workaholic. He likes to be at work. Maybe he has anxiety about not being there? He doesn't want to miss anything? Plus he gets paid more, doesn't he? That can be a strong incentive to work longer hours.

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He does get paid more but it's at a job he doesn't really care about and doesn't pay well to begin with. He has a degree but isn't using it... I can sometimes be a workaholic too but the difference I've noticed between Virgos and Caps is Virgos will work a lot just for the sake of it and to stay busy/rack up the hours, whereas the only time I'd kill myself working overtime like that is to get a promotion, or find my niche in a "career" and make salary so I can work less and earn more money lol

posted December 08, 2013 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
He does get paid more but it's at a job he doesn't really care about and doesn't pay well to begin with. He has a degree but isn't using it... I can sometimes be a workaholic too but the difference I've noticed between Virgos and Caps is Virgos will work a lot just for the sake of it and to stay busy/rack up the hours, whereas the only time I'd kill myself working overtime like that is to get a promotion, or find my niche in a "career" and make salary so I can work less and earn more money lol

But I get the whole anxiety thing... Just wish he wasn't always so busy lol

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posted December 08, 2013 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
He does get paid more but it's at a job he doesn't really care about and doesn't pay well to begin with. He has a degree but isn't using it... I can sometimes be a workaholic too but the difference I've noticed between Virgos and Caps is Virgos will work a lot just for the sake of it and to stay busy/rack up the hours, whereas the only time I'd kill myself working overtime like that is to get a promotion, or find my niche in a "career" and make salary so I can work less and earn more money lol

But I get the whole anxiety thing... Just wish he wasn't always so busy lol

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posted December 08, 2013 09:30 PM              

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Yeah that makes sense!

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Originally posted by summerlite:
what's his MC?

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I unfortunately don't know his time of birth.. I guess he's just never known and isn't really close with his parents like that (I'm sure he could find out but we're still getting to know each other and I don't want to pry lol) I do know he's a Libra moon though cause the moon didn't change signs that day. I'm terrible at guessing peoples ASC but I wish I knew cause our composite is really intense/concentrated and knowing the houses would make a big difference..

Anyway sorry for getting off topic next to Neptune!

posted December 09, 2013 04:13 AM            

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Originally posted by StrandedSaturn:
The truth is relationships are set up to fail. Anyones relationiship. You shouldn't let these unfaithful people ruin your view of thousands of people who are also Libras.

In my opinion, you should examine why this happens to you this much.

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posted December 09, 2013 06:41 AM            

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Originally posted by AriesLilith:
Many times when someone says that they have or haven't met Sun signs that are of certain patterns, they might want to wonder why they are attracted people that fits those patterns.

Chances are, faithful Libra men exists, yet something in the OP keeps attracting the unfaithful/unhealthy ones.

We often might not realize why we keep attracting people of similar patterns, but the answer is often within ourselves.

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I think a bit unfaithful is when you might talk and write together with someone else while in a relationship (from the opposite sex) or maybe have a one-night stand, but other than that is completely loyal to your partner at the same time

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What! a one night stand qualifies as a bit unfaithful? Man do I feel like relationship standards and what is considered 'normal' has dropped so far these days. "Yeah he'll have a one night stand or two while he's with you, but as long as he comes back and feels bad, just accept it and move on, at least he isn't cheating on you all the time, that's the best you can hope for."

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Yeah not friends, but someone he used to see or his ex, or someone he is going to bang

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If he is planning on 'banging' someone, and I assume you mean not shooting with a gun, then there are bigger problems in the relationship, right?

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
Libra men I think they just need company. They hate being alone for a second. I do not think it is wrong. I just do not know where there needing company ends and what morals they have ?

I am not sure what loyalty might be in their minds? Libra men lie, argue and get away by their charm. (not all but some cheat or are on constantly look out for appreciation of beauty, flirting or intimacy.) I guess it is matter of what do you consider ok and not ok for somebody to do ?

I was lied by ex and wasn't made clear he had wife and son. That was breaking point for me despite me being ok with him meeting on regular basis various girls for coffee, kissing on cheeks with some women who came home. At the same time being paranoid about me talking to anyone including my family members or making new friends. He has Scorpio Asc

Most of the time they are in relationship but they are always looking outside...
I have wife/ girlfriend but errr....

I am Scorpio Sun with Libra Venus. I have learnt enough to see through such types though.

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I'm getting the general theme, that all Libra men are liars, cheaters, and shameless flirts. Maybe they all need to be rounded up so society is safe from them.

I'm also seeing a general pattern of people having a bad experience or two and then type casting all Libras.

If even talking to someone else is considered a little bit unfaithful, then I think people will be shocked and unhappy in every relationship they're in. Do you expect your partners to never say hello or how are you to a co-worker, or a friend of the opposite gender? Would that be considered a bit unfaithful? Because that is the hyperbolic impression I am getting here.

How about someone posts about what is okay for Libra men to do, and what they wouldn't consider unfaithful?

posted December 09, 2013 09:33 AM            

Whenever we weren't in the same city, we had an open relationship. One time, we were in the same place, but he wanted an open relationship while I didn't. He got to thinking too hard about how to reconcile both being in love with me and attraction to other girls. It troubled him, and so he deliberated and deliberated and deliberated and thought it'd be best to open the relationship. I was NOT happy about this, but I made the best of the situation and slept with other people. Four months later he finds out that I've been with other people, and freaks out. He hasn't touched another girl this whole time! He opened the relationship but was too paralyzed by indecision to even act on it! We got back together for real and didn't try that open-in-the-same-place thing again.

posted December 09, 2013 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Nobody would want to be tied down with a person they don't truly want. Settling for less is bad.

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Bingo! That there pretty much is the answer to the mystery of a Libra man's "prowling" eyes. I hate calling this trait as being "unfaithful." Far from it! Once we Libras commit, its usually a life long promise. But we only commit once we have TRULY found our better half; The one who we need to complete us.

Don't take this aspect as a one sided deal ladies; You are entitled to walk away from a relationship as well if you think that a Libra man isn't fulfilling your needs. And trust us when we say that we will completely understand if you think that we aren't the ones for you. Breakups are bad, but what a Libra man hates more than breaking up is being a hindrance for their partner. We are supposed to be your needed half and if we aren't fulfilling all that you desire in a partner then we will walk away ourselves; Nothing pains us more than being a useless lump of coal for a relationship partner.

However, do realize that we expect the same from you. I can't stress enough to the fact that I walked away from quite a few relationships in my youth simply because my partners refused to explore their full potentials. Ladies! We expect you to reach your fulfilling goals in life! We expect you to be Wonder Women! We expect you to be the Amazon Queens! We expect you to be the best that you can be! And if you so choose to do that for yourselves, you can sure bet that we will fulfill your every dream (right down to the girlish ones you can conjure up in your heads .)

Don't limit yourselves to some self appointed homemaker roles (We aren't some momma's boy Cancers or some lame hum drum Capricorns Lol!) We Libras see great potential in you and we are left disappointed when you don't realize those potential in yourselves. Hence why we walk away... And get the unfair label of being "flightly" and "unfaithful."

posted December 09, 2013 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
Libras have this mentality that there's nothing wrong with what they do like flirting. If you bring it up as a problem troubling u, then this blaming thing comes up "I don't see anything wrong. Maybe the problem lies with you".

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posted December 09, 2013 11:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:

My main point is: the Sun has hardly any influence and to say that ALL Libra men are unfaithful is like to say all men are the same. They are not. The angles, the houses, the planetary aspects and many other important points can tell if a person is prone or not to infidelity.

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posted December 09, 2013 11:57 AM            

One time I tried to curl her hair for her and tried to make her up because I thought she would be really cute and she got really angry at me for just curling her hair. All the typical girly type stuff she had this phobia about. I even told I thought she would look great, just try the look. She wasn't convinced so I gave up.

The Scorpio Venus Libra was also impaired when it came to a sense of fashion but he dated a lot of women at the same time and liked parties and going to conventions. He is way more social than Venus in Virgo Libra but he has personality issues people dislike.

posted December 09, 2013 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Rosalind, I have known Libras with Venus in Scorpio and Virgo. The one I knew with Venus in Virgo had virtually no social life, never dated, was only interested in science and the military. She was somewhat gothic but had a huge aversion to makeup, nail polish, dresses, skirts. A strange dichotomy. Although she loved the gothic sub culture, she preferred being in the military and pretty much wearing their government issued clothing and is very plain in her manner of dressing.

One time I tried to curl her hair for her and tried to make her up because I thought she would be really cute and she got really angry at me for just curling her hair. All the typical girly type stuff she had this phobia about. I even told I thought she would look great, just try the look. She wasn't convinced so I gave up.

The Scorpio Venus Libra was also impaired when it came to a sense of fashion but he dated a lot of women at the same time and liked parties and going to conventions. He is way more social than Venus in Virgo Libra but he has personality issues people dislike.

It's interesting when Venus is debilitated.

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posted December 09, 2013 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:

My Venus is debilitated too but that doesn't mean I don't want the best.

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One time, the Venus in Virgo Libra wrote to me and told me her mother saw me at the mall and I did wear makeup at the time even though I am pretty much allergic to it and she told me her mother called me a derogatory name in the letter because of the makeup so maybe that has something to her aversion? Her mother seems to hate it.

posted December 09, 2013 02:53 PM              

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Originally posted by Xodian:
[B] Bingo! That there pretty much is the answer to the mystery of a Libra man's "prowling" eyes. I hate calling this trait as being "unfaithful." Far from it! Once we Libras commit, its usually a life long promise. But we only commit once we have TRULY found our better half; The one who we need to complete us.[B]

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Hmm yeah air signs in general don’t seem to have the best reputation for fidelity, but I don’t have much experience with libra so it’s interesting.. I’m an Aqua venus, and we seem to be searching for that illusive “soulmate” as well and won’t settle for less, but the difference I think is we’ll take and see people as they are right now, imperfections and all... because that’s part of what makes us human and what makes us individuals... Regardless of overall potential, the romantic connection is either there or it’s not, and if we really really fall for someone, we're not thinking about whether the grass might be greener somewhere else

Libra is the sign of the scales, so they want harmony of course but are also always weighing the pros and cons of every situation, looking for things that could improve.. So with the whole prowling eyes thing, they could be in love with someone but still notice well this other person has what their s.o. “lacks” or could offer what their current relationship doesn’t provide in some way... and if something “better” overall comes along they might cheat or just leave... Only to realize down the line that person and relationship is gonna have problems too just in different ways (much like DeepFreeze’s story...) Again, I’m a 7th house sun so I’m not hating on Libras lol

I’m curious Xodian, if you don’t mind sharing what’s your moon, venus, and mars signs?