posted December 09, 2013 06:01 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Regardless of overall potential, the romantic connection is either there or it’s not, and if we really really fall for someone, we're not thinking about whether the grass might be greener somewhere else

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This I agree with.

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Libra is the sign of the scales, so they want harmony of course but are also always weighing the pros and cons of every situation, looking for things that could improve.. So with the whole prowling eyes thing, they could be in love with someone but still notice well this other person has what their s.o. “lacks” or could offer what their current relationship doesn’t provide in some way... and if something “better” overall comes along they might cheat or just leave...

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This I disagree to an extent. I do acknowledge that the possibility exists for a Libra to find someone better to be with but rest assured, they will NOT move on until they are absolutely certain that their current relationship isn't offering that the MAXIMUM possible benefit from being in a partnership. Why would one want to be in a partnership in the first place if one can easily get the same results by being single? A partnership exists so that both parties can mutually gain something in return for their union (love, affection, ability to improve one own self from the other, etc.)

HOWEVER, no Libra EVER takes this course of action lightly. No, we are not cold hearted ******** as is evident with the fact that we tend to stay in touch with a lot of our exes (and yes its purely on a platonic basis.)

I tend to use this video as a perfect illustration of what I am talking about .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JvxHPtEsmFc

I also hope that people don't take a Libra's tendency for being social and making friends as "flirty" behavior . Comeon now... A romantic relationship is just that... A romantic relationship; We have given you our heart but that doesn't means that we don't reserve the right to improve ourselves and we can only do that by surrounding ourselves with the right people with the right personality traits. Rest assured though, relationships with them will only exist on a platonic basis; We form bonds with other people to gain valuable insight from them for self improvement and personal development; And yes we might lightly joke around and laugh with them but that is hardly being a "flirt" .

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I’m curious Xodian, if you don’t mind sharing what’s your moon, venus, and mars signs?

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I don't mind whatsoever .

posted December 09, 2013 08:11 PM              

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Originally posted by summerlite:
see what i mean about Libras finding excuses.

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I don't see anyone making any excuses for anybody. It's all the truth and even if it weren't why the hell does it matter.....there are millions of Libras out there we're all not the same ya know lmfao just like every other sign.

posted December 09, 2013 08:17 PM              

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Libras

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posted December 09, 2013 09:21 PM              

Also, thanks for sharing your placements. I’m a Sag moon so I totally understand the bad reputation thing

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Libran people are flirtatious by nature if you can't handle it then you should just never get in a relationship with one, it's that simple. I'm still very good friends with quite a few exes of mine just because I don't like having or leaving hard feelings with anyone

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Ok I have a question for you or Xodian or whoever lol... you say you’re flirtatious and won’t date someone who cant handle it, but do you tolerate the same from your partner? As an aqua venus I have no problem with someone being friends with their exes, as long as the feelings really are in the past (which I think can vary depending on the situation but that’s an entirely different topic lol) and generally I’m not threatened by someone being flirty with others as long as there are boundaries of course, but if that’s the way it’s gonna be I expect the same freedom in return... And the impression I get is Libras might just smile and not say anything about it but also not really appreciate the same thing going on from their partner.. Again not trying to generalize, just genuinely curious since I really like this Libra guy but don’t entirely understand him at this point lol

posted December 09, 2013 09:30 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
I have a question for you or Xodian or whoever lol... you say you’re flirtatious and won’t date someone who cant handle it, but do you tolerate the same from your partner? As an aqua venus I have no problem with someone being friends with their exes, as long as the feelings really are in the past (which I think can vary depending on the situation but that’s an entirely different topic lol) and generally I’m not threatened by someone being flirty with others as long as there are boundaries of course, but if that’s the way it’s gonna be I expect the same freedom in return... And the impression I get is Libras might just smile and not say anything about it but also not really appreciate the same thing going on from their partner.. Again not trying to generalize, just genuinely curious since I really like this Libra guy but don’t entirely understand him at this point lol

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I don't have double standards for others and I'd think most Librans would be repelled by the idea of double standards. Generally speaking, if Libra does it then Libra should be fine with you doing it, too...just be sure it doesn't exceed what Libra does simply because you failed to get a reaction when you went as far as Libra did.

And btw, I don't flirt. I generally don't care when my partner does, however (within reason).

posted December 09, 2013 09:33 PM              

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
@Xodian, thanks for your response. I agree what you’re describing is probably a mature, evolved Libran view of relationships... It’s just hard for me to wrap my mind around how one measures the “maximum possible benefit” since every person and relationship is different.. It’s all give and take yes, but no relationship is perfect and it’s almost impossible to find someone who has *everything* going for them all at once so I’m just saying I think that’s where Libras maybe get a bit of this reputation from, but of course it’s not always the case!

Also, thanks for sharing your placements. I’m a Sag moon so I totally understand the bad reputation thing

Ok I have a question for you or Xodian or whoever lol... you say you’re flirtatious and won’t date someone who cant handle it, but do you tolerate the same from your partner? As an aqua venus I have no problem with someone being friends with their exes, as long as the feelings really are in the past (which I think can vary depending on the situation but that’s an entirely different topic lol) and generally I’m not threatened by someone being flirty with others as long as there are boundaries of course, but if that’s the way it’s gonna be I expect the same freedom in return... And the impression I get is Libras might just smile and not say anything about it but also not really appreciate the same thing going on from their partner.. Again not trying to generalize, just genuinely curious since I really like this Libra guy but don’t entirely understand him at this point lol

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posted December 09, 2013 10:02 PM              

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Honestly it would and does draw me more into the person. I love self confidence and don't see anything wrong with it. I think it's extremely attractive. I don't really see what's wrong with talking and being nice to others, which in return is called 'flirting'(I don't think so ) I'm not a jealous person at all and am not bothered at all by it, at the end of the day the guy is with me for a reason lol I don't live my life through double standards.

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Well personally I think there's a difference between "talking and being nice" and flirting... But I get what you're saying thanks!

edit: I realize you were probably joking but just saying yeah I guess maybe libras really do just make that distinction differently lol

posted November 03, 2014 08:47 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Bump this thread
just trying to find fault in my Libra, wonder when he will cheats... lol

anyone here have any experienced with an unfaithful Libra, please continue to share in the thread.

There a saying in my culture: "Out of 10 men out there, 9 already cheated/or is cheating. The 1 remaining left is THINKING of cheating" ---- lol so true...

This I agree, I think all Libra (men or women) are from decent to good looking. My Libra is good looking too. He tall, nice smile and go to the gym often, so he stay in shape.

This is a disadvantage for those that date Libra men. There also a saying in my culture: When men that are too handsome, they are NOT solely your husband, they are other girls husband too. -- lol, might be true

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Yeah, if you want to be with a libra, you gotta accept that a bunch of girls will constantly try to get him (if he is a charming and handsome libra ofc) and you're right - most libra men are handsome!

My boyfriend has his ascendant square venus (sign of someone attractive) as long as sun conjunction venus (in libra, the sign of being a charmer) lol... and his sun, mercury and venus is in 5th house, so he got his 5th house full. (the house of romance lol). On top of it all, he got venus square uranus and his uranus and neptune is in his 7th house. So he could be potential delusional, but in reality he needs something very special and not conventional....

Thats a lot of pressure on me!
But want to add, that I feel lucky that my guy doens thave any connections between moon-venus, venus-mars or venus-jupiter. Those are especially signs of someone who charms the ladies, but also have many relationships. My guy doesnt have that, and in general he is not flirting with others...

posted November 03, 2014 09:43 AM            

Well, I don't know about you NTN, but me and my Libra have married in August

posted November 03, 2014 10:30 AM            

Unlike a lot of men, my dad loved the company of women, enjoyed their conversations, always had nice things to say (god I miss him.)

posted November 03, 2014 10:30 AM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Might talk and write together? What does THAT mean? And what does that have to do with loyalty or fidelity?

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That is what I was thinking...

Aside from this Libras are pretty faithful in my experience.

I do know a libra with mars aspecting harshly jupiter, his sun and saturn who has hx of cheating; its like he needs the constant validation and his self esteem as a man depends on this image he has of what a man should be like.

He has mars in cancer and venus in scorpio.

posted November 03, 2014 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Not all of them are cheaters but they do take a very long time before they fully commit, probably the longest of any sign (generally speaking).

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hahaha

Yeah they can be indecisive but once they commit they are usually great at the commitment thing unless they have other contributors in the their chart that indicate they need to prove their masculinity by always chasing women that are out of their league like an afflicted mars.

posted November 03, 2014 12:40 PM              

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
I hope this is not the case with my Libra, smh
This is why I am still hesitate to give him any relationship...yet... I'm testing his persistent, probably a bad idea.

next to neptune, how long did your Libra chase you before you give in to be his GF?

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My experience with a libra sucked. But I know not everyone is the same. Libras treat thier women very well. They are very sweet and everything moat women could want.

posted November 03, 2014 01:31 PM              

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Yes, that what I was thinking too. Noted, thanks for remind
But I have an insecure issue (I grow up seeing my father cheating on my mom multiple times)
Perhaps I am protecting myself from getting hurt.
I heard Libra fall in love quick, and fall out of love quick too.

But this Libra is not quick at all, we far from quick.
He been trying to get a date with me since June. Now is already November and he still trying to get with me. He ask me to be his girl many times, but I never give him the direct answer. So it VERY SLOW pace despite we living in the same neighborhoood.
I'm just giving him mixed signals, and he still waiting...

Have you dated a Libra before? Can you tell me how it was? How come you guys broke up?
This is my first Libra, so I'm still trying to gather up as much as I can about Libra and their flirt/womanizer traits, lol.

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It's different with every libra. I dated a libra sun mercury and mars. Scorpio moon, mars and rising guy. So he was very scorpio too. I don't really remember how fast he fell in love but I didn't love him because I had the feeling he could fall in love with anyone else and it would be the same. Like I didn't feel like I was anything special in his eyes, except that I was just the girl he was with right now. If that makes sense. But he chased me very hard. Even after I stopped talking to him he was trying to talk to me and saying he will live me forever. A month later he was dating other girls. And I found out he got married like two months later. So obviously to me he was just trying to find any girl to be with. I think he does really love his wife. And they seem happy. But if it was another girl I think he would feel the exact same way.