posted December 08, 2013 06:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Yeah, every couple is different. What works for some doesn't work for others and the other way around.

To give you an example, this Saturn in the 5th in this chart. Normally I wouldn't want to see it there. But before I chose this chart I looked through my database, I still have all the FMC's for all my boyfriends and dates and random enounters. Saturn in the 5th was present in all my happy ones. It's weird but it seems to work for me, it's what I need, apparently.

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I know what you mean.

Actually, even though Saturn in 5 does not quite seem like the fun one, Saturn is also giving a lot of focus to whereever he falls.
Saturn in 7th or Saturn in 5th is not as bad as it is made out to be. At least not for everyone.

It depends a little on what you want. If you want to have a more easygoing light and fun relationship, this might not be for you.
But you have Cappy-ASC and Saturn is aligned with your Mars and Pluto, if I remember it right, chances are slim you would go for a fun-affair alone.

And the positive thing about Saturn is, that it does give stability and the "sticking it out for the long haul" vibe.

Personally I would prefer Saturn being there in my charts, too, just because Saturn is the dispositor of my 5th house ruler anyway, and falling into my 8th house - I definitely like the seriousness of a Saturn. I probably couldn`t do much with Uranus in 5th or 7th house though.

Besides in your case, Saturn is the 8th house ruler, falling into 5th house, conjunct ASC-ruler and Karma there, sextile Venus in 7th house.
doesn`t have any challenging aspects to major planets either, though I am not quite sure how the square to Juno will play out.

posted December 08, 2013 06:47 AM            

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posted December 08, 2013 07:16 AM            

HOW did I miss this thread??

CONGRATULATIONS SWEETIE!!

i'm sooo happy for you <3

posted December 08, 2013 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
What the synastry and composite say? These are important not what people say.

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That's what I'M wondering.

posted December 08, 2013 12:52 PM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Or something like this. Traditional with a bit of scarlet passion thrown in! MMMMMMM dang!

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Speaking of unconventional, I don't get why women spend fortunes on wedding dresses. Never have. I purchased mine via a formal consignment collections shoppe here in LA, and the grand total for me, and my bridesmaids / maid of honour - $600. Happy camper.

No tailoring, either, and I had tremendous compliments. Oh, plenty of funny moments as we were like, 'what does this go to?' and 'how is that supposed to work?'

I was the 'secondhand bride'; wore my sister-in-law's shoes and veil - and the garter of one of my dear friends. Funny story there - my husband had caught the garter in our friends' wedding. When I was looking for something in his old room at his mom's, stumbled onto the garter, he said, 'I guess it means I'm getting married.' I looked at him, burst out laughing, and said, 'Yeah, fat chance of that happening.'

... I know, right? I had been through a very, very nasty period, doing the whole swearing off commitment, and so on. I later clarified, HE may be, but NOT me - and not WITH me.

It was actually 3 years ago, to the day, that we went up to Ventura and came back with a marriage certificate. Heh. What a day.

posted December 08, 2013 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Rosalind, my parents knew they were going to get married from the second they saw each other. They married in less than a month. So, respectfully, you don't understand my situation, my life or my personality. You may mean well but please just let it go. Though it may seem like that, I am not jumping into this without thinking. You're not seeing the whole picture and I am not going to defend my relationship to you. I know enough advanced astrology to see the good and the bad. Now, thank you for your concern.

All the best.

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posted December 08, 2013 01:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Yeah, every couple is different. What works for some doesn't work for others and the other way around.

To give you an example, this Saturn in the 5th in this chart. Normally I wouldn't want to see it there. But before I chose this chart I looked through my database, I still have all the FMC's for all my boyfriends and dates and random enounters. Saturn in the 5th was present in all my happy ones. It's weird but it seems to work for me, it's what I need, apparently.

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posted December 08, 2013 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Hera:
Haha yeah, maybe it wasn't very clear because of the heart-shaped glasses lol. But we like that picture a lot lol.

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Rubies and pockets.

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Everyone is unique. The chart is a template. Experiences matter too.
Sun signs don't tell the whole story. Every sign has good and bad traits.
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posted December 08, 2013 02:17 PM            

Tom Hanks ice-cream white tail tuxedo from Big

Mars in Virgo formality and Moon in Gemini childishness...

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Everyone is unique. The chart is a template. Experiences matter too.
Sun signs don't tell the whole story. Every sign has good and bad traits.
Evolved, mature people will show more of the good traits of their signs.

posted December 08, 2013 02:29 PM            

Congrats to both of you.

You 2 even look alike... Same type of bone structure..

posted December 08, 2013 02:30 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:
Speaking of unconventional, I don't get why women spend fortunes on wedding dresses. Never have. I purchased mine via a formal consignment collections shoppe here in LA, and the grand total for me, and my bridesmaids / maid of honour - $600. Happy camper.

No tailoring, either, and I had tremendous compliments. Oh, plenty of funny moments as we were like, 'what does this go to?' and 'how is that supposed to work?'

I was the 'secondhand bride'; wore my sister-in-law's shoes and veil - and the garter of one of my dear friends. Funny story there - my husband had caught the garter in our friends' wedding. When I was looking for something in his old room at his mom's, stumbled onto the garter, he said, 'I guess it means I'm getting married.' I looked at him, burst out laughing, and said, 'Yeah, fat chance of that happening.'

... I know, right? I had been through a very, very nasty period, doing the whole swearing off commitment, and so on. I later clarified, HE may be, but NOT me - and not WITH me.

It was actually 3 years ago, to the day, that we went up to Ventura and came back with a marriage certificate. Heh. What a day.

So, Congrats, Hera, and ... Blackbird, I think you said? Hope it works out.

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posted December 08, 2013 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by IndigoDirae:

That's what I'M wondering.

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Our angles are pretty close, conjunct I think.

Her Saturn and Pluto are conjunct my big stellium, and her Mars is opposite my big stellium. *gulp*

Her Venus is trine my Mars and Venus.

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Everyone is unique. The chart is a template. Experiences matter too.
Sun signs don't tell the whole story. Every sign has good and bad traits.
Evolved, mature people will show more of the good traits of their signs.

posted December 08, 2013 02:50 PM            

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Everyone is unique. The chart is a template. Experiences matter too.
Sun signs don't tell the whole story. Every sign has good and bad traits.
Evolved, mature people will show more of the good traits of their signs.

posted December 08, 2013 02:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Blackbird:
Thanks everyone for the congrats and well-wishes. <3

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