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Topic: Let's talk chinese astro
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DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 07:41 PM
  
Okay, I wanted to be pretty accurate so I made a list of some family/friends/former romances and checked it. I'm Dragon. Dragons - I get along GREAT with them! One of my nieces is one and we really have a special psychic kind of connection. Former romance with another. It's a... memorable one. It was special. Rats - One sister is a Rat. We get along great as long as there's some distance. Another woman. I was really crushing on her. It went no where and the friendship exploded in a big way. LOL Pigs - My other sister is a "pig" and we're very close. I love to spend time with her. There's one other online acquaintance that I've known for several years and never had a problem. Ox - Only knew one. It was a romance. Tremendous admiration and attraction at first but a disastrous end. Snakes - My best friend is one! There's another guy that I was very very close to. Unfortunately things related to Rat I mentioned earlier kind of separated us. (He's her brother-in-law) Female snakes though... TREMENDOUS attraction from what I've seen. Great friendships but with desire for more. Lots of physical attraction! Rooster - Only one. It was a former romance and it's memorable. It didn't work out but there's nothing negative about it that stands out. We'd still communicate today 15 years later but her husband forbids her to keep in touch with me. For good reason I guess. So we've always respected that and have only spoken to her a few times over the years. Goats - Both parents are Goats. Good relationships with them. Two romances with Goats. It goes far but ultimately there's just enough differences to get in the way. Horse - Same goats kind of. I have some male friends who are goats and I've been close with them for years. I might know people from the other signs but that's what I looked up. At least people that I had more personal experience with. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted December 08, 2013 07:42 PM
I am a Rooster I get along great with Oxen, I know that for certain. Monkey, not so much. I know I don't get along great with a certain Tiger. Roosters seem kinda incompatible in general at least this one does. All we wanna do is stand around yelling at people and require expensive clothing.My cousin was born in the year of the Pig and I get along so-so with her. Supposedly, I do not get along with Roosters but the majority of close friends I have made in life have been with people born the same year as I. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted December 08, 2013 07:52 PM
heh Idk we can instant chat on email or pm.. I dunno Facebooks is only useful for stalking exes and a nemesis. I've matured past that lol.
Plus i have no desire to stalk your life..Prism monkeys and dragons are comptablel!!!! IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted December 08, 2013 08:06 PM
Haha we should live forever together Kero!
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My sister and I do NOT get along. Not because we can't, just because we seem to really not follow the same influences. She is an OX. A guy friend for years of mine that always wanted to be with me but it never worked out, was a Rabbit. The only thing about him was that he was so timid. I hated that. hmph. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 08, 2013 08:09 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
heh Idk we can instant chat on email or pm.. I dunno Facebooks is only useful for stalking exes and a nemesis. I've matured past that lol.
Plus i have no desire to stalk your life..Prism monkeys and dragons are comptablel!!!!
I always thought facebook was better for getting to kno ppl since it has pictures, shows the way they talk and express themselves, shows their values, beliefs, hobbies, accomplishments, and etc. and i have hanna added but i dont stalk her life lol. I've just read some of her statuses when they showed up on my newsfeed and it sparked conversation between us a few times when we commented on them. Email feels a lot more alienating. Plus hanna and i had more stuff to fb chat about bc she's a snake like me  and we have similar opinions on western signs too not just chinese signs IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 08, 2013 08:10 PM
Prism yeah rabbits like their animal are very timidIP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
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posted December 08, 2013 08:14 PM
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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Haha we should live forever together Kero!
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My sister and I do NOT get along. Not because we can't, just because we seem to really not follow the same influences. She is an OX. A guy friend for years of mine that always wanted to be with me but it never worked out, was a Rabbit. The only thing about him was that he was so timid. I hated that. hmph.
LIVE TOGETHER FOREVER IN PARTIAL ANONYMITY!!!! no fb  lol my dad is a rooster and my mom is an ox it's very weird..
I was their favorite kid, definitely LOL.
Though apparently it's lucky for parents to have dragon and monkey children....
Apparently horse children are the most unluckiest for parents in Chinese culture.
My parents lives got better when I was born and I became like the golden monkey of love and fortune..
Hehe, Idk I like my Chinese zodiac sign! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 08, 2013 08:18 PM
DeepFreeze quote:
Lots of physical attraction!
Yes! All the sites say very strong attraction between dragon and snake. Especially if the woman is the snake. I can certainy attest to that. However from my experience the snake is very emotional and needs lots of attention and sweetness an the dragon though a very very dedicated partner, just always has to call the shots and can be pretty, dare i say it, prideful and stubborn? Always wants the spotlight. And the snake is naturally more retiring but they def need to feel like they share the spotlight with the other person. Snake cant feel neglected. Oh no no no no. Never ever. You will hear criticism after criticism from Ms. snake unless she's treated fairly and rightly. Granted, she will tell you in the most gracious, calm, poised and ladylike way possible...the snake woman never yells as she prefers to be seen as almost totally helpless. But she will criticize you til you'll want to run for greener pastures, dragon. And dragon must have their freedom! IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 08, 2013 08:20 PM
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LIVE TOGETHER FOREVER IN PARTIAL ANONYMITY!!!! no fb
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DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 08:33 PM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
You will hear criticism after criticism from Ms. snake unless she's treated fairly and rightly. Granted, she will tell you in the most gracious, calm, poised and ladylike way possible...the snake woman never yells as she prefers to be seen as almost totally helpless. But she will criticize you til you'll want to run for greener pastures, dragon. And dragon must have their freedom!
That would certainly work for me! As long as they're not yelling at me. LOL I mean if they're just respectfully expressive about what they want - no problem. I want to treat them like a queen but at the same time will certainly voice my disapproval of things. Hahaha Yeah, in my experience IRL so far. The physical attraction is nuts. Strangely, never had any relationship or intimacy with one.
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12muddy
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posted December 08, 2013 08:57 PM
I'm a horse and I've always have difficulties getting along with tiger, dog and rooster. I like dragons and the occasional snakes. Dad is a dragon and I get along better with him than mom (tiger). I love seeing tiger and dragon couples lol Hubby dearest is an ox lol The table can also be used for business partnerships (it's said that two incompatible signs getting together -> bad luck). Some people also choose the best days (days that suits their sign) for important events lol (generally speaking, of course, other parts of the birth chart matter too). IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted December 08, 2013 09:00 PM
I'm a Wood Pig. (Wood = Jupiter - Pig = Mercury)The element of Wood is ruled by Jupiter and the element of Water is ruled by Mercury.
The Pig is a Water sign, so it's ruled by Mercury. Not really sure which signs I get along with better, personally, but I'm around Rats the most, (I'm one year older than most of my peers in school) so logically speaking, it will probably be the Rat. Best and worst. IP: Logged |
MsPrism
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posted December 08, 2013 09:03 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
LIVE TOGETHER FOREVER IN PARTIAL ANONYMITY!!!! no fb
This is a marriage proposal, isn't it!?  I sent you an e-mail so go read it! I'm in bossy mode? The men that seem to teach me A LOT and always challenge me (which I need: Sun square Mars and opposite Pluto) are Tigers. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 08, 2013 09:11 PM
Yeah the attaction is def nuts lol.
I used to swear dragons were my soulmate One time there was this dragon guy, we both liked each other but he had a girlfriend. And i was trying rly hard to restrain myself haha. But one time he was standing next to a table i was sitting down at and his pelvis was at the height of the table where my hand was resting and i lifted my hand up to describe something and notice it was right in on front of his, well, haha. And i could like feel the magnetic pull of the two coming together and wanting to touch rofl. The two guys who i considered that i fell hardest for were two dragon guys. Other than monkey which i realize now is prob the only sign ive experienced true caring and true love for. And yeah same here, crazy attaction with those two dragons but it never materialized into anything (he had a gf already who was a snake too) Like most intense hug ive ever had with anyone. Id say with dragon-snake the attraction is more intensely sexual, while with monkey-snake it's very sexual also but more based off of rly strong affection/true caring. ------------------
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theunknown
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posted December 09, 2013 12:41 AM
I'm not sure if this is in Chinese astrology as I'm not chinese. If you give me your birth time and place, I can give you your general ascendant and moon (or their equivalent in Eastern astrologyIP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
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posted December 09, 2013 12:55 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
LOL
I know what you mean. On one hand the attraction is just through the roof. On the other hand it's like I step back and think, "There's nothing logical about this. WTF?" So do you get a little more excited with Monkey's now or still with Dragons?
Or you don't think about it? As for Chinese Astrology I probably won't pay too much attention but now if I feel that crazy attraction I'm going to check if they're a snake. LOL IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 09, 2013 06:13 AM
That's a good question. I'm glad u asked that b/c it's definitely something i wish i had known/realized when i was way younger. Basically, I've realized that if i had married a dragon before knowing about monkeys i wouldve made a huge mistake. My dragon friendships always ended in huge disappointment as i felt neglected with them for most of our friendship until it ended bc i finally had enough. Recently i had an argument with a close dragon friend and i have definitely decided that dragons are not for me. After i had that argument with her i realize that her same qualities are in every dragon person i know. So, im distancing myself from half my friends who are all dragons, bc now ive put my finger on why exactly they always made me fume with anger inside. It was a vague feeling to which i didnt know the reason before. Lets just put it this way: if i fall for another dragon, i know that it wont be nearly as amazing a relationship or strong of a feeling as i had with my monkey..impossible. And if i cant find a monkey, i will certainly never marry a dragon...that would lead to lifelong misery haha. Always feeling neglected? Ah no! : P terrible. Yes dragons feel like my twin flame, very obsessive, but...in the end i realize im very unhappy, and bc of that when i do let go neither of us miss each other at all. With the monkey its very different. My old monkey friends and crushes will always be my buddy. If i go to any of them right now and post on their wall they will welcome me like their best friend, with the same sweetness they would have years ago. And if i see one on campus they would definitely hug me. One monkey guy friend actually told me something which has stayed with me. I was supposed to go to a small event at school and felt really sick that day so couldnt make it. And he called me when he didnt see me there and told me he felt like he was missing his "buddy, his comrade" and i think thats a very good description of how i feel about the monkeys i have good western astro stuff with. Theyre my buddy, my comrade, my partner in crime, my equal who will put in as much into the relationship as i will and someone who goes everywhere and does everything together with me. It's very easy for a snake and monkey to becone attached at the hip, and i mean attached at the hip.And if i ever do get married it will be to a monkey. Because if i marry any other sign i'll have the constant painful reminder that i could be experiencing so much more with someone else born in the year of the monkey. I will say that the attraction is *usually* not instantaneous like it is with dragons which is a bit annoying bc it usually seems to happen after uve become friends first. I do think its probably bc i didnt have intense western astrology with those guys, and thats why it took longer for the attraction to develop. Hope i answered your question :P ------------------
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Rosalind
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posted December 09, 2013 06:23 AM
I'm a Fire Tiger. I know for a fact that I don't get along with Snakes, Rabbit (or Cat) and Oxes. Ah, with Monkeys also.
With fellow Tigers I have no problems. On the contrary.IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 09, 2013 06:29 AM
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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I'm a Fire Tiger. I know for a fact that I don't get along with Snakes, Rabbit (or Cat) and Oxes. Ah, with Monkeys also.
With fellow Tigers I have no problems. On the contrary.
Tigers are said to be antagonistic to snakes and monkeys. Monkeys and snakes also have problems with pig and with some horses too. Im not sure how tigers and cats/oxen are supposed to get along. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 09, 2013 06:35 AM
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
Tigers are said to be anatagonistic to snakes and monkeys. Monkeys and snakes also have some problems with horses.Im not sure how tigers and cats/oxen are supposed to get along.
Dunno either but I can't stand them. Another sign I don't like is the RAT. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 09, 2013 06:47 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I meet a lot of Rabbits and become very close with them. I always sacrifice for them, try and give them a lot of patience, and then the friendship doesn't work out long term and I end up completely NOT respecting them in the end.
I was thinking about this. Rabbits are said to be too unaffectionate for snakes. It's like MsPrism said, theyre too shy. But it's beyond shy, it's like downright cold or hard to connect with. They have those big cold rabbit/cat eyes. Snakes definitely need an expressive affectionate romantic partner. Thats why we are drawn to dragons and monkeys. They shower us with that romance and affection--arent afraid to show it. But the downside is that they can be very free-spirited. Dragon is much more so freespirited than the monkey. Dragon is always surrounded by a group of admirers, but monkey like the snake, is a loner and prefers to do mostly without others, while quietly observing or analyzing the world around them. Yes they are fun and extroverted but in the end the monkey is a wandering hippie who is ok with his own company and doesnt seek attention---his goals in life are mostly intellectual(like the snake who was born to research and become a philosopher) (so different from the dragon who lives to gather a loyal crowd of admirers).
Also, the dragon always wants to be number one but the monkey feels happiest when enmeshed in a relationship, and when they can be as touchy feely as possible. Which is also what the snake wants.
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RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 09, 2013 06:51 AM
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Dunno either but I can't stand them. Another sign I don't like is the RAT.
Oh youd think tigers and rats get along, being sextile? (Well there is no such thing as a sextile in chinese astro but you know, part of a compatible element tho its not the same element--that would be a trine) So do u get along with ur trine signs at least? Dog and horse? Edit: actually i just realized that rabbits and tigers are palace signs. Are you at least strongly drawn to them? My sister is a rabbit and she is drawn to tigers. Though u may have already realized that they werent right for you like i have my own palace sign, the dragon. The aggressive Tiger's soulmate is the calm aquiescent pig and their opposite sign and worst march is the equally hyper and cunning monkey. Kerosene, I just realized that the rooster is both your palace sign and peach blossom. No wonder theyre drawn to each other. My parents are that combo.
I am most drawn to horse (my peach blossom), dragon (my palace sign) and monkey (my soulmate sign), and other snakes. So imagine if there was a sign forthe snake who was either both my peachblossom/palace/or soulmate sign...i think i would be obsessed out of my mind! Lol. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 09, 2013 07:00 AM
Nope. Dunno Horses but Dogs are a no no to me. My best match would be another Tiger. I like people who are my own age. Too many bad experiences with people who were older or younger than me. No thanks.The worst experiences I have had with were Rabbits. Terrible people. They would walk over dead bodies to get what they want. Selfishness has its limit too. They don't seem to have any. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 09, 2013 07:07 AM
Really? Rabbits are selfish?They are cold, i agree, but...hmm.
I do think that they are very wishy washy and dont have a stable goal in life, like they dont seem to really know what they want. Seem to kind of hop around timidly. Maybe that makes them apear selfish or reckless IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted December 09, 2013 07:10 AM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/215860.html ^full link, but will copy n paste below
----------------------- I noticed that in chinese astrology we draw most our peach blossoms, our "soulmate" signs, and our palace signs. This book says that those are the three we attract the most and it is totally true for me, especially the palace and soulmates signs. http://books.google.com/books?id=gWXyH7t3cFgC&printsec=frontcover Two people who find themselves in the extraordinary soulmate relationship are truly karmicly connected and share some deep spiritual bonds.
Classic couples in a soul mate connection include: John Lennon (Dragon) and Yoko Ono (Rooster), Jim Carrey (Ox) and Jenny McCarthy (Rat), Jesse James (Rooster) and Sandra Bullock (Dragon), and Elizabeth Taylor (Monkey) and Richard Burton (Snake) Ok so that it's easier for everyone I will just list what the signs for each category are according to the book PAGE 23 in the books shows all the signs' different kinds of matches and the label of the type of match PALACES AKA LOVERS IN KIND - page 35
 TWIN SOULS AKA TRINED SIGNS - page 29
 SOULMATES - page 26
 PEACH BLOSSOMS - page 51 - passionate love affairs, but destructive and unhealthy, should stay away
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