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Topic: Libra Venus Guys--Are They SUPER Into looks?
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Chiemi
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posted January 01, 2014 06:25 PM
  
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I'm not critical but I can't date anyone i find physically unappealing now can I?
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theunknown
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posted January 01, 2014 06:27 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Most people that post about Venus in Leo do not have it. They don't seem to understand what Venus in Leo is like. It does make me more self focused, self centered. I will admit it. It does not make me an elitist or someone that wants to be seen with movers and shakers. You are thinking of Venus in Capricorn. They, typically, want to be with someone that has more status than they.
I have venus in cap and know other venus in cap. I want someone who is mature and reliable. If they have signifantly less status than I do, it's gonna be rough but in general it's not my biggest concern.
I think lots of venus in cap fail in love and are very cautious
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aquaguy91
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posted January 01, 2014 06:40 PM
What kerosene said is true. You can't get with somebody and be happy if you aren't atleast somewhat physically attracted to them. But how do you determine what is reasonable vs unrealistic expectations? This is what interests me... Because most people seem to have unrealistic standards and expectations IMO. Personally I think I have realistic standards and don't get carried away. IMO I'm a decently attractive guy ( those of you who have seen my pic prolly are thinking bs but I'm not photogenic at all and look way better in real life) and should be able to pair up with a comparable girl. It just seems that everyone wants someone more attractive than them and won't settle for someone on equal or lower ground. That's just my opinion anyways.IP: Logged |
crabbypatty
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posted January 01, 2014 06:42 PM
I will add, Ami, that I myself also have Venus in Libra, and I am not super into looks, although for me to be attracted to someone, he has to appeal somehow to my idea of what looks sexy/hot. Now, that could be someone who objectively is not a Brad Pitt. He could be closer to Shrek, honestly. But if he looks like a "manly man" and he's got dark hair, that's half the battle (for me). I have rarely dated men who were conventionally attractive. Having said that, I am decidedly anti-metrosexual in my taste. If a guy looks like he spends too much time in front of the mirror, I won't even consider him. Ever. Dealbreaker. Maybe it's my Scorpio, idk.I think where my Venus in Libra influences me is that I don't like dirty or jagged fingernails (on men or women), or funky looking teeth, or funky breath. Personal hygiene is real big with me. I do not appreciate crassness, although if a man is otherwise heart-throbbingly amazing, I will close my eyes to poop jokes, etc. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted January 01, 2014 06:44 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
[b]Most people that post about Venus in Leo do not have it. They don't seem to understand what Venus in Leo is like. It does make me more self focused, self centered. I will admit it. It does not make me an elitist or someone that wants to be seen with movers and shakers. You are thinking of Venus in Capricorn. They, typically, want to be with someone that has more status than they.
I have venus in cap and know other venus in cap. I want someone who is mature and reliable. If they have signifantly less status than I do, it's gonna be rough but in general it's not my biggest concern.
I think lots of venus in cap fail in love and are very cautious[/B][/QUOTE]I thought you had Venus in Pisces.
My Venus is like Capricorn in some ways. It is in the tenth house square Saturn. I do not look for status so much but I don't hate status. What I like most is to feel comfortable with whomever I am with. Trust is a big issue, maybe, since Venus is in a fixed sign? IP: Logged |
Insilver
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posted January 01, 2014 06:51 PM
My Virgo Sun/Moon friend has a Leeb Venus... he's drawn to ladylike women with grace and (his idea of) beauty. I get the feeling he's got quite the Madonna/***** complex. Rarely gives a compliment but it's meaningful x10 when he does. He finds Drew Barrymore very pretty and appealing. Coarseness, negativity and trashiness turn him off but that could very well be the Virgoness talking. He is not always impeccable despite the virg/Leeb heaviness in his chart... often looks like he rolled out of bed before coming in to work lol. Not a metrosexual in the least but enjoys a mani/pedi once in awhile. Somehow our employer looks past all of that (though grants the rest of us no reprieve) and adores him... charming sob.  IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon
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posted January 01, 2014 06:52 PM
Alot of my exes have been libra venuses and no not all go by looks.They like a charming woman. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted January 01, 2014 06:58 PM
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Originally posted by beckylee:
Actually, I'd love to marry a true gentleman like one of those in the old movies..
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Mercurian Intellect
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posted January 01, 2014 07:06 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
All people (men and women) are really into looks.
Yes, this is true. But if the person cannot get their ideal looking man/woman, they will resort to anyone because evolution permits it to carry on their genes. Even if they do not want a child, they will still feel the need to have a partner. And since they cannot have the one they want, they start to resort and their standards go down and down until eventually, they have none, really. Our evolutionary instincts are making us that way, for the better. Now I'm not saying someone will not want to be alone their whole life. That is just a personal decision on their part. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted January 01, 2014 07:06 PM
Ok the person does not want to be like this. They are having problems because of it and they feel terrible. It is not a bragging thing.
The person feels bad.------------------
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aquaguy91
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posted January 01, 2014 07:11 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Ok the person does not want to be like this. They are having problems because of it and they feel terrible. It is not a bragging thing.
The person feels bad.
There's nothing to feel bad about unless they are really unreasonable. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted January 01, 2014 07:11 PM
I am a Libra Venus and I am very much into looks, sadly. But not only looks of course.
I like intelligence and femininity.I want a partner who I can learn from and teach things to as well. You know, an ACTUAL relationship. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted January 01, 2014 07:13 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Yes, this is true.But if the person cannot get a their ideal looking man/woman, they will resort to anyone because evolution permits it to carry on their genes. Even if they do not want a child, they will still feel the need to have a partner. And since they cannot have the one they want, they start resort and their standards go down and down.
This is true. I have had to drop my standards considerably to get women. I'm an average/decent looking guy but I can only get with below average women usually. The thing is people who do this are not truly happy usually .
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Insilver
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posted January 01, 2014 07:15 PM
Free will + self love/acceptance/awareness trumps any aspect, no matter how difficult or inconvenient.Perhaps the answers aren't to be found here. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted January 01, 2014 07:17 PM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
What kerosene said is true. You can't get with somebody and be happy if you aren't atleast somewhat physically attracted to them. But how do you determine what is reasonable vs unrealistic expectations? This is what interests me... Because most people seem to have unrealistic standards and expectations IMO. Personally I think I have realistic standards and don't get carried away. IMO I'm a decently attractive guy ( those of you who have seen my pic prolly are thinking bs but I'm not photogenic at all and look way better in real life) and should be able to pair up with a comparable girl. It just seems that everyone wants someone more attractive than them and won't settle for someone on equal or lower ground. That's just my opinion anyways.
Well I have an internal rating system in my head... It's never definite either.
It really depends on my personal taste. You may rate higher or lower etc.
*WAITS FOR EVERYONE TO EXPLODE*
No I don't walk around rating people like their objects because I can see attractive qualities in most people.
I think my system follow the usual human standard for beauty.. Balanced features etc etc 7/10 is quite attractive imo honestly other factors like personality tip the scales. it's just my logical feasible way to determine who is in or out of my league.
So Im never unrealistic.
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Orange
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posted January 01, 2014 07:26 PM
Everybody likes pretty, and especially men. Men are visual creatures, they love pretty women. Dont believe the ones that say otherwise, they are just being polite. Or insincere.
At the end, Its the level of your confidence that determines what you are going to end up with. Women are quite insecure, so its most likely to see a pretty woman with an average or ugly man, than to see a handsome man with an ugly woman. Women will go out of their ways to look pretty for their men, and their men just sits there and feel like doing them a favour if they run a comb once in a while. Where is the justice here, hmm. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted January 01, 2014 07:29 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Well I have an internal rating system in my head... It's never definite either.
It really depends on my personal taste. You may rate higher or lower etc.
*WAITS FOR EVERYONE TO EXPLODE*
No I don't walk around rating people like their objects because I can see attractive qualities in most people.
I think my system follow the usual human standard for beauty.. Balanced features etc etc7/10 is quite attractive imo honestly other factors like personality tip the scales. it's just my logical feasible way to determine who is in or out of my league.
So Im never unrealistic.
That makes sense.. I guess I'm the same way. Here's the way I see it.. Roughly 75 to 80 % of women are attractive enough IMO and I could be attracted to them if I like their personality. I have preferences of course but I'm those aren't non negotiable. Ideally my woman would be taller than average , Caucasian, with blue eyes. But.... I can find short Asian or black women attractive too .. The only deal breaker for me is obesity.. Just no . I'm a husky guy and would gladly date a chubby girl but there are limits.
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aquaguy91
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posted January 01, 2014 07:35 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
Everybody likes pretty, and especially men. Men are visual creatures, they love pretty women. Dont believe the ones that say otherwise, they are just being polite. Or insincere.
At the end, Its the level of your confidence that determines what you are going to end up with. Women are quite insecure, so its most likely to see a pretty woman with an average or ugly man, than to see a handsome man with an ugly woman. Women will go out of their ways to look pretty for their men, and their men just sits there and feel like doing them a favour if they run a comb once in a while. Where is the justice here, hmm.
Mmmm I have to disagree .. I have seen more good looking men with average or below average women than good looking women with average or below average men. Maybe 20 or 30 years ago you would have been right but not now. Women totally dominate the dating and hook-up culture and what they say goes. Just look at dating sites ... 90% of the girls on there are atleast somewhat overweight, have kids , and emotional problems but expect a good looking man with all of his sh* t together. They even did a study and it found that the vast majority of women on dating sites find 80 to 90% of the men on dating sites undesirable.. I don't know about ya'll but IMO that is a clear indicator that there is a problem and it isn't the men... IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted January 01, 2014 07:36 PM
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Originally posted by Orange:
Everybody likes pretty, and especially men. Men are visual creatures, they love pretty women. Dont believe the ones that say otherwise, they are just being polite. Or insincere.
At the end, Its the level of your confidence that determines what you are going to end up with. Women are quite insecure, so its most likely to see a pretty woman with an average or ugly man, than to see a handsome man with an ugly woman. Women will go out of their ways to look pretty for their men, and their men just sits there and feel like doing them a favour if they run a comb once in a while. Where is the justice here, hmm.
Men have to go through a lot internally, as women feel that they have to go through a lot to look good, physically. Because men have to be a certain way to attract a female. A man who is negative isn't attractive to a woman. A man who isn't as out-going or confident isn't attractive to a woman. A man must act a certain way as a woman must look a certain way... So there is the justice. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted January 01, 2014 07:39 PM
Funny I tend to find aryan nordic guy attractive tend to like asian black, latin or mixed girls attractive more.
It's the seductive features. fuller lips the eyes and gorgeous rich skin tone that stays youthful foreverrrrr
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted January 01, 2014 07:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Orange:
Everybody likes pretty, and especially men. Men are visual creatures, they love pretty women. Dont believe the ones that say otherwise, they are just being polite. Or insincere.
At the end, Its the level of your confidence that determines what you are going to end up with. Women are quite insecure, so its most likely to see a pretty woman with an average or ugly man, than to see a handsome man with an ugly woman. Women will go out of their ways to look pretty for their men, and their men just sits there and feel like doing them a favour if they run a comb once in a while. Where is the justice here, hmm.
The problem is, most people aren't that good looking, even the ones who think they are. Women just think they look pretty and fool the men and themselves, for the most part. It's a con like most everything. There are plenty of countries where homely, fat women are the greatest prizes. What most men like aren't necessarily pretty women, just ones that are in their twenties. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted January 01, 2014 07:45 PM
Well beauty is perception so while someone maybe be ugly the outer image they cultivate can attract many people until they discover how ugly they truly are.Still being attractive is a great advantage to have.
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Doux Rêve
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posted January 01, 2014 07:47 PM
*clears throat*
So Ami, you say that person actually suffers from their high standards? They want someone "perfect" on all levels? Definitely sounds like a Leo / Virgo / Libra thing. A mix of all those, especially.
Why do they focus on outer beauty so much? Is it some sort of (unconscious?) compensation?
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Mercurian Intellect
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posted January 01, 2014 07:47 PM
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted January 01, 2014 07:49 PM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Well beauty is perception so while someone maybe be ugly the outer image they cultivate can attract many people until they discover how ugly they truly are.Still being attractive is a great advantage to have.
Well look at Miley Cyrus, I wouldn't consider her that attractive. Her features are kinda homely. Still she has millions of fans and is a star so there you go. It's image more than anything. Lady Gaga is downright homely and she is one of the most popular entertainers ever. People look for new, exciting and what they can relate to and also young. The older they get, the less celebrity they possess although there are a handful of devoted fans who will be going to her shows when they are seventy, she eight-five.
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