posted February 24, 2014 12:28 PM            

But I have to be honest, I tried changing myself, to not let her criticism bother me but I can't control my stinger when she does. It makes me feel less of a man when I get criticized and she doesn't understand that. Also, my dominant and demanding nature comes out once in a while and when it does, it hard for me to stop. Ultimately, she gets annoyed and fight breaks out.

posted February 24, 2014 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
Whats is your moon, Asc, and mars and hers?

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posted February 24, 2014 01:17 PM            

Synastry is one of the more complex branches of astrology as it deals with a lot of psychology. If you want to get a good synastry reading I suggest you visit a good astrologer. You can ask around this forum too but odds are you'll get bits of information from here and there.

To get your chart as well as your wife's chart follow the instructions here

If you're new to astrology this is a good site that will generate a synastry report for beginners - http://www.e-tarocchi.com/Astrology-Compatitbility/

posted February 24, 2014 02:51 PM            

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posted February 24, 2014 03:42 PM            

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Originally posted by scorp47:
I'm a scorpio man (bd: nov 16) married to a virgo woman (bd: sept 8). We been married for 5 years. We had a great time with each other before marriage when were dating but things changed after marriage. The first few years of marriage were very tough. Her constant criticism would bring the my worst out of me. She would also try to control me which would back fire for her. Slowly we started to understand each other and things calmed a little.

But I have to be honest, I tried changing myself, to not let her criticism bother me but I can't control my stinger when she does. It makes me feel less of a man when I get criticized and she doesn't understand that. Also, my dominant and demanding nature comes out once in a while and when it does, it hard for me to stop. Ultimately, she gets annoyed and fight breaks out.

As a Scorpio and knowing I can't change my Scorpio traits, how can I avoid these clashes with her? I love her and I get very emotionally disturbed when we don't talk to each other.

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The first thing i notice from your b'days - You're a 7 (a spiritual number) and she's a 8 (a practical number). You're also a Scorpio (fixed sign - with an interest for the deeper side of things) and she's a Virgo (mutable sign - who aims mainly for practical matters). So i'd take it you're more a conceptual person - you're more of a thinker and she's more of a practical person - a doer. She might have all kind of expectations of you - from which she wants to see some practical results, be it usual - every day things or bigger things - that could imply a visible evolution of your marriage. While for you - it could be enough that you love each other - probbaly, you don't feel the need for big changes (you don't see how that could improve things considerably). Before marriage - you were both more allowing when in terms of expectations - especially after falling in love (the so called love bubble - which tends to fade away with time and that's when - the real love for each-other should become visible - while falling in love each-other time after time - if we're to talk about a relationship based on true love).

Well, this is just a representation based on numerology. Your astrological charts might say more in terms of compatibility - and what you're actually like. You might have some practical placements which could even the odds and same goes for her.