posted April 06, 2014 01:53 PM              

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
This guy I date with VIP loves to come across all spiritual and sweet until he gets you to sleep with him and then he pulls out the "I'm not interested in a relationship" card. He has a thing about remaining friends with his ex's too. I think because he knows he is a an a** but if the girl still talks to him after he can pretend he's still a great guy.

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Ughh, I know the type. lol

posted April 06, 2014 02:19 PM              

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Originally posted by babybull82:
My very best guy friend who is like my brother (my venus falls in his 4th hehe) has moon in Pisces and I would NEVER date him either. His Sun is scorpy and rising is in Sag..but anyway he will rush to be in a relationship quicker than you can say the word..buuut then be miserable and constantly talk to other women via social networking and text things like that

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posted April 06, 2014 02:21 PM            

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
This guy I date with VIP loves to come across all spiritual and sweet until he gets you to sleep with him and then he pulls out the "I'm not interested in a relationship" card. He has a thing about remaining friends with his ex's too. I think because he knows he is a an a** but if the girl still talks to him after he can pretend he's still a great guy.

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And see that's the problem with some VIPers they are afraid to be honest and say that they would prefer to be single. But what they don't realize is that being honest may actually get them what they want. I remain friends with my ex's too, except this last one and he also was the first person to ever break up with me. I usually do the dumping.

posted April 06, 2014 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
Yeah what is up with the rushing into things? My ex asked if I wanted to be in a relationship on our first date lol (this was high school but still-I've seen him do it with others too) Our Asc's are conjunct and saturn has been transiting our 5th houses so he's been single for a while but this is the longest I've seen him go without being in a relationship, amazing really.... It's just you would think Pisces would take things slow but definitely not lol

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One word..NEPTUNE!!!

I do notice (well the men anyway, I have yet to meet another VIP woman) that the older they get, the less they may have time for the "games" and they become more upfront about what they want. Like the male friend I mentioned just above who still remains friends with his exes, he is 38 and is pretty honest he doesn't want to be with anyone...DESPITE his dating profile stating he's looking for someone to marry..go figure haha!

posted April 06, 2014 02:42 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
^Yeah ppl think Cancers play dumb and innocent but Pisces are the real masters of manipulation and deception when they want to be lol. Interesting about the directness later on though, could be once their venus progresses into Aries...

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posted April 06, 2014 03:24 PM              

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Originally posted by babybull82:
You know I've wondered about that. My venus is at 29 degrees Pisces in the 8th house. I can pull up a progression chart but not sure what I'm looking at. How far into the future is a progressed chart?

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That would probably explain the shift in how you've been feeling... Progressions get complicated but I've been paying more attention to them lately and think they add a lot of insight considering people are always changing and evolving over time.. Progressed charts basically move the chart forward a day away from your natal for every year you're alive if that makes sense. Anyway just look at the aspects made in the progressed chart itself, but then also the aspects made to your natal planets and also transits.

So for example, my progressed Venus is 7 degrees Pisces, square my natal moon at 7 degrees Sag, and conjunct tNeptune at 6 degrees Pisces. So basically I'm f***** in the love department for right now lol.

posted April 06, 2014 03:28 PM            

Fire, what about a Pisces Dsc, Neptune in the 5th, pVenus in Pisces, Venus in a Pisces duad and tNeptune in the 7th coming soon?

posted April 06, 2014 03:47 PM              

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
^ pretty faithful...meaning, she cheats only once a year?

Fire, what about a Pisces Dsc, Neptune in the 5th, pVenus in Pisces, Venus in a Pisces duad and tNeptune in the 7th coming soon?

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Haha that's a lot of Pisces!! What degree is your Dsc and your pVenus? I would say you should probably expect something significant once either pVenus or tNeptune hit your Dsc. Just be careful it's not toooo Neptunian or illusive lol. Neptune in the 5th would be interesting too I imagine. Where's your 5th house ruler?

posted April 06, 2014 05:17 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
And see that's the problem with some VIPers they are afraid to be honest and say that they would prefer to be single. But what they don't realize is that being honest may actually get them what they want. I remain friends with my ex's too, except this last one and he also was the first person to ever break up with me. I usually do the dumping.

I honestly don't know why I stay friends with my exes...but my friend who is a VIP as well told me he does because he likes to see how bad a woman is doing without him..yea he's a cocky one lol

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posted April 06, 2014 05:50 PM              

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Originally posted by KarmicMoon:
For example, he'll post stuff on FB like poems about love and having a broken heart, lol. It's such bull but the girls just eat it up. He is also Pisces rising (damn those good looking pisces asc).

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ugh, what a jerk. I never fall for that crap, but then I'd probably find guys posting lovey-dovey poems on FB a bit cringeworthy anyway. lol

Excuse me, the red wine is kicking in and I tend to speak my mind.

posted April 06, 2014 06:11 PM            

I often fall fast and hard only to very quickly become disillusioned. Usually this is because I often really idealize romantic interests and don't immediately see their faults...I think it's because I really do want a fairytale sort of romance, and I so badly want everything to be just perfect (Venus in the 6th)! When I realize that the relationship isn't/he isn't perfect, I fall out of like/lust/love equally as fast...Confronting it, though, is difficult to me because I also really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings - which of course, I have begun to learn makes everything worse.

Also, I often find that when someone likes me, I find it very charming/flattering. So much so that I sometimes don't actually stop to consider whether or not I like them back, which sometimes creates awkward situations down the line. I've never cheated on anyone, but I have let relationships just sort of dissolve or fade away when I wasn't interested anymore.

posted April 11, 2014 01:27 PM            

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Originally posted by nove731:
I'm a guy with Venus in Pisces...I realize that my experience with this placement sounds sort of stereotypical, but take it for what it's worth:

I often fall fast and hard only to very quickly become disillusioned. Usually this is because I often really idealize romantic interests and don't immediately see their faults...I think it's because I really do want a fairytale sort of romance, and I so badly want everything to be just perfect (Venus in the 6th)! When I realize that the relationship isn't/he isn't perfect, I fall out of like/lust/love equally as fast...Confronting it, though, is difficult to me because I also really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings - which of course, I have begun to learn makes everything worse.

Also, I often find that when someone likes me, I find it very charming/flattering. So much so that I sometimes don't actually stop to consider whether or not I like them back, which sometimes creates awkward situations down the line. I've never cheated on anyone, but I have let relationships just sort of dissolve or fade away when I wasn't interested anymore.

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posted July 16, 2016 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
My friend has Venus and pisces and Mars in Gemini and she's pretty faithful.

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