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Topic: Guys with Venus in Pisces
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fauxcoat
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posted April 05, 2014 11:15 AM
  
Any advice/experiences? IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 05, 2014 11:26 AM
No experiences really here but I can imagine they are very emotional when it comes to love. Sensitive, compassionate and possibly moody too (mutable Pisces). To them, love takes on a very spiritual quality (Neptune ruler). They can possibly easily be taken advantage of in this respect but their mutable quality also makes them somewhat unpredictable and "fluid" in matters of the heart themselves. It could be a wet ride!IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 05, 2014 11:29 AM
^^ Oh God, what am I talking about, my Scorpio love interest has Venus in Pisces (and he actually fits the description above, especially the changeable bit!).PS, me and about half the female population are in love with him. Make of that what you will! lol IP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 05, 2014 11:31 AM
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Originally posted by fauxcoat:
Any advice/experiences?
I'm in love with a venus in Pisces! I have a 12th house venus so the love has a very Neptunian flavor! Very romantic, spiritual, yes, he's moody LOL but then so am I (cancer ASC  They are very sacrificial...people pleasers, sensitive and they get hurt easily. IP: Logged |
doubletaurus
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posted April 05, 2014 11:34 AM
I asked my friend about Venus in Pisces for guys and she would think they're more about demonstrating their love by taking care of you such as giving a jacket if cold, sharing food, and making sure you're okay. Not sure if that's true. I'm horrible at picking up emotions.I'd like more insight on this! Especially for a earth moon folks (not sure if that's the major influence?) IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted April 05, 2014 11:43 AM
Wow, I'm more Venus/pisces than I thought. Technically, I'm Venus Virgo. But Venus in the 12th squaring Neptune. No other Venus aspects. All of your descriptions fit me very well. So I'd have to say it's accurate. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 05, 2014 11:43 AM
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Originally posted by tgem:
They are very sacrificial...people pleasers, sensitive and they get hurt easily.
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Originally posted by doubletaurus:
I asked my friend about Venus in Pisces for guys and she would think they're more about demonstrating their love by taking care of you such as giving a jacket if cold, sharing food, and making sure you're okay. Not sure if that's true.
Definitely yes, that's Venus in Pisces in a nutshell I reckon. They often put other's needs before their own. You end up feeling quite comforted and nurtured, like being bathed in warm water (which I don't normally like from other men, but with him it's like.. "sigh... do whatever you want, I don't mind one bit!")
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Astra
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posted April 05, 2014 01:16 PM
The ones I know have all been cheaters. Keep in mind that I only know 10 guys with this placement. I'm sure there are loyal guys out there with this placement.IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted April 05, 2014 01:25 PM
The one I know is a cheater too.------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 05, 2014 01:27 PM
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Originally posted by Astra:
The ones I know have all been cheaters. Keep in mind that I only know 10 guys with this placement. I'm sure there are loyal guys out there with this placement.
All 10? lol. That's some bad luck!
Thanks for the heads up anyway. haha
Those slippery Venus in Pisces men, I KNEW there was something fishy about them! (j/k) IP: Logged |
AqMoon
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posted April 05, 2014 01:50 PM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
^^ Oh God, what am I talking about, my Scorpio love interest has Venus in Pisces (and he actually fits the description above, especially the changeable bit!).PS, me and about half the female population are in love with him. Make of that what you will! lol
There is no possible way that a Scorpio could have a Pisces Venus...Venus can only be 48 degrees behind and ahead of the Sun.
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KarmicMoon
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posted April 05, 2014 02:02 PM
I've had two long term relationships with Venus in Pisces. I found that they pretty much love everyone, one quite literally! They never gave me the feeling that I was special to them which my Venus Leo didn't like. One was a BIG time cheater. I stay away from them now.IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 05, 2014 02:11 PM
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Originally posted by AqMoon:
There is no possible way that a Scorpio could have a Pisces Venus...Venus can only be 48 degrees behind and ahead of the Sun.
Oops yes you're right actually. I just rechecked. It's in Capricorn, my bad. I still confuse some of the sign symbols. He does have those qualities though, funnily enough. Maybe it's more his Virgo moon and Cancer mars coming into play. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted April 05, 2014 04:10 PM
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Originally posted by Astra:
The ones I know have all been cheaters. Keep in mind that I only know 10 guys with this placement. I'm sure there are loyal guys out there with this placement.
This!!! The women are cheaters too..I should know I am one and I'll be the first to admit that I have done my fair share of cheating back in my early 20s..as I got older I became more of an emotional cheater. My venus trine uranus natally doesn't help matters either. I tend to attract guys who are emotionally unavailable to me thus *forcing me (lol not!) to seek emotional solace else where.. I honestly wouldn't go near another VIP with a 10 foot pole, there's nothing you can do to make us happy..you'll never be good enough. You're better off with an earth venus like Taurus or something...seriously. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
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posted April 05, 2014 04:18 PM
 Wow. I appreciate your honesty. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted April 05, 2014 04:25 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Wow. I appreciate your honesty.
Well I have no choice but to be honest, the last 6 mos or so have been a real eye opener for me in terms of affairs of the heart. What I "want" & "need", are in sharp contrast to each other. It sucked when I realized this reality at first, but I'm slowly coming to terms with it and learning to adjust. IP: Logged |
CatMote
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posted April 05, 2014 04:30 PM
aw...i feel the opposite!
youll always be good enough for me! im a man with venus in pisces, mars and moon in pisces too.
its weird how you say youll never be good enough...VIP is all about acceptance and love of everybody. maybe thats its downfall.
i can understand about cheaters though. ive never cheated before but i can see the temptation. we pisces influenced individuals are so caught up in feelings we might forget about the real world. is your venus afflicted by any means? just curious, because that view differs so drastically from mine lol------------------
"Perhaps there are new plateaus to reach, even greater heights to which I must ascend." IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted April 05, 2014 04:59 PM
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Originally posted by CatMote:
aw...i feel the opposite!
youll always be good enough for me! im a man with venus in pisces, mars and moon in pisces too.
its weird how you say youll never be good enough...VIP is all about acceptance and love of everybody. maybe thats its downfall.
i can understand about cheaters though. ive never cheated before but i can see the temptation. we pisces influenced individuals are so caught up in feelings we might forget about the real world. is your venus afflicted by any means? just curious, because that view differs so drastically from mine lol
Oh no, I meant the person dating the VIP will never be good enough, because we are always looking for that pinnacle of "perfection" knowing damn well it doesn't exists! Yes I believe my Venus is afflicted. Any planet that has a stressful aspect to Mars or Saturn is considered afflicted correct? I have Mars in Libra (which isn't great in and of it's self) opposite Venus in Pisces..I also have Neptune squaring my moon, venus, and Mars...good times! IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted April 05, 2014 05:58 PM
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The ones I know have all been cheaters. Keep in mind that I only know 10 guys with this placement. I'm sure there are loyal guys out there with this placement.
The honest ones tell you flat out they're not interested in a relationship, or if you insist will aim for an open one. Their gentle ways, however, may trick you into thinking you can change 'em. I've seen it, then she cries and complains how disrespectful he is. Sagittarius & Scorpios are scandalous, but Pisces from what I've observed has the most insatiable sexual appetite. Due to the Neptunian fog this isn't obvious to the naked eye, but their ability to rack up lovers is astounding. Sex, Drugs, Rock & Roll. How is it that two of the three are credited to Neptune, and the other Mars? Is it possible that along with drugs, and music, Neptune is also a ruler of sex?? IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted April 05, 2014 06:43 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
The honest ones tell you flat out they're not interested in a relationship, or if you insist will aim for an open one. Their gentle ways, however, may trick you into thinking you can change 'em. I've seen it, then she cries and complains how disrespectful he is.Sagittarius & Scorpios are scandalous, but Pisces from what I've observed has the most insatiable sexual appetite. Due to the Neptunian fog this isn't obvious to the naked eye, but their ability to rack up lovers is astounding. [b]Sex, Drugs, Rock & Roll. How is it that two of the three are credited to Neptune, and the other Mars? Is it possible that along with drugs, and music, Neptune is also a ruler of sex?? [/B]
You are absolutely right I happen to know one of the *honest* ones and he flat out says he's not interested in being with anyone. I don't think it's necessarily that a guy is lying about wanting a relationship..it could be they are being pulled in 2 different directions. I can attest to that as I'm the same way. I've even tried the open relationship thing and I didn't too much care for it..so I'm pretty much stuck between a rock and a hard place..either be totally alone and be all whoa is me, be with someone and all domesticated while being miserable with the same person after my feelings for them have come and gone OR have a casual thing where I only see the person occasionally and they don't live with me..but I can tell you right now that won't be fulfilling enough for me either..you guys see where I'm going with this *some* of us VIP's are just extremely hard to please and are not even sure what we want half of the time. The only advice I have is if you are considering dating a VIP PLEASE take it slow..feel them out first because they'll happily rush into something if you allow them too..then when they become disillusioned by who you REALLY are they'll leave..some may come back and others won't. IP: Logged |
ash20
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posted April 06, 2014 01:07 AM
When they love you you can do no wrong in their eyes.IP: Logged |
FireMoon
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posted April 06, 2014 01:31 AM
Well... I've seen it play out from the beginning stages with my Aqua ex from high school who I stayed friends with over the years (and sometimes in a very confused place between friends and lovers or just fwb)My observation from him only... is that yes before me he was madly in love with someone he idealized but who ultimately broke his heart, which he never truly got over and when I couldn't live up to his unrealistically high expectations or be a good enough replacement he cheated and ended things in a very cruel way ( although he also has a t square with Sun opp Moon and square Pluto- I really know how to pick them lol) so maybe that was traumatizing and explains some of my own relationship issues, but I did still gravitate towards it. Anyway since then he's had a series of short lived flings or relationships that involve deception one way or another So yeah I think VIP can sometimes want a fairytale or nothing at all and have no problem lying or dropping ppl like they're nothing to chase after the next big fantasy. But.... I can't hate too much since my progressed venus is in Pisces and after all the highs and lows and disillusionment I've been through too I can see how ppl get to that point lol Kind of reminds me of this Lil Wayne song back when he was trying to make rock music lol: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X-sFTGberno IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
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posted April 06, 2014 01:59 AM
I actually like this placement because it is trine(by sign) to mine.If they are intellectually inclined, I'm happy. Otherwise, i just find them extremely confusing and confused. IP: Logged |
Jo B
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posted April 06, 2014 10:01 AM
What about guys with Moon in Pisces? Similar or a bit more emotional than Venus is? Are they potential cheaters too, especially if it trines their Sun in Scorpio?IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted April 06, 2014 12:07 PM
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Originally posted by Jo B:
What about guys with Moon in Pisces? Similar or a bit more emotional than Venus is? Are they potential cheaters too, especially if it trines their Sun in Scorpio?
My very best guy friend who is like my brother (my venus falls in his 4th hehe) has moon in Pisces and I would NEVER date him either. His Sun is scorpy and rising is in Sag..but anyway he will rush to be in a relationship quicker than you can say the word..buuut then be miserable and constantly talk to other women via social networking and text things like that. I think he's only physically cheated once..maybe more, but he only told me about the one time. To be real, I would just stay away from anything Pisces if you're not used to the energy...it's quite fickle.
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